Can MGX b completely wrong 4 some1 - bends away from prostat

MyTurn-

sorry, this just ain't gonna work.

we've been trying to tell you to let go of expectations.

you are setting yourself up for a big fat disappointment. there is *nothing* you can do to prepare for your once in a blue moon, except throw out the once in a blue moon part. the problem is definitely not the model you are using. the problem is that with some people it takes time for the body to figure out what is going on. you need to *train* it.

the best thing to do with your whole day is to plan to do something else!

then, after a nice fulfilling day, give yourself an hour or two session, with... no expectations!

maybe you'll feel some pleasure, maybe you won't. maybe you feel lots. but, not matter what, it is a step on your journey. YOU CAN"T FORCE THE JOURNEY.

read here and in the wiki about relaxation and breathing, etc. that is all you can do.

darwin

SORRY!

You are right. It's hard to have no expectations on something that promises to change your life for the better. But yes, that is what I need to aim at. I just want to make sure that I am not "wasting" the day. If I do it all correctly, and feel the prostate being massaged, but no pleasure, then that means I'm a step ahead. It's just this "not knowing if Im even making contact with the prostate" matter that is frustrating.

Thanks Darwin...

I've just remembered this info:

"The Prostate gland is a walnut sized gland located near the botton of the bladder and near the anterior wall of the rectum approximately 2-3 inches inside the anus,"

From Aneros wiki.

So if the Prostate is about 2-3 inches in, but the MGX is 4 inches long, the bit that has the "bite" taken out of it will not make contact, right?

dude-

forget about making contact with the prostate.

forget about inches.

forget about not wasting the opportunity.

forget about absolutely everything.

insert it, and do nothing but relax, breath and the occasional contraction.

meditate with it in.

if you feel nothing that is totally ok, and doesn't mean anything.

it just means that maybe you'll feel something the next time or the time after that or the time after that or...

turn OFF the brain.

darwin

MyTurn,

‘Darwin’ has given you the straight, bottom line information.
Hopefully, you will realize the wisdom of his experience and sharing of his 5+ years of Forum participation.

I don’t recall any literature by the Aneros company that “… promises to change your life for the better.” If you want to change your life for the better (which is always a nice idea) start with changes within your own mind, nothing from the external world will instigate change more rapidly and certainly not another Aneros model.
You are apparently caught in the trap of over-thinking this process. Logical reasoning and rationality are all well and good traits, most of the time. Full body orgasmic experiences do not come about by rationalization or egocentric thought processes, they will be induced when you are least “expecting” them to occur, when you begin responding to your body on a sub conscious level. This is most likely to be achieved when you are in a very relaxed state of mind and body.