Discreet ordering

both of mine i ordered came in the mail ...not ups or fed ex...kave it sent to a trusted friends home or where u work...no indication on the small box of whats inside...

Tim760,

“Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive!” - Sir Walter Scott
First off, before you re-launch your journey of self discovery, I would advise you to get your explanation and rationale well sorted to explain to your wife this toy. While you may be able to conceal your use of the Aneros for a good length of time, you know she will eventually find you out, they almost always do! There will just be too many clues to cleverly disguise forever, so prepare yourself to divulge the truth to her. It will ultimately be best if you initiate the discussion with your reasons for trying this device before you are discovered inflagrante delicto.
Secondly, because the deception you are about to engage in is likely to create guilt feelings, it may be difficult or impossible to truly enjoy the experiences possible with this massager.
Thirdly, as a relatively new user, the Eupho model may not be an appropriate model, I would suggest either the Helix or the MGX again.
Fourthly, as far as ordering your Aneros covertly, how about doing it through a discreet friend, whom you can trust to not open the package when it is delivered to their address. You might say it is a secret surprise present for someone (they don’t need to know the someone is you).
Your fears and concerns are shared by many others who find themselves in similar situations as the poll – “Do others know? ” - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1990 indicates. If your relationship with your wife is good, you may find her more accepting of this activity than you think, but you do need to have the good rationale worked out ahead of time!

why are u hiding it from her?

I have ordered a number of things that I don't think my wife would understand, nor appreciate. I have them delivered to my work address. They always come discreetly packaged and I've never had a coworker get nosy about it.

man..you need to tell her..i told my wife before i ordered my progasm...since shes already been using her toys in my butt it was no big deal...like oh really...hmmm?

if your gonna hide it from her...she'll find out then a major blow-up may insue...i'd just tell her..look...i'm concerned about my prostate...i wanna keep it working...it's functioning properly keeps us being able to fuck hun...accept it or not..i'm gonna do this...

When I told my wife, I said, "I bought a medical device that helps with prostate health that after it was invented, they found that it had positive sexual side effects." I figured it was smart to start by telling the truth and first mention that it was a medical device rather than a sex toy. Also, mentioning that it was designed by doctors took away any worry that it was dangerous. Since my wife is multi-orgasmic, she couldn't really fault me for wanting the same for myself.

I've only owned my Helix for a short time and only recently told her so I haven't had a chance yet to use it with her present. She's open to that. We'll see after I use it with her present if she is still comfortable with that or if she would prefer me to use it alone. Either way, she's OK with me owning and using it so I don't have to hide it. She also doesn't feel threatened by it or think that I want to use it to replace her. I told her that many have reported it improves intercourse as it improves a man's sexual health.

thats it man...don't sneak a pluke...be up front...