I've had "clean" sessions but most with a little bit of debris. Luckily, the less-than-clean sessions were solo, but still quite difficult to tolerate, ugh.
I'd like (sorry . . .) very explicit descriptions of cleansing techniques or products. I've never seen/had enema, douche, the bulb and hose product on the site, or others. I read on a colon cleansing (not sexually related) website that it's safe for a newbie to use a small ear syringe to "flush with warm water." I tried it, felt no significant cleansing/expulsion. However, I did feel like I couldn't leave the house for the hole day and may have introduced a bunch of air on accident because . . . well, you can guess.
Wow, this sounds vulgar. But thanks for the info and the future "clean" and less self-conscious (more enjoyable) sessions to come.
"Asking the tough questions leads you to the appropriate answers."
Thank-you all.
Well, the truth of the matter is that if you are indulging in anal play, then you will come across 'debris' from time to time.
Just be sure to try and go to the toilet beforehand and try not to worry about it so much. You can try enemas etc but there's still no absolute guarantee that the same thing won't occur.
use it with a condom
I agree with Ian92 that running across the occasional debris is to be expected. But for those who are nervous about this, I've often recommended a quick rinse. This is not a thorough irrigation of the colon which can be a long and involved process. The following is a topic from my B's Best of Beeline thread located in the sticky section above. This spells it out pretty clearly.
CLEANING OUT WITH ENEMAS
Although a “clean-out” is not strictly necessary prior to using the Aneros (particularly if one is regular, and knows when they’re empty), it may make some users more comfortable by reducing the risk of any “accidents”. Furthermore, for others an enema can be a very pleasant experience in its own right.
The way that I like to approach this is to do an evacuation of the rectum only, without involving the entire bowel if possible. To accomplish this, one must try to avoid doing anything that will get peristalsis (the rhythmic bowel contraction) started. If the bowel becomes irritated and starts contracting, you're more or less committed to clearing out your entire system, which can be time consuming and sometimes unpleasant (cramping). To avoid this I use water ONLY, being careful to keep it as close to 'body temperature' as possible. In terms of the amount that I use, I find that 4 - 6 fluid ounces is sufficient. Again, the idea is not to completely fill the rectum with fluid, but to loosen and help flush out any material that's present. I always lubricate my anus and the enema nozzle to facilitate insertion. I find sitting on the toilet the most convenient place for the cleansing itself. A second application of the same volume can be made if necessary. But you don't want to over do it. Ordinarily, I will follow this with a nice hot shower to get cleaned up and relaxed at the same time.
Bear in mind that the amount of fluid that I’ve suggested is not a lot, it is roughly equivalent to a third to half of the volume of an average soft drink can. But if you think that it's too much, start with a smaller amount. In so far as the equipment for this, you can find bulb syringe type enemas or the “fountain type” at your local drugstore. The latter is really just a hot water bottle that has one end cut off. You just fill and hang the bag and gravity drives the liquid through a tube to the nozzle. The tube has a shut off clip so you can control the flow. For many the fountain type is a good way to go, in that it give you a bit better control the amount that you take in. The bulb type devices on the other hand offer greater convenience (easy to prepare and clean).
Again, all that's necessary is enough fluid to facilitate the evacuation of your rectum, so start small and see what happens. If you do decide on the “fountain type”, you should know that they usually come with a douche nozzle as well, (which I wouldn't attempt to use for this purpose). Make sure to use the enema tip that is short and smooth. Also be certain that the tube is free of any kinks before you start, and that you bleed the line of any air by making sure that water runs free through the tube then stop the flow with the clip. Lubricate the tip of the nozzle and your anus you're ready to go!
Remember to wash all the equipment well before AND after use and make sure everything dries completely before storage (this to prevent the growth of bacteria and mold). In so far as the safety of enemas is concerned, they have been used since the time of the ancient Egyptians for health purposes. It is said that they started the practice after seeing an Ibis (a bird with a long thin bill), take in water and expel it into their hindquarters. So long as one keeps the practice occasional, and is careful to limit the amount fluid that you take in, there shouldn't be any problem. Of course I'm not a doctor, and if you have any particular health concerns you may want to consult with your doctor first.
BF Mayfield
just take a dump then go...put a condom on it...you'll be fine
i agree that fecal matter can dim the enjoyment and perhaps an enema is needed. but i think that with a healty bowell and colon a simple finger wash in the shower will suffice. simply soap your middle finger well and squat and inert the finger into your anus and sweep the canal. rinse lather and repeat. play the p-spot while you are in there. add the first finger if much debris is present. if you cant clean out with a few sweeps you may need and enema. the faucet end hose and needle systems are the best. you must be very careful with them in terms of temp and pressure but are the most effective and very neat and clean and you will barely see a thing.
a clean anus is really a requirement for any anal play, in my opinion. and should be a part of dail;y grooming. enuf said happy sqezzing to all