Just wanted to share a session that I just had. I used my helix Syn and for the first time my body was shaking like crazy. It was in my legs and my groin but I did not feel any pleasure just shaking and my dick was rock hard. I ended with a traditional orgasm since I was getting tired. I don’t know what is going on.
If I clench my glutes, I will get the shakes like you describe. To avoid them, make sure you are totally relaxed. No clenching, no stiff legs. Let us know if it helps.
Xileh
Great advice Xileh!
@bigsnake30 I wonder if the shaking, grinding and humping that I am experiencing is my body’s attempt to recondition musculature that has fallen into disuse or has never been put into use. Belly breathing and mentally zoning in on my pelvic area seems to focus the movements in a pleasurable direction. Balancing long term good with short term discomfort is one of life’s little tricks. The fatigue you mention sounds like the same thing one gets lifting. Helix Syn here.
Re-wiring. I had incredible convulsion type shaking when I started this journey. It passed.
I get some shaking now after an SO. Not like I used to get though.
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I think the shaking is due to new kinds of stimulation in the area. I used to get shakes but don’t anymore,think you get used to them as you progress.
Seemingly uncontrollable shaking is that fine line between tension and total relaxation. It is the conscientious attempt to relax and maintain a steady state that is mirrored by your muscles fibers firing in response to stimuli. My wife can drive me to that point with a variety of stimuli. Recently, my wife teased and stimulated me to a massive dry orgasm that evoked waves of spasmodic muscle rhythms, and, of course, much appreciative and responsive moaning! Those moments are to be cherished. Treading on that fine line of orgasm tension and orgasm release is a very erotic and satisfying journey. I find it to be a phenomenon that waxes and wanes, but can always be accessed to some degree with the right focus and passion. I also find it easier to achieve with the help of my wife as we engage in sexual play. When adding a wonderful into the mix, there is a God-given sensuality that heightens and deepens the sexual experience that is difficult to obtain by oneself. And, going solo, one runs out of sensuality fervor (it gets somewhat routine), which is the fuel you need to make each encounter more than just a spark--a real fiery tryst!
@NewJoyToy am I close to getting a SO? I really don’t mind the shaking but I want to get an orgasm while I shake
bigsnake30, patience.
I think being in a hurry is counterproductive. Enjoy the journey. You'll get to the destination.
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