Clarify SeperationS

Posted by: @tbob

So just to be sure, when you have a orgasm, is the sensations, contractions and ejaculations, 3 different things?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

There have been sessions where I've had what I'd call an orgasm that came with no contractions at all anywhere. Other sessions where the pleasure and contractions seemed to merge into something indistinguishable from one another. Other sessions where contractions happened without any pleasure at all. Ejaculations without orgasm... and various mixes of the above.

They can occur separately, so in that sense they are separate... but for me, the gold standard is exquisitely pleasurable contractions that blur the distinction so much, that it seems impossible. Sometimes it can take the form of some small aspect of a traditional orgasm, but dialed-up to drool-inducing levels.

It's all completely crazy, and just when you think you've learned what the parameters are, they shift in some inconceivable way that makes you question everything. I'm 10+ years into this, and sometimes I write replies to people, giving advice, then delete it because I feel like I don't even know anymore.

It’s a case of all roads lead to the promised land. Yes they are different,but coming at the goal from different angles.

One pitfall we fall into is trying to or expected the recreation of a session next time. They all vary even if it’s ever so slightly. Number,intensity,rough,calm.

No funky orgasm machinery is used,we just learn that there’s more than one way to stoke the fire.

It is difficult to describe the sensations of a prostate orgasm. The pleasure felt is similar to that of a traditional orgasm but at different intensities and very often more pleasant.

Sometimes more subtle and sometimes much more intense. And above all, the pleasure of this type of orgasm lasts much longer. It can last several tens of minutes and invade the whole body.

Personally, I don't have contractions like for an ejaculation. I can have contractions but most of the time they are not rhythmic like for ejaculation. And I find that there are many different types of orgasms.

In my opinion, one of the characteristics of a prostate orgasm is that it should surprise. I am often surprised by its shape, intensity or timing.

 Have come to find that if I concentrate on my anus, I quikly starts to contract as if in orgasm and the sensations are in really ramping up. And the rest starts from there, it moves to my prostate, which starts to contract and from side to side, this used to be without sensation but now the pleasure factor is kicking in. I am trying to abstain from penis touching but I could only take it for so long, the traditionalO was so good, and the build up took like 5 mins. Can hardly wait for my next session, I know I should take a few days off but last night was so good.