During my latest session I was experiencing some small orgasms and p waves. I was using my Progasm Jr and sometimes it just does it’s own thing and I can feel involuntary movements of it massaging me as if it had a mind of its own. As it was doing this I felt an urge to gently part my butt cheeks with my hands, this seemed to pull the Aneros out slightly but my anus had other ideas and it became a bit of a tug of war as it tried to hold on to it. My anus fluttered and twitched and I became aware of a feeling starting to build centred around it, I was compelled to move my hands faster and faster in small circular movements as the feeling increased. I felt that I was approaching an ejaculation but my penis was limp. I couldn’t hold onto the feeling and it faded, but it was very interesting. I’ve not felt anything like it before and am wondering if it could have been an approaching anal orgasm.
It certainly sounds like your progressing in the right direction, just keep it going and let it happen. Try not to chase it.
So exciting when you feel like a spectator watching the aneros and your body reacting with each other.
You are actually on to something that is a sexual aid: spreading buttcheeks. I read somewhere where a woman posted that she gives her man head while he's standing and reaches behind him to grab each cheek and pull them apart, but she holds on really close to his anus. Like she's gently "pulling his anus apart." For some reason this made him blow his load extremely hard, he came/orgasmed very very hard from this.
So, I had to try. My wife was giving me a BJ and I was kneeling with my legs open and half way through it I grabbed my cheeks like I read about and OMG it was like my anus was trying to keep itself together and it made for amazing involuntary contractions and I came so damn hard, it was one for the books! I'm not prolapsing, don't get me wrong, my anus stays closed during this. But that pulling apart feeling made my anus flex very intensely and hard, which really augmented the pulsing that builds up to orgasm.
I know there's something to this! And it probably helps with Aneros play too. While lying on the floor during prostate sessions I sometimes pull my cheeks apart, it helps and feels cool, but not like when I have nothing in me and my penis is being stimulated.
Well that’s really something, thanks for the feedback. Coincidentally, just last night during a session using my Helix Syn, I thought I would try it again and see if I got the same reaction. It did happen but with a bit less intensity than last time. I felt the same sensations but they did not last and faded. However shortly afterwards I experienced a tremendous orgasm, could be the strongest I have had so far.
@Harper @techpump I agree with both of you men. I have often pulled my cheeks apart while lying on my back. Thinking that it would let the device move easier. I don't know whether it does, but it does intensify the feelings. @techpump I have never tried it during lovemaking. I shall report back to you guys soon! Thanks for the tip! And wishing you, Harper, continued success.