Couple sex with aneros toy: joys and problems

I am now on SR 18 and I feel calm and ready to burst all at the same time.
I do have a question...how did you figure out how to precum...I currently dont produce much precum...barely a drop from a 2 hour session.

@darkbond Oh wow SR 18!!! Crazy. I have only lasted about 12 days tops so far with SR.

I never even knew that guys could "leak" precum when they are horny until 6 months ago when I started reading this forum. For me precum was a rare occurrence that happened when I surfed to close to the PONR for too long during sex, and even then, I wasn't sure if it was precum or just a little cum escaping. Now I seem to have figured out a way to squeeze my cowpers gland, but it is ONLY during stimulation of my erect penis (and never during hands free aneros sessions... yet). To trigger it while masturbating, I make sure I am very horny, then I bear down while squeezing my pc muscles. Actually I am not really aware of which muscles are which down there, but I give them about a 50% squeeze and a 50% push at the same time, till I locate the right sensation that tells me I am stimulating my cowpers gland. Depending on how horny I am I get out more or less precum (with a partner or after an hour long aneros session it is a lot), then it sort of dries up. It's sexy and feels great, like a nice plateau, and when I am practicing semen retention it is a way to masturbate and have a mild orgasmic release without emptying out the semen. It makes me wish I was one of those heavy precum flowing guys... Next time you masturbate try it and let me know if it works!

@divine_oblivion well wow and wow again! I have over 15 years of Super-T experience and have literally done everything under the sun to my penis while an Aneros has been inserted, with or without my wife.

First to address your "wet non-orgasm" I am confident that is just the toy milking your prostate and making seminal fluid come out of you. No need for alarm, it's actually really healthy to do and certainly relieves pressure. I do not milk out fluid that often from just Aneros alone; I usually need a g-spot dildo or something a bit more aggressive or forceful working my prostate. The consistency, color and volume varies every single time I've ever milked. It is highly unpredictable. I do not know if it will happen, and when it does, it's different from the time before. Since you get so worked up for quite a while before sex happens, then it's a very natural reaction to your heightened stimulation and desires for the toy to milk out your stored up jizz during that session. When it comes out I only feel it moving through my urethra and there is nothing except a pleasurable feeling that makes me say "ahhhhhh!!! How nice and relieving!" There is nothing orgasmic-feeling about it for me, but could be for others!

I didn't see you describing the position you are in during sex while wearing either your Eupho or Helix Syn. Wearing a toy is difficult for me during sex, and it's for several reasons. Mainly, when I'm erect, my prostate seems to be either bigger or it moves slightly and the contact between my Aneros (whatever one I have in me) and prostate feels absolutely different. It is both more intense and more passive at the same time. While my cock is being stimulated I can feel the toy moving against really small, specific spots on my prostate, it's like it's super aware of the smallest stimulation; when I'm not hard it doesn't feel like this. Because of the change in my ass when I'm hard, the toy is much more easily able to slip or shoot out of me like a rocket! Especially when I'm on my knees behind my wife, or certain missionary variations. On my back it's perfect and stays in me all the time.

One thing you could do is try to get a toy that is shorter, maybe that will be gentler on your prostate? Also try to switch up your position to see if there is relief. Have you tried other positions? I'm willing to bet you can get better sensations if you try other positions. The #1 toy for really easy anal/prostate stim during sex are the Peridise models. They stay in, they are not aggressive at all, they can deal with my erection and internal changes that come with it, and they assist my orgasm/ejaculation most perfectly and wonderfully!! Not too strong, not too weak, just right. Besides the Peridise, my go-to is the Helix Trident Syn, it literally "anchors" in me and does not slip/fall/shoot out regardless of what I do, even when I'm in a position that will surely make it leave my body, it stays put!! And it assists my O/ejac in the most amazing of ways, I cannot sing the praises of this wonder of a toy more 🙂

Sex with the Aneros in is not practiced by everyone, or even suggested or recommended either. If you are willing to try something that could honestly transform your orgasmic potential and experience for life, get your partner to ride you until you cum uncontrollably while you have a toy in you. it is something that I cannot handle that often, if maybe only once every few years, because it is sooooooooooo incredibly powerful! Last time my wife rode me until I was done and done like this I cried before I came and didn't stop for maybe 5+ minutes afterwards. Emotional x10!!

I look forward to your adventures, keep us posted!!

@techpump thank you for your long well thought response.

i think you are right about the prostate just being milked after all that stimulation, that it is probably nothing to worry about. For me it is definitely the color and consitency of semen.

i didn’t describe the position where my toy pushes the strongest against my prostate. It is definitely doggy style, and last night I had a strange experience where I felt the same sensations of pressure against my prostate but WITHOUT the toy in, while having sex doggystyle. once again this was after 2 hours of non penis-in-vagina sex, so I was really aroused. So maybe I have always had this sensation to some extent but ignored it before my recent rewiring (6 months ago). And the toy probably amplifies it a lot.

i will try my recently acquired peridises In couple play once I’ve gotten the hang of them alone.

the last thing you described sounds incredible. I rarely cum inside a partner, and haven’t done it with a partner riding me in a couple years. This is because I prefer giving my partners as many orgasms as possible before I cum (and often I choose not to have an ejaculatory orgasm), as i lose all interest in sexual play during my refractory period. So when it is my turn, my partner is usually dunzo, with no desire to hop on top of me. (Although certain women are insatiable, they like to wait till after I cum to say that my cumming was hot and they are ready to start again... really???) But I will try both orgasming with her riding, and the same with toy in. You’ve convinced me!

@techpump thank you for your long well thought response.

i think you are right about the prostate just being milked after all that stimulation, that it is probably nothing to worry about. For me it is definitely the color and consitency of semen.

i didn’t describe the position where my toy pushes the strongest against my prostate. It is definitely doggy style, and last night I had a strange experience where I felt the same sensations of pressure against my prostate but WITHOUT the toy in, while having sex doggystyle. once again this was after 2 hours of non penis-in-vagina sex, so I was really aroused. So maybe I have always had this sensation to some extent but ignored it before my recent rewiring (6 months ago). And the toy probably amplifies it a lot.

i will try my recently acquired peridises In couple play once I’ve gotten the hang of them alone.

the last thing you described sounds incredible. I rarely cum inside a partner, and haven’t done it with a partner riding me in a couple years. This is because I prefer giving my partners as many orgasms as possible before I cum (and often I choose not to have an ejaculatory orgasm), as i lose all interest in sexual play during my refractory period. So when it is my turn, my partner is usually dunzo, with no desire to hop on top of me. (Although certain women are insatiable, they like to wait till after I cum to say that my cumming was hot and they are ready to start again... really???) But I will try both orgasming with her riding, and the same with toy in. You’ve convinced me!

yes man, give it a try! Besides, it's only trying it once just to see, you can have the sex you prefer later 😉 The way my wife and I view sex is like this: if the mood strikes us to try something random, planned or whatever, we give it a go. If it was great, we'll try again in the future. If it wasn't what was expected, we both had orgasms regardless and got off so it's no loss! She may cum harder than normal giving you a major ride like that...who knows, you both may be entering a new level of sexual pleasure and connection through trying new ways to expand your orgasms. My wife and I surely continue to grow closer as our orgasmic potential continues to grow and climb upwards over the years. Thanks again for reading and taking some tips to heart! I hope things are wonderful and explosive for you both 🙂

@techpump Oh I will totally give it a try! I mean, like you said the worst case scenario is that I have a “regular” orgasm. Its funny my desire (our desires) to create an ideal orgasmic situation, like saving all the best bits of a meal for one last epic bite. Sometimes it gets technical, like aneros in, cockring on, her hand wrapped around my balls and the base of my cock, other hand on throat, clothespins on nipples, teeth biting armpit, me telling her she is lovely while masturbating and holding a tit in my hand... the mega combo... i need to get back to the basics! In any case it’s great to hear that you have such an sexually open relationship with your wife. Good on y’all, you’re a lucky couple.

Just a note here. I ended at SR 23. Wife was studying. I retired to bed but decided to have some aless. It got me so hot and bothered that when she came to bed I greeted her with my hard on and the rest was history. The orgasm was such an epic release and there was so much sexual energy wound up in me I literally had to wank off again a couple hours later when I woke up.

@techpump just gave that a go. at the end of a very long couple session including multiple orgasms for all (dry for me and VERY wet for her), I asked her to ride me till traditional orgasm with my toy in (it had been in and out all evening). It was incredibly intense, and since she just continued rocking back and forth longer than I would have moved had I been in control, I just kept cumming. Like, after ejaculation it felt like I had a whole wave of dry orgasm(s). The whole thing probably lasted a minute. I will try this many more times! Thanks for the tip 🙂 that’s exactly why I am in this forum, to get good advice and ideas, and hopefully give some back.

@techpump just gave that a go. at the end of a very long couple session including multiple orgasms for all (dry for me and VERY wet for her), I asked her to ride me till traditional orgasm with my toy in (it had been in and out all evening). It was incredibly intense, and since she just continued rocking back and forth longer than I would have moved had I been in control, I just kept cumming. Like, after ejaculation it felt like I had a whole wave of dry orgasm(s). The whole thing probably lasted a minute. I will try this many more times! Thanks for the tip 🙂 that’s exactly why I am in this forum, to get good advice and ideas, and hopefully give some back.

YES YES YES!!!! that's EXACTLY what I'm talking about! She literally "forces" you to keep cumming, and you got the dry Os afterwards, I've only had that a few times ever. It's so intense and so powerful to cum like that, but man, how awesome. Sounds like such a loving and wonderful sex session you two had, congrats on the spectacular love making!! So glad I had some useful tips and advice 🙂 Thanks man!