Bearing Down at Point of Ejaculation

hey ff-

i'm gonna give this a try: focusing on anus relaxation and bearing down during orgasm.

as far as being bad during ejaculation, i don't know, but, i would say that if it doesn't interfere with the success of the ejaculation it is probably ok.

darwin

redbeard, ff-

i *did* try it, and, ooooohhhhh what a winner.

i found that by consciously keeping my anus relaxed and by lightly bearing down on occasion to help keep my anus feeling "open and relaxed" i significantly deepened my orgasmic pleasure.

this may be a really important key!

redbeard notes that the aneros holds your anus open. however, i don't agree with him that this is sufficient. the key is not that the anus be mechanically opened, but that is open by muscular action: relaxation of the sphincter and bearing down of the pelvic floor.

i should add that i read the ESO book a long long time ago, and it was *formative* in my understanding of my body and its sexual response. so much of what we take for granted here on this forum was ground broken/popularized in that book.

darwin

i *did* try it, and, ooooohhhhh what a winner.

Isn't it? I felt like a Bel-Ami porn star after I tested redbeard's discovery. It is, as the gospel says, a Pearl of Great Price :lol:.

However, I do have to thank Rumel as well: it was from his reply to the post "wow! i bought 4 of these darn things and my post was deleted" that I first read about B Mayfield's S-L-I-N-G shot technique.

Thanks for posting this stuff guys!
Looks like I've got some new techniques to try! 😀

Love is Peace

I tried this today. Got some really good p-waves going until I tried to hard to cum and the session ended early. But it was great while it lasted. Thanks, flip!