Can't get progasm to work

Maybe it is broken!

Anyhow... I am sensing that you are pretty early on in things. There is a lot of learning that must be done. This doesn't happen by accident usually, it has to really be done with your full heart, commitment, and examination.

Some stuff to get you going:

-You need to read a ton of theory. You need to understand what the process is, what experiences others have, how they go about their practices, what the anatomy is, how to stimulate it properly and how it responds. @rumel will probably be around shortly with a laundery list of threads you should read if you are dedicated enough for this.

-You have to be in a special, receptive state of mind. I think you sort of have to approach this from the same mindset that women approach sex. The same sorts of things that turn women on tend to get a man into the right place to be receptive to this. I think you need to cultivate this state over weeks, months, or years, and live part of your life in it. You need to learn to get aroused "in the right way".

-You need to learn about contracting the muscles that control urine flow, the anal sphincter and the muscles around the prostate, and possibly the muscles used for bearing down with the rectum as well (like doing a poo).

-Learn how to create arousal and pleasure by using your entire body and mind. Nipples (the number one thing for a lot of us), fingers drawn across flesh, pelvic rolling, PC contractions in very specific ways, evocative vocalizations, fantasy sensations of a lover (kissing you perhaps), and timed contractions of muscles all help move things along. Paradoxically, you also need to learn to do this stuff without wearing yourself out in a frenzy, but in a gentle, building way

-You can't chase the experience, you sort of encourage it to develop on its own

-I don't think the Progasm is the best model to start on. MGX, Eupho, and Helix are probably much better. The Progasm is probably a model that gives sensations someone already grounded in this can work with.

-You need to feel your prostate yourself with a finger, and get the sensation of pressing on it. You should feel a little rush of good feeling, a sort of quivery, watery feeling like you need to pee, and maybe a little fluid dripping from your penis. If you can't do that, you don't have the first step to know what you want to feel during a session.

-You need to learn to practice it in a way that you enjoy every session and look forward to the next, even if you didn't reach your end goals.

-Don't touch your genitals during a session or after, and refrain from ejaculating for at least a handful of days to boost your libido and arousal.

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For most, this isn't something that happens to you in an evening. It is a frame of mind, a lifestyle, and eventually it bleeds into the rest of your life.

I am currently in a place where I have learned and experienced a lot, and have read hundreds of pages on the subject, but am still putting the last steps in motion.

Others have different approaches or theory, but the stuff I listed seems to be in the core cannon. Part of the language of all of this is a "rewiring"... learning to feel pleasure in new ways, and enhancing the intensity of the pleasure you get through those means, and then using them in concert. It is a gradual process of shifting your sexuality from being focused entirely on your penis, to having it spread throughout your entire body, and also reconcentrate in your prostate, anus, surrounding muscles, nipples, lips, thighs, and elsewhere. I feel sexual longing in my nipples and butt now, and feel aroused there with or without an erection.

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What exactly are you doing, and how does it feel?

I have never done anal play before and I heard guys can have multiple orgasms with their prostate. Any suggestions?

I'll just echo what @Thistledown stated. There are numerous paradoxes involved with this endeavor. On one hand prostate orgasms are a function the body achieves without willful direction from the mind and yet learning to create the physical and psychological environment for the body to achieve these orgasms rest solely within the purview of one's mental efforts.

Initially, many men find the time spent experimenting, trying differing techniques, trying differing models, trying differing lubes, etc. can be frustrating as they keep expecting to see the explosive sensations that have been hyped over the internet. It can seem like a lot of work and wasted effort with nothing to show for it, and then... one day, something clicks, a moment of satori that gives you a glimpse of the possibilities. If you can be patient enough to continue practicing, learning, experimenting until that moment you will be rewarded. Once you have achieved that first prostate orgasm, you will wonder 'How did I do that? Why did it seem so hard to get here? It seemed so easy and effortless, I didn't even have to think about it!', paradoxes abound in this journey so please don't be dismayed or frustrated by them. There is much to learn and yet no specific piece of information will make your body produce an orgasm.

I sent you an introductory Private Message (Newbie's Notebook) with some hints and tips to help get you started here. Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it.

Good Vibes to You !

@rumel, if this concerns working with Prograsm Classic or Progasm ICE, could you send me "a private message (Newbie's Notebook) with some hints and tips, etc.)?

As regards Progasm Classic and Progasm ICE, from my own experience are Aneros models that take patience and time to use effectively. In fact, they took me six months near the beginning of my Aneros journey 2012 to actually enjoy them. In a way, they are like dumb bells for weight training in developing anal sphincter and musculature strength. For me, they produced strong, pleasurable Aless! 😉

I’d like to add,an awful lot report the progasm as too big,doesn’t move much,thus rendering it a little defunct. A few like it though. If you’ve got the cash,I’d get a progasm jnr or a helix syn,both if cash isn’t in question. More movement could help alot. But nothing will help more than a quiet mind,not thinking and wishing it too much,just kicking back enjoying what comes and letting it happen at its own pace.

@rumel.. Could you kindly send me a copy as well?

Could you kindly send me a copy as well?

"As you wish..." Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it.
Good Vibes to You !