why i say i don't understand is because i can get pleasure just by massaging different parts of my body and sometimes its strong pleasure and sometimes its not and i do that without the aneros in. but when i try the same thing with the aneros inserted you would had thought that the pleasure would be better but for some reason its not.
i sometimes have better aneroless sessions, then with the device in, who knows.
You're still an new user to Aneros toys. You have to give your body and mind time to re-wire and figure out the sensations.