Hello all!
first time I’m using the aneros helix trident today. I’ve chosen this one because of the perineum & kundalini stimulators. Upon inserting with great difficulties and pain, I noticed blood on the aneros. Ive stopped and I haven’t yet got it fully inserted. Now I have tried other prostrate massagers before and have noticed blood upon inserting and have stopped straight away. I am using plenty lube and I am lay on my side with “lower leg straight, being your top knee to stomach”. But I find it hurts. I have tried anal beads before and haven’t any problems (a small bit of blood once before). Is there any other methods to help me? I’ve only used small anal beads and butt plugs before, I don’t have anal sex. Thank you
I wouldn’t keep trying to shove things in your rectum for now, you need to speak to your doctor about that cuz I’ve never had that happen to me ever before. Aneros insertion should be slightly uncomfortable at first when you first start using it but after a while your sphincter should be getting use to it after a few sessions, but it should never cause pain and blood.
Upon inserting with great difficulties and pain, I noticed blood on the aneros.
This should never be happening with proper technique. There is obviously something not quite right normal with your anus. You may have a chronic hemorrhoidal condition which is a very common malady. You can try resolving this condition with some simple home remedies. You may alternatively be suffering from anal fissures, a slightly more serious condition. If symptoms don't resolve within two weeks, then an appointment with your doctor, as suggested by @train-man-anthony, is in order
In either case, you should not be attempting any anal play until you are certain your anus is back to a healthy condition, I'd suggest waiting a couple of weeks before any attempts at reinserting any anal toys. Give your body a good chance to heal itself. If the situation doesn't resolve itself after a doctor's visit/treatment you may have to abandon anal play as a stimulation technique.
Good Vibes to You!
Thank you guys. I always thought the blood was due to me trying to insert it. I can probably get a 1/4 in after a while. When it first happened with a prostate toy, I thought it was due to the size of the head that’s why I tried the beads instead. I’ll give it a few weeks and try again, if not I’ll consult my GP. Was really looking forward to using it as well
I’ve had bleeding issues in the past as well. My issues were due to an anal fissure. I bled like crazy while going to the bathroom, almost to the point I was scared. I think straining while going to the bathroom and rubbing/irritation caused by toilet paper gave me the anal fissures. The cure for me was a better diet, which led to softer, more comfortable BM’s. I also started using a bidet attachment and got away from toilet paper. Hope this helps you!
And...just to make sure...but you are using lubricant, right...? But as the others have said: go to the doctor.
Thanks all. I tried again and finally got it in. Tried with one finger first and then started rubbing the tip bit by bit and adding more lube until I finally got it in. I did notice some blood again, I think if I went for the beginner one maybe I would have less blood. Didn’t really feel much sensations unless I used a vibrating wand and even then it was hit and miss, pre cum slightly. But ended up using the wand to finish off.
And yes I am using a water based lube and using plenty of it
Ha sorry just wanted to make extra extra sure.
Thanks all. I tried again and finally got it in. Tried with one finger first and then started rubbing the tip bit by bit and adding more lube until I finally got it in. I did notice some blood again, I think if I went for the beginner one maybe I would have less blood. Didn’t really feel much sensations unless I used a vibrating wand and even then it was hit and miss, pre cum slightly. But ended up using the wand to finish off.
Less blood is not acceptable in a situation like this. There should never be any blood at all. Please go see a doctor. I don't think this can be taken too seriously until you have a medical professional's advice.
Another quick update. Still getting blood, I think this is due to rubbing/insertion, but once it’s in it is fine. Find it sort of painful to remove, but I think that’s due to the lube drying out. I’ve started feeling pulsating sensations every now and then (not often), so I feel that this is a start but not convinced this will lead eventually lead to an hands free orgasm. I’ve tried tensing and relaxing muscles but I feel nothing from it, so I’ve tried the relaxed method and I just carry on looking at nude pictures until I’m ready to start edging myself and eventually coming to an orgasm through masterbating.
Another quick update. Still getting blood, I think this is due to rubbing/insertion, but once it’s in it is fine. Find it sort of painful to remove, but I think that’s due to the lube drying out.
You seem to have a reason for every part of your discomfort but I agree with @faith-manages , GO SEE A DOCTOR! What you describe is not normal; dont take chances.
We all think that our brain is the boss of our body but really, its our butt hole. If it shuts down, were in serious trouble!
OK, I'm exagerating a bit but an unhealthy butt hole is not something to wish for.
Good luck.; keep the good vibes tied to Aless sessions until all is fixed.
Thank you. I’ll get an appointment as soon as they allow people to visit