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I typically lurk, but there seems to be a good gathering of sexual philosophy and general 'awareness' going on with Aneros users, and honestly I think we need more of that in this world....

Anyways, I am a nervous, anxious person, I have a terrible habit of chewing my fingernails/cuticles, fidgeting, pacing, cigarettes (day 7 strong), you name it. I always fight things I cannot control, and get caught in loops with these battles I have no chance of winning...

The point; when I read on Aneros forums over and over about how you have to "let go," and "relax," I knew I was in trouble. I have had Aneros experience on and off for at least a year, only recently (past 2 months) really diving into the implications of its use.

So, trying to relax and do contractions and watch arousing porn (hard to come by for me, perhaps too desensitized from years of quick penile arousal?) has not been working (at most a butt buzz, maybe a feeling of fullness and heavy breathing, then quickly losing it)...
This morning, after not getting much sleep through the night, I slip in the MGX, well lubed (water based lube + coconut oil), and lay down tired and ready to sleep.

Sure enough, after relaxing enough to overcome the feeling of the newly inserted device, I drift off..

Am I asleep, I'm not sure, I feel the MGX shifting, soon I'm shaking, starting in my core, then as I focus on pulling in the device (or letting my body pull it in), waves of increasing intensity. Then, my whole body quivering, I feel like I'm moaning (though I might just be dreaming), it's certainly orgasmic. I'm floating around my room, (out of body experience?) whilst shaking and moaning and coming. I feel a bit calmer, a bit less shaking, then I feel my body pull in the Aneros and start again (no sense of time). I counted 4 or 5 of these orgasms, though I have no idea what physically happened. Then I wake up, its been about an hour, no residue on the sheets, absolutely confused and excited with what just happened.

Thoughts? Have you guys tried taking a nap after insertion/relaxation? It felt like my body really took control (as opposed to me trying to force control), which I hope will eventually translate into my waking self being able to control the sensations.

Additionally, I've had experience with vivid/lucid dreams before. In fact, I've had feelings of what I "thought" a prostate orgasm might be like in dreams before...

PLURR unto you all! Have a nice day!!


   
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B Mayfield
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meta4,

The Sleep method has a long history here in the forum. While this falls outside of the manufacturer's recommendations, many users have found success having their first Super-O's with this method. Try googling "sleeping with the Aneros" (the forum search feature is a little problematic) and you should find some threads on it.

Although this is good in the short term, the challenge is to produce results in the waking state. Unfortunately, since you are sleep prior to the orgasm there's little insight gained into the process of how the orgasm is generated. That said there are several important things that do come of it. First, it effectively settles any doubt that you might have had about the reality of the phenomenon. Secondly, the physical sensation of the experience can be used as a "sense memory" that you can mentally focus upon to help build your arousal and create waking Super-O's.

Cheers,

BF Mayfield

ps. great user name! 😉


   
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Fascinating. I think you were 'out of body', and I'm quite jealous.

I have been trying lucid dream or OBE for months without success but have read a lot about it and it sounds very much to me as if you were out of body which is possibly exactly the same as lucid dreaming (and perhaps your experience might be best described as a false awakening) - it is supposed to be easiest after waking and falling back to sleep in the morning, hence the 'wake back to bed' technique of lucid dream/OBE induction.

Of course most people that lucid dream have dream sex and it's supposed to be out of this world if you do it right! I suspect that you were triggered to dream about your orgasm by having the aneros inserted. Absolutely no difference between a waking and sleeping orgasm of course. If I were you I would try the same thing again and hope it happens again. Perhaps even set your alarm early (4am), insert the aneros, think about orgasming whilst drifting off and see what happens.


   
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