Book recommendations

... has anyone else got any recommended reading material for a young gay guy who’s just starting out on his journey towards the Super-O and generally becoming greater in bed and also at pleasuring himself?

Please see the Books listings in the Aneros WIKI.
Good Vibes to You !

Please see the Books listings in the Aneros WIKI.
Good Vibes to You !

Thanks! I’d already seen those, just wondered if the guys had any more they want to sugges 🙂

Urban Tantra is already listet in the Wiki list @rumel suggested, a book that helped me a lot and paved my way, why I would recommend it as the very next to be read.

Here my last post about reading matter.

Going to listen to Urban Tantra as an audiobook on my drives into work. Should be done before the end of the year.

@darkbond that’s a good idea actually, I have Audible credits I haven’t used but I feel as though books like this are better read than listened to - particularly initially.. I was interested in that one, I’m gay though - is it only heterosexual stuff that’s covered in that? I got the feeling it might have been..

@SOwithoutAneros same question to you, is Urban Tantra a worthwhile read, specifically for a gay guy, too?

@Lth0ms0n, be sure, otherwise I wouldn't have suggested it. Being bisexual like me, gay like you, hetero or anything else, doesn't matter. It's about awareness of your chakras and vibes and how to deal with them, it's written by a bisexual woman and provides a lot of insight into our sexuality and a playful approach to our core consciousness as a sexual being. You won't regret to have read it. It's about 14 bucks at the big "a". Only the description of the clench and hold technique alone has been an eye opener. I'd prefer the paperback or kindle making it much easier to reread some passages like that one.
Did you read this thread already? Some posts later I described the clench and hold technique in details.
Cheers, Mart

@SOwithoutAneros tjanks 🙂 I read those posts quickly on my phone at work, will read through them again later.

So, are you guys saying that using your PC muscle to draw the Aneros into your anus and muzzle against your prostate isn’t the best way to begin working towards anal orgasms? The video I watched last night, the guy just Kay there on his back for around 35 minutes, doing nothing except breathing and (from what I could see) playing with his nipples. Next, his whole lower half began to gyrate gently, he’d emit guttural moans and gasps and he began to orgasm, over and over and over again. He’s been at it for over a year and a half apparently and he loves his Helix. As it’s the same as the one I have, I felt particularly connected to this guy and totally inspired to work towards this outcome for myself.

Os that a better technique?! Just lying and not doing anything? I saw it on the Wiki as I read through that again last night but as it looked like an advanced technique, I wasn’t sure if I should be shooting for any kind of outcome from that yet...

@Lth0ms0n, please come down a bit, you seem to be full of expectations. Don‘t give in to them and let them rule your next steps. Instead keep away from them, read a lot and do some experiments once in a while. It‘s such a rewarding journey, don‘t miss the little first steps of your just awakening prostate. There is no right or wrong, because we all are too unique for one certain way how to achieve the ultimate bliss. For one some kegels might help better than nipple stimulation, my nipples awakened quite a while later than my prostate. For others focusing on breathing is the best. Try this and that best in a playful manner like a child feels its awesome first upright steps. Good luck, Mart

@Lth0ms0n, please come down a bit, you seem to be full of expectations.

Lol, if I had £10 for every time I’m told that! Hahaha. Ok, thanks, I will, just excited to hit the highs I keep reading about! I’ve been researching this for a while so I’m well into it now...

I was once like you are now
And I know that it's not easy
To be calm when you've found
Something going on
But take your time, think a lot ...

😉
So true!

@Lth0ms0n I am three chapters in and from the get go the author makes it clear this book is for anyone. I’m straight and even with reading this book it doesnt make me feel uncomfortable at all to be honest. If anything this book is fast becoming just another piece of evidence as to why an accepting nature of anyone else’s preference is the right position for every human being.

As for book vs audiobook. I have a 30 minute to and from work every day. So this is good to pass the time and learn something.