Coaching

why don't you give us a sense of how he helped?

specifics would be great.

darwin

Have you seen Jayia's Tantra video clips? She talks a lot of sense.

http://www.liberator.com/videos.php?channel=9&video=115

OMG i absolutely love that site 🙂 Nice woman, lots of truth. Just what i like.

Long time "browser" that found something helpful to share with others. I've had a tantra coach for a while and we talked about the aneros for a few sessions. He has been able to coach me through sessions that included aneros use. It was a tremendous help to have someone present focused on helping improve the experience. For some it may seem strange and others might find it stimulating but figured it might be of benefit for most. It's a new twist on the journey in both fronts, tantra and the aneros usage.

So do you actually go to a trainer or he comes to you? In the same room? And does he touch or just talk and make suggestions?

Yes he is in the same room - in his studio. You can probably find one by simply searching tantra coaching. It is of course a very professional arrangement so there is no touching just coaching, It may be as simple as "relax the jaw" or "watch the tension in your legs" or "be a witness to what's happening" "breathe from your stomach" etc. Pretty much the things you'll find on this forum but it's difficult to know as you are immersed. It originally started with tantra only but then later we talked about the aneros and it helped when I incorporated that as well.

Tantra is a powerful thing and both this usage and tantra require the same relaxation levels to get the energy flowing. I can see where the coach would provide significant benefits if one can get past the shared experience. Having orgasms with another guy in the room is certainly another level even though I understand the professional piece.