ok well been using on and off for a few years now. first my mxg, then about six months ago i got the progasm. now i've had a rather slow learning curve, thats why i am a off and on again user. it just seems to take me to long to get the ball rolling, and sometimes not at all. then last night i finally did something different. something i meant to try a while ago and forgot. i used a dropper to fill my rectum with some lube. WOW. I thought i had been using enough lube, not even close. so if your getting frustrated and your not using a dropper/injector to lube, then DO IT. i know i had read that before, feel kinda dumb. I've wasted a lot of time, but on the bright side, my learning curve is pretty much over now. i still don't think ive hit the super O, but as soon as i put it in i started climbing FAST. didn't even have to think about muscle tension at all. just a little breathing and i was off to the races. ended up having a very long session. went from mxg to progasm then back again. and didn't get frustrated at all. screwed up by THINKING i was using enough lube, but i think all that training without enough lube ( had a few mini o's ) completely rewired me. can't wait till next time now.
Good advice thanks