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02/27/2023 3:19 pm
I have had four sessions now. My first session I had two mind blowing dry-O's. My third session I crossed over and had a 10 minute long Super-O beginning just 5 minutes after inserting the massager. I understand that this is exceedingly fortunate and not everyone is so lucky.
But my 2nd and 4th session both ended the same way - in somewhat intense testicular discomfort which seems to be from Blue Balls/Vasocongestion. This isn't the first time I've experienced this, I have had this happen before when I get extremely aroused but am denied ejaculation. The one common factor between my two unsuccessful attempts that ended this way is that I think I was simply too aroused at the start of the session, and harboring expectations as in both cases the previous session had blown my mind with new sensations.
I have searched the archives and see a few mentions of this that are tangentially related or discussed in passing. Is this a common issue? Any tips on avoiding this?
02/27/2023 3:54 pm
How often do you ejaculate ?
You could just jerk off at the end of the session, others will say that this could affect rewiring, but blue balls are just not cool... plus it looks like you're a natural anyway so it will be quite hard for you to mess things up, in my opinion.
02/27/2023 4:07 pm
This doesn't happen to me all the time but sometimes it happens.
My sex drive is very low though so I rarely masturbate, this might be my balls taking revenge on me 😀
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02/27/2023 4:13 pm
How often do you ejaculate ?
You could just jerk off at the end of the session, others will say that this could affect rewiring, but blue balls are just not cool... plus it looks like you're a natural anyway so it will be quite hard for you to mess things up, in my opinion.
How often...Daily. I haven't worked semen retention between sessions into this yet. I am starting to now, though.
Both times it happened I was enjoying myself but definitely forcing things too much. I felt the ache coming on and knew what it was so both times when I felt it I went ahead and finished off promptly with an ejaculation. But both times it was too late and despite the (high volume) ejaculative finish I was still in pain for hours after.
02/27/2023 4:33 pm
It’s probably cremaster or other pelvic region muscle strain. If you ejaculate daily,it’s unlikely to be blue balls .
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02/27/2023 4:39 pm
I ejaculate almost daily, too. I don't have a lot of experience with semen retention as it does very little for me, and I don't find that in my case it's necessary for S-O results. I feel it would increase the odds of getting blue balls anyway...
Personally I don't have any issues with testicular pain or congestion, even after long sessions, so I can't really help much. I wonder if you could masturbate to ejaculation in the morning and then have your session in the evening, or something similar ?
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02/27/2023 4:48 pm
It’s probably cremaster or other pelvic region muscle strain. If you ejaculate daily,it’s unlikely to be blue balls .
Huh, well that could easily be the problem. Thank you for commenting, this was very helpful. I was looking into the anatomy online and see that I have noticed before the symptoms of a hyperactive cremaster reflex (occasionally testicles get pulled up too far).
In the two sessions I had success, I was disciplined in following a 'do nothing' approach. In the sessions with difficulties I was unable to resist the temptation to experiment with different contractions, holding a low level contraction, etc. Seems very conceivable that the new use of the muscles could result in strain. I never have practiced any form of kegels or other pelvic work before.
I guess the best course of action would be to use this as further motivation to DO NOTHING! Not only has that proven to be my pathway to the Super-O, it might be causing issues when I don't do it
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