I just read this from a user today:
"Very shortly I was having a wonderful orgasm. It felt just like a regular one, except I didn't ejaculate. It was great!"
I have to say I've not experienced this, just a like a regular orgasm. I guess what I've been having isn't quite what he experiences, is this how others describe what happens in a session when experiencing and 'O'?
@inhope I have experienced this once, like a regular orgasm, except no ejaculate. It is great and would love to experience it again...but so far not succesfull. Normal O etc also great but not as good as that one. I have an Aneros Helix Syn since 2 years.
Do you recall how you did it? And why you can't again? What are your sessions like now then?
For a couple of months I have been having so many failed attempts. It often starts with promise but within a few minutes it is gone.
Today though, I lubed up well and used my Eupho Syn. Almost at once the things began to work and I was getting the most wonderful dry-o that went on for the best part of 45 minutes. The sheer pleasure that was enemating from my abdomen and prostate area was unbelievable. I became rather noisy and did a lot of moaning and gasping . My penis too was very hard with contractions coming from the base as if I was ejaculating. I decided to end it as it was getting too much for me and I didnt want to over work it, intending to return again later.
I was also very relieved that it seemed to take off again as I was getting worried that I would not be able to experience it again. Difficult to know if you are having a powerful Dry-o or a Super-O.
Was it ever floppy, or did you feel pleasure without it being hard? i find that the two are not mutually exclusive and even when my thoughts are SO far away from my penis, it gets hard the second the prostate is touched, at most times i feel as if I've not got a hard on but if i move my body... i find out i do.
An important question @tomasheen what was your technique, if any? I've been trying more toward the do nothing approach?
Hi Inhope. Yea mine is simple and it's the only way for me. Lie on my left side with right leg bent upwars to a lot 90 degrees and resting on a cushion to leave some penis clearance. Tried other positions to no avail. When it works, it's great. Has me moaning and smiling/laughing. Penis gets hard and I enjoy the rising erection so much. Maybe that's my failure reason but I find the erection process is fantastic that I just wait for it to go down again. Then I start it again! It probably against the rules, but so what, it makes me so happy and excited.
Sorry Inhope, I didn't answer your question,! No I don't feel pleasure with it floppy. My thoughts are on my penis just waiting for the beginning of the erection. When it starts, I'm in heaven! I'm sure many of the readers would say that I'm doing it all the wrong way. Remember " Penis Not!" But I'm happy with it.
Dude you described it exactly like my sessions and my experiences! One day though this 'method' will stop being as pleasurable and eventually will stop alltogether and on that day you will want answers, just like I do.
I have managed to seperate my penis from my sessions mentally at least, but physically it's still connected and necessary for pleasure go be felt. Nobody except you here seems to get that!
That position For me it pushes on my testicls too much, I also can't Find a pillow large enough to rest my leg on. Does it not work the same if you lie on your left side and bring your left leg up instead? Or why not both legs?
@inhope, I think the point in all the suggested positions is adjusting the physical body so that the Aneros tool touches the right nerves on the prostate. My right side is hopeless my left side is really good. The difficult some have may be because like the veins on the back of the hand the nerves are not quite in the same position on each person ( or even on each hand). This may also be why you (and I) have some difficulty getting over the hill. Little by little I feel that my body is compensation for my nerve position and that given time it will work really great. I believe the same adjustment is happening to you. I sense this because we are having good sensations, from time to time. I have to allow for the internal preparation for "rewiring". I have a lot more thoughts on this, and yes, it is annoying and frustrating but unfortunately it will take as long as it takes. I believe it is worth hanging in there. The rewards will be huge.
May the coming year be really great for you.
I would rate the pleasure of my super Os about 400% greater then an ejaculatory orgasm.My best ever lasted 13 minutes with several minutes drifting back to earth.
I don't think my Super Os are better than my traditional orgasms. Nor do I think my traditional orgasms are better than my Super Os. Mind you, I've had involuntary (not self induced) A-less that last for over an hour, many a time. The two Os are equally as good. They compliment each other. One must have balance between the two. If balance is not achieved and maintained, one will have major issues.
I've never had dry rhythmic ejaculatory pumpings, but I have had an orgasm that had the same pleasure characteristics as a traditional O, but much longer and more intense. (This is the one I wrote about in "my first super-o" tread.)
But I've experienced so many different sensations now, that I don't even know what the hell super-o means any more. I'm hoping it's an out-of-control escalation of the deep sensations I'm enjoying more recently, which are weirdly like mid-ejaculation feelings, from inside my lower abdomen. It's like one component of an ejaculatory orgasm was separated from the rest, and instead of being a spike of pleasure, the pleasure is floating and bobbing around, weaker, but constant, with wave-like rises and falls.
Anyone relate to that?
Do you know understand my misgivings about this while experience, some of you saying its 400% better that trad o's, some say it's nowehere near as good, some says it pumps like ejacs and some says it doesn't. I really don't think the same two people will experience the same thing.
Confusing, misleading, puzzlement, inconsistency. That's what I am getting here.
@inhope, Welcome to the human race. I can see why it is so confusing. Human reproduction is sexual, that means there are unlimited (well sort of) variations in the offspring. It is not a black and white world of children but infinite shades of grey world of adults. The teenage world well - a mess! What this means is that there are no two people with the same experience. Even identical twins will not look at or do exactly the same thing at the same time. On the forum there may be two members who have a 'super O', it is unlikely their brain will interpret it in the same way. The myriad of anatomical variations may cause one to seem to ejaculate and the other not. This is why there is such a multiplicity of experience described. The forum may give pointers as to what worked for others and how they interpreted the experience. They are only guidelines and they are personal. What those on the journey can surmise it that it is worth persevering with. (see posts above)
It wasn't a complaint so much as an observation, yes I understand this in its very nature will be a source of difference in interpretation. Offering tips and guidance is great, I encourage it.
But there are those who talk like what they seem to think is not the case, that a super o is a universal sequence and series of events and feelings. Those that say the milestones/wiki are to be followed to the letter, even though it's a guide, subjective and constantly being updated.
@inhope, I absolutely agree. So far the milestones have been more of a put off than a help. I am just not traveling along that path. I also agree that others ahead in their experiences may not allow for the huge variations of us still on the way and can be one eyed on their approach.
All the best for 2015
@Clenchy
I relate to what you say, regarding the wave sensations you feel. You also made a poignant statement when you said," I don't know what the hell super-o means anymore."
@inhope
Perhaps you are becoming overly involved in others' experiences. Only you can improve or impair your journey. During my time on the forum (11 months), you have been given erudite advice repeatedly. Hopefully your situation will improve, but over analysis will not serve you well.
@isvara
You speak wise words sir!