If your like me you observered for a long time before getting the courage to sign in, get a user name, and start contributing. I am sure there are lots of people that could help out in many ways and I for one would like to hear your stories of success and anything else that might help us all in this awesome journey.
I was a little skeptical at first that I would start getting emails or pop ups but that is not the case.
So CUM on in!!!
I agree New Guy, I would bet most of us would be amazed at how many people simply lurk around without participating in any dialogue.
The water's fine!
Buster
yup, you can never have too many people here. So stop lurking, and get posting 😛
I wanna hear all!!
John
I'm not particularly vocal mostly because I don't feel that I have anything new to share. I've used the Helix for approximately 6 months now, and a few days ago I took the plunge and purchased the Progasm.
I really like it, but there are times when I feel that it's creating an uncomfortable pressure on my prostate. I believe part of my problem is that I tend not to be very aroused during my sessions and I seem to have difficulty maintaining what arousal I do have. I guess I focus too much on what I'm doing with it and not enough on breathing, relaxation, and state of mind.
There have been one or two times that I felt like I was "on the edge" but I thought that several times in the past with the Helix and I appear to be wrong. I have since gotten even closer but it always feels like it fades and I can never get that close again in that session.
I find that frequently I lay on my waterbed and switch positions or get up and walk around. I have tried to relax, empty my mind, and go with the flow, but I wonder if I'm doing something wrong. I have read all the excellent stickies and individual success stories, but it's still not the same as having first hand knowledge of what to expect and how to get there.
I'm not giving up though. Even if I never experience a super-o the Aneros has given me sensations that are quite delicious and I have been able to encourage sensations when I'm not using it at work. It's a bit disappointing for me that those sensations have diminished since I first started using the Aneros, but I'll keep at it.
So I just got my aneros in the mail, along with the fleshlight. I was very excited to use them. I followed all the instructions for use. I had never had anything in my ass before, and was suprised at how easy it was to insert with the proper amount of lube. I layed on my bed for awhile (maybe 5 minutes), and then tried some contractions. I could feel it, but not much seemed to be really happening. Though a 'hands free' device, I found that when I manually pushed down (or up) on the handle, that I got a pretty good sensation. It was semi-orgasmic and accompanied by a little bit of pre-cum.
That was as far as I could get as far as pleasure went. There was no erection during this, but it was easy to get one. When I inserted into to fleshlight, it was great. I've used alot of masturbators, but the fleshlight is by far the closest to making love that I've found. I'm not sure if it was the fleshlight or the aneros, but my ejaculation was fairly large and powerful.
This has been repeated a few times since, basically the same. Is there a danger of overusing it? How long should I wait between sessions? any tother tips!?