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A few weeks ago, I had a session one night and the following day I had buzzing in my prostate. It wasn't all day or anything, but I know I noticed it during lunch. I don't explicitly remember my circumstances at the time that could've gotten me to that point.

Fast forward to the last two weeks or so, I've been purposefully abstaining from traditional masturbation and trying to have a session at least every couple days. I also utilized dildos a couple times as well. So far, during the sessions it seems like sometimes my body is trying to thrust the aneros automatically (I start the process, my body takes over for a little, and then I think something starts clamping down and it stops). I've had a raging erection, felt like I had pre-cum leaking from me (and when looking there's nothing there), legitimately had pre-cum leaking from me (not tons), and maybe some feelings that weren't unpleasant, but perhaps not feeling really good, either. I am able to flex some muscle or another in my pelvis to get a good feeling while having nothing inserted. I also tried my helix the first time or two, and one of the peridise models more recently. My 'buzz day' probably followed a helix session.

I will say that lately sex has also not been happening (though I think it'll be coming back around). Around the time of the buzzing, I was almost certainly more engaged in sex and regular masturbation. Could this be why I haven't been able to experience much with the aneros lately? I read a recent post here ("new guy new questions" maybe? Something like that) where it was said that as long as traditional and aneros sessions are kept separate, rewiring shouldn't be affected. Just don't mix your signals until your understanding is really good. Could it be that my lack of daily masturbation/regular sex has put a damper on my sexual energy, which is why I'm just not really getting anything from sessions?

Has anyone else ever experienced something of this variety? Any ideas on ways to proceed? I certainly don't want to stop trying with my aneros (I've had them far too long and not used them enough sadly), but it's not like there's anything wrong with a traditional orgasm either! I haven't visited the forums in an incredibly long time, perhaps not even posted before, but this seems so strange to me (like I've gone backwards dramatically) I just had to get opinions from those more well-versed in the area.


   
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Hi @Identity, I think you're only experiencing some ups and downs as usual along everyone's journey, and maybe it's time for a down now. When you're feeling that precum, it must not become visible at once. The urethra has its last sphincter near the root of your penis. When you wrench your penis after peeing from its root to its tip, you can learn where those last drops are hiding. My precum sometimes doesn't appear, before my penis already has become fully flaccid again. Nothing to worry about.

Perhaps you furthermore are misunderstanding two things. Abstaining from traditional masturbation does not mean abstaining from arousal. As your gland expands with your arousal your toy will easier be able to have impact on your gland, if you already are pretty aroused. To abstain from old pathways, it helps to avoid typical masturbation techniques leading to ejaculations.

I myself love to imagine and vividly envision masturbation or sexual intercourse to get myself aroused. I avoid to touch my penis and listen to a wonderful lovely dumb aching from where I localize my prostate to get hard and aroused. Then I try to ignore my erection and to focus on the dumb ache and its spreading vibes waving through my body.

Next I try to only be. Be there and sense all those wonderful vibes, sometimes I feel my hard or even only half erect penis, but who cares, it's now not more than one of many thousands spots all across my body that are vibrating in lust.

Then I focus on my microcosmic orbit and lead my kundalini up my spine (back channel) and above my head, down my forehead and my palate, connecting - with my tongue against my palate - to my front channel and down my throat, my nipples and heart, my solar plexus, back to my groin and my gland again.

One more time I let go even this circle and only am and only feel those vibes of energy.

We are only some uncountable neutrons, electrons and so on combined by chance somewhere in this universe, feel it, feel the energy, let it go and take you away into a wonderful sea of bliss ... where no precum, no hard-on, nothing else is important than this feeling of love and unity with the universe.

Good vibes! Mart


   
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