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I bought my first Aneros today! I didn't leave myself enough time to order online so I had found a store in the area that had prostate massagers. They were out of the Helix, which I had planned on buying. Closest thing I saw was the MGX classic so I bought it. I picked up a water based lube and I have KY jelly back home... What are your opinions on coconut oil? I will try my best to share the experience from the beginning as it unwinds. I'm pretty patient and am not going in with any expectations.... I meditate and do a bit of breath work and think that will come in handy... Look forward to trying! I might wait until I get back home next week to check it out as I don't have as much privacy here. Can't wait!


   
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@TantricHealth, congratulations on your purchase! I'd just like to encourage you to actually wait until you have enough space and time to really enjoy your new tool. I had two weeks off when starting a half year ago and I believe that helped me a lot. Yesterday I ran short of time showing me how important the circumstances are for gaining a successful session.

Please, do yourself a favour, please wait!

Best vibes and keep us posted, I am quite curious about your initiation.


   
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@TantricHealth Welcome to the Aneros world! Your choice of lube is probably just as important as your choice of massager. You should check-out different types of lube: water-based (avoid glycerin), oil-based (I like Boy Butter but avoid straight coconut oil since I found it awkward to use and stains) and silicone based (but not on silicone toys!) Your choice of lube will influence your "max session time" and I believe the quality of your sessions. Wishing you much success on your journey! Come back here often to get your questions answered and just chat!


   
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I have been using pure cold pressed coconut oil for the past 9 months, works great for me and is good for you also, good luck on your journey and i would wait to have plenty of alone time before your first session, have fun and makw sure u read the wiki for great ideas and expectations, its very helpful


   
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Thanks guys! I think I am going to wait until I get home. Waiting to use it is kind of a thrill in itself. Will share my first experience afterwards!


   
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Congrats! I got my helix a little less than 3 months ago and it was one of the best purchases ive ever made. I already got another one also. I had my first prostate orgasm a few days ago and was one of the greatest things ive ever experienced . Just be prepared, once you get one, you're going to want them all!


   
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[...] once you get one, you're going to want them all!

Oh yeah, these experiences are quite addictive. 😮 😮 🙂 😎


   
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I'm thinking probably Friday or Saturday night for my first go at it. Will have plenty of time and not rush the experience. Will probably meditate and do a bit of breath work first and then will just see where it goes. No expectations at all! I just plan on enjoying the process!


   
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@TantricHealth, I wanted I could be present and wish you all the joy possible. How you are planning it, it's the best way you could have chosen. Good vibes! Can't wait reading your report!


   
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@SOwithoutAneros I will try to be as descriptive as possible as my journey begins. Will check out the blog section on the site and maybe make regular entries there. I think this is going to be a real adventure!


   
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I think this is going to be a real adventure!

For sure! Already thanks for sharing!
By the way, if you start blogging, what I do recommend, be aware of a different time-out in the blog section. Do yourself a favour and write your text in some other editor or at least mark all text and copy it to the clipboard (ctrl+a, ctrl+c) before you try to save it to your blog. If you've already silently been logged out, there is no way to get back your typing and all your work would be in vain. Cheers!


   
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Thanks for the heads up @SOwithoutAneros ! Nothing more frustrating that writing a huge chunk of text and having it disappear!


   
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You're welcome. I can tell you, it was quite difficult to kick myself when it happened. 😡 No feedback from Aneros until now.


   
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Awaiting my order to come in. I'm in Canada and ordered obviously from the states. So it ll be a while I'm sure. I'm pensively awaiting its arrival because I'm unsure of what to expect. This is all pretty new to me. It's good to read that there are many of you on the newbie scene as well. I look forward to reading about success and even non successful stories. Every good has a bad. That's the norm I guess.


   
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Every good has a bad. That's the norm I guess.

"Every cloud has a silver lining" is a saying that applies much better.
This old saw carries two promises for you:
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  • Your sun IS shining = your gland is there, present, waiting to shine for you.
  • There may be some clouds, that even might bring rain, but they won't stay there forever.
  • The clouds often consist of old trails, but you've already decided to walk off the beaten track.
    You may need to use your bushwhacker to find the new path.

    But the more you open yourself to something really new,
    the more you let go your idea how an orgasm should be,
    the more you will become able to receive the gift of ultimate bliss - even without ejaculation!

    Relax and let it happen and it will crush over you like a breaking wave.
    Some seconds of wet orgasm? Pah! If I can have hours of bliss?

    Be aware! The best is yet to come!


       
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    Ty for that. I'm finding more and more readings are showing me that this is truly a rewiring process and reorientsting oneself as to how sexual pleasure can feel. Your so right that a wet orgasm is nothing. It is a few seconds of bliss. I look forward to this journey. It's gonna be difficult to find the away moments to do this. But I'm looking forward to trying !


       
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    Ty for that. [...] It's gonna be difficult to find the away moments to do this. But I'm looking forward to trying !

    You're welcome. I learned to better leave out a session if I could not find the away moment to do it thoroughly. Nevertheless I find it helpful to focus on my vibes whenever I find some minutes to do that. Inbetween I have Aless moments while teeth brushing, waiting at the coffee machine and even while yawning and stretching. Don't underestimate yawning and stretching as a trigger for full body orgasms. Try to extend them and listen to your body vibes. Focus on the feelings that come close to what you feel when orgasming and you'll find the scent. Good vibes!


       
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    Ty buddy for the words of encouragement.


       
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