I’m new to prostate play, or even anal play at all. I’m currently 31, I’m 6’1 (6’2 on a good day) and I’m A heavy guy. Not to long ago, my girl friend rubbing my legs and ass as she is prone to rub me often. She got curious and asked to actually put a finger in. So we started researching make anal play, the prostate massage...
That’s what started this whole bit. Now I had actually bought a Aneros, a HelixSyn. Now I’m currently doing some reading, and I see it takes a while for some effects to present themselves. I’ve played with it twice so far.. I’ve had some interesting results. One of those I’ll get to in a minute.
The first thing did, was what everyone said not to do, I kept adjusting it thinking it wasn’t situated correctly, and also my girl was sucking my penis albeit very lightly as like “teasing” and also playing with the Aneros by tapping on the “handle” or the base of the stem. The orgasm that resulted was quite explosive, I felt like I was blasted out of reality for a few minutes. Although Awesome it was a penile orgasm. I want to find this prostate orgasm every article and forum post talks about.
The second time, last night I played solo. I tried not to touch the penis, I tried clenching, I tried laying on either side and on my back... I got an odd sensation one time and messed it up but touching the P-tab... but it felt like a light rapid tapping The was centered I think at the prostate but radiating out all over. The I touched it and it disappeared and nothing I did brought it back, then I fell asleep with it in.
So here the thing, I’m not sure if this is the right fit. You see I’m a heavy guy and unfortunately I have some extra padding where the perineum is located. So the P-tab on the Helix kinda sits in this little pocket of skin close to my anus. Not on flat skin and I feel it might be hindering the helix from doing its job. Or I could be just self conscious and it will just take time. The thing is I don’t really feel it touch the prostate except when I put it in the first time.
Advice? I’m open book, ask anything if you need information to help me, or if you’re just curious.
The internet is a wonderful tool, it lets me tell things to complete strangers with one bit of embarrassment lol.
@Bjorn_87 , Welcome to the Aneros Forums, I think it's great that you and your girlfriend are beginning this wonderful journey together. It's also great that you are doing some reading (I hope that includes the introductory PM I sent you) and you've already experienced a Super-T !
I want to find this prostate orgasm every article and forum post talks about.
If you're referring to the Super-O it's more like a case of the Super-O finding you while you play in the land of prostate O's, they're there stalking you, unseen, ready to pounce when you least expect them and that's a key point to remember, have no expectations.
I got an odd sensation one time and messed it up but touching the P-tab... I touched it and it disappeared and nothing I did brought it back, then I fell asleep with it in.
You are going to experience many new sensations on this journey, some you may experience once and never again, others will become familiar yet ever changing, embrace them all and the Super-O will find you quicker.
I’m not sure if this is the right fit. You see I’m a heavy guy and unfortunately I have some extra padding where the perineum is located. So the P-tab on the Helix kinda sits in this little pocket of skin close to my anus. Not on flat skin and I feel it might be hindering the helix from doing its job. Or I could be just self conscious and it will just take time. The thing is I don’t really feel it touch the prostate except when I put it in the first time.
Advice?
IMHO, you're just being a little self conscious dealing with the newness of this experience. Some men find the pressure of the P-tab too great and end up providing extra padding to cushion it. Other men have found the P-tab doesn't even touch their perineum so they miss out on some of the added stimulation it can provide, yet they are still able to achieve prostate orgasms in spite of this. I don't think you should worry about it, most likely your Helix is in fact contacting your prostate as evidenced by the "...Awesome..." Super-T you experienced. The journey toward the Super-O is more than 90% a mental excursion and less than 10% a physical one (please see & @SteelColdiron 's thread Aneros: The Essential Mind State for a little insight.) Your Aneros, while an important part of that, is not the over riding cause.
Good Vibes to You !
Thank you, very informative
Thank you so much for responding, very informative. So that was a Super-T... Awesome, I plan on using it when I can. I think the next thing I’m going to do is the “Do nothing” method just to see what happens... Anyway thanks again, I might even blog about all of this.
The Super-O is finding you, while you play in the land of prostate O's.
They're there stalking you, unseen, ready to pounce when you least expect them and that's a key point to remember, have no expectations. You are going to experience many new sensations on this journey, embrace them all and the Super-O will find you quicker.
What a wonderful catchy picture, nobody does it better! I love it, thank you, @rumel!
The journey is namely not reading manuals and switching buttons,
but indeed should be an almost childishly playful voyage of discovery.
And the best is yet to come (to you)! Let's play and let it happen! 😀
The Super-O is finding you, while you play in the land of prostate O's.
They're there stalking you, unseen, ready to pounce when you least expect them and that's a key point to remember, have no expectations. You are going to experience many new sensations on this journey, embrace them all and the Super-O will find you quicker.
What a wonderful catchy picture, nobody does it better! I love it, thank you, @rumel!
The journey is namely not reading manuals and switching buttons,
but indeed should be an almost childishly playful voyage of discovery.
And the best is yet to come (to you)! Let's play and let it happen! 😀
The Super-O is finding you, while you play in the land of prostate O's.
They're there stalking you, unseen, ready to pounce when you least expect them and that's a key point to remember, have no expectations.
You are going to experience many new sensations on this journey, embrace them all and the Super-O will find you quicker.
What a wonderful catchy picture, nobody does it better! I love it, thank you, @rumel!
The journey is namely not reading manuals and switching buttons,
but indeed should be an almost childishly playful voyage of discovery.
And the best is yet to come (to you)! Let's play and let it happen! 😀
The Super-O is finding you, while you play in the land of prostate O's.
They're there stalking you, unseen, ready to pounce when you least expect them and that's a key point to remember, have no expectations.
You are going to experience many new sensations on this journey, embrace them all and the Super-O will find you quicker.
What a wonderful catchy picture, nobody does it better! I love it, thank you, @rumel!
The journey is namely not reading manuals and switching buttons,
but indeed should be an almost childishly playful voyage of discovery.
And the best is yet to come (to you/to us)! Let's play and let it happen! 😀