Bondage and Aneros

(this post was edited 2006-08-14 11:34:09)

(this post was edited 2006-07-13 04:55:05)

Warning! If you are offended by bondage or by those of us who enjoy this alternative lifestyle, then please read no further!

For me, bondage is an enjoyable act of sexual expression. It does not replace intercourse, but enhances it’s pleasure, and can be very enjoyable in and of itself when simply achieving an fast orgasm is not the ultimate goal.

I have had only a passing interest in anal play, and a few years ago purchased a cheap vibrating butt-plug. The feeling was OK, but the thing kept falling out and was generally fairly frustrating, so I pitched it. I had seen the advertising for Aneros, but being frugal and fearing that it might be no better than the vibrator, I hesitated in committing.

A few years ago, I began to experience difficulty in urinating, and seriously considered taking up crocheting while in the men’s room to pass the time. Eventually, I went to my doctor who told me I had a mild case of prostatitis, which he informed me, was nothing unusual for a man past fifty. I rejected the medicines and threats of surgery he suggested, and decided to research the subject for myself. I was invariably led back to the Aneros.

So last month I took the plunge and ordered an MGX. Using the considerable resources of this site, I took a chance that this model was the right one for me. The device came quickly, and I was immediately impressed with the quality. I might say here, that after a month of use, I am equally impressed by the ease of clean-up, and that the Aneros does not seem to discolor with use.

My lady and I use a item we call a bondage pony. It is a device for confinement on which I lay across a small wooden bench. My knees are drawn up tightly beneath it, and my feet and wrists are secured by locking stocks. Curiously, my position when on the pony is very similar to the one suggested by Aneros users to facilitate the proper application or the Aneros massager.

In the past three weeks I have used the MGX almost daily. However my best experiences have been while using it on the pony. Why? well first of all, the duration of use is much longer, usually one to two hours. Being hopelessly restrained while on the pony forces me to focus on proper breathing and anal muscle contractions.

An interesting and important aspect of the MGX is that it seems to be impossible to intentionally expel it from my anus, however hard I try. Although while having an orgasm during sex, it has unexpectedly popped out on several occasions.

Time seems to pass very quickly while using the Aneros while on the pony. I have yet to experience a “Super O” but I feel that I have come close on several occasions. The fact that my penis is simply hanging down behind me on the pony prevents any type of penile orgasm. I Cautioned my lady that she should not stimulate my penis during this time as this is a key aspect of the proper use of the Aneros.

I feel that it would be helpful for my prostatitis if I could successfully “milk” my prostate gland with the Aneros, but so far have had no luck. My orgasms however have increased in the quantity of fluids expelled, and it seems too, that my desire for sex has increased significantly. I now find that I frequently awake fully erect, a most unexpected and pleasant side-effect of using the Aneros massager!

I enjoy using my MGX daily, whether or not I have an orgasm. On two occasions, I have fallen asleep in bed with the Aneros in place. Upon waking, I experienced no discomfort from the extended use, and enjoyed the feeling of this early morning discovery.

So here is the bottom line. I am well pleased with my MGX so far, and expect great things of it in the future, although be warned!, the Aneros device is incredibly addictive!
The best thing so far (next to the pleasure of course) is the fact that my urinating problem is much, much better and I can go like a kid again! This alone is worth the price of admission.!