Anyone use chastity cages?

I tried a couple, but didn’t think it added to the experience. Cock rings are a plus though!

Posted by: @logik

Was wondering if anyone used a cock cage while using aneros?  I did a little research beforehand and know of the more expensive ones like the cb6000 and the cobra by kink3d but I didn't want to spend a bunch of money before finding the exact right size.

I have tried them, they're an interesting experience but I don't use them now. If you want to see an independent users review of a few see THE ULTIMATE CHASTITY CAGE REVIEW AND GUIDE VIDEO (WARNING : Review is by extremely effeminate male).

Good Vibes to You!

I forgot to say that I got this one from lockthecock.com.  Just a cb-6000 knockoff essentially...I'll probably get a kink3d cage for funsies at some point whenever they start up production again.

Well @logik, I checked out the product page and I just so happened to order one myself.  I figure if they are on that much of a discount there's no better time to give it a shot.

Perhaps we can compare notes later.

Let me ask you this.  Do you plan on just using it during sessions, or are you going to be entering a chastity program?

@rumel Thanks for the video! I know we chatted last night about it but others may find it interesting or useful.

@nucleargamer That was my thought too! I've never tried cages before and since this site was having a pretty good sale, I thought why not?  I'll buy one that isn't expensive and give it a shot.  If I don't enjoy it...oh well, I only blew ~$28...but if I do enjoy it, at least I'll have a base-line size to look for when and if I decide to buy a more expensive cage.  As for the second part of your comment...I'm not 100% sure...I'm single so its not like I have someone to keep the key away from me...but I do like to challenge myself, and seeing how long I can wear a cage for is something that I would enjoy.  Once I get used to it, I'll also probably wear it for the days and nights leading up to aneros sessions.  I tend to like having my sessions on Saturday or Sunday morning so I'll probably wear my cage the week beforehand to ramp up that arousal for the aneros session.

Posted by: @logik

Was wondering if anyone used a cock cage while using aneros?

Yep, bought a cheap one out of curiosity (like really cheap: ~15 €). I was curious what it would feel like to grow an erection against the resistance of the cage. That's more or less the appeal to me still.

I'm with @reeddoubler regarding anerosing with a cage though. The longer the session goes on, the more limb and inactive my penis gets anyway. Usually I end my sessions with an ejaculation and if the session is rather long, it can get really hard to get hard for that (pun intended).

On the other hand, I once got so excited that I ejaculated hands free in the cage right at the start of the session when I was just warming up with the Tempo. This was really exciting but also a big bummer, because this made the session end prematurely in the most literal sense. Never was able to pull that off again.

So yeah, it's a mixed bag. It's great for building up before a session, esp. over night when your denied nightly boners wake you up. Tried that only once so far. It worked so good, that I couldn't bear to wear it till the morning.  Actually, I don't think I would survive having a key holder controlling me... 🙂

Posted by: @logik

I'm single so its not like I have someone to keep the key away from me...but I do like to challenge myself

Interesting.  I'm also single.  Been thinking about making some sort of dice chart to simulate having a "keyholder" and to add some randomness and mystery.  Also, if things go well I may start setting personal goals as rewards, and bad habits as punishments.  For instance, I need to lose weight and cut down / cut out my soda consumption.  "You hit your weight loss goal for the week!  Great!  Take x days off of how long you're locked."  or  "You had a bottle of soda today, not cool!  Add x days of how long you're locked."

Obviously it would still depend on the honor system and self discipline.  

@nucleargamer Thats not a bad idea at all! Might be a fun way to make weight loss fun.  Did you end up purchasing the same model that I did? Mine is apparently coming from China so its going to be a week or two I'm assuming...they say in the FAQ that is possible but still annoying when they are based in San Francisco...The tracking info I have says its still at the sorting center in Shenzen, Guandong, China...who knows how long it'll take to get here.

@logik Yeah I ordered the same one.  And it's also shipping from China.

@nucleargamer Well, guess we will both get them around the same time then if you ordered it the day I posted.

@unfug brings up my biggest question about chastity cages.

what happens when you get an erection? I have nightmare images of playdough spaghetti-maker toys, but obviously that doesn’t happen. Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Is it solely pleasure through submission to someone else, or are there sensations that don’t require the user to be in a D/s relation?

maybe it’s for me. I really like the sensation of my erect cock being bent during masturbation and sex, and feel as though i can massage my prostate that way... see this post:

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/the-true-meaning-of-joysticking/#post-105800

Posted by: @divine_o

what happens when you get an erection?

Well some of your questions are hard to explain, others not. I'll give it a shot.

Posted by: @divine_o

 I have nightmare images of playdough spaghetti-maker toys, but obviously that doesn’t happen. Does it hurt?

So the cage limits erection in basically two ways (depending on the design): the volume (you can't grow out longwise and circumferential-wise) and the downward bend, which makes it impossible for the penis to straighten out.

The attachment point, which has to counter all the forces is usually a ring around (and behind) the base and balls. This is imortant to note, because all the pressure your erection builds up will eventually pull on your balls. It's the fact that the balls dont fit through the ring that holds everything in place. A ring too big won't work, a ring too small will get painful rather fast. That's usually the break moment for me, when it gets to uncomfortable around the balls.

Posted by: @divine_o

Does it feel good?

Well I guess that depends on the individual. I personally like the resistance and the friction coming from the cage walls. That's basically the thing that made me ejaculate this one time. Like a ruined orgasm handjob with a million extra steps sort of thing. But that's just the plain physical side. The actual charm is the mental game at play. The fact that you can't get erect makes you want it even more. So you start to get erect more often and faster just to get denied, making you want it even more... you see the feedback loop evolving here? There is a certain pleasure to being denied, which is something you like naturally or hate it passionally I guess. And something one can learn, become fond of and foster if you decide to.

Online you'll find a lot of people into the Sissy lifestyle, who use cages to add to the fantasy of not being allowed to cum from their penis but only from their asses.

I don't think a keyholder is necessary to play with that dynamic. From anerosing, we are used to let go, give in and surrender. It's more or less the same with a cage.

@unfug

Not a cage user myself, but I read a lot of things in a lot of places, and a lot of men achieving hands free wet orgasms from riding dildoes seem to have a thing for chastity cages, from what I can tell they can be used to really take the focus away from the penis, and some in the sissy community call their penis "useless", but from your experience it can go both ways, where it will actually bring more focus to it? So that's yet another mind game that will be different depending on what you want, or it affects different people in different ways? Interested in what you think. Thanks! 

Posted by: @zentai

[...]but from your experience it can go both ways, where it will actually bring more focus to it? So that's yet another mind game that will be different depending on what you want, or it affects different people in different ways?

I think yes - you summed it up pretty good already. There is little to add.

I find it brings more focus to the penis, but you have to keep in mind that this is just me and that there is leeway to achieve what you desire - the cage itself is just a tool which you can adjust to your needs. My cage allows for a little growth so I can have a raging semi and some movement. This very movement and the denied full erection puts my focus on the penis.

But if you wanted to render your penis "useless" in the literal sense, you would go for a smaller cage which allows for no growth at all. As far as I understand it, this interupts the erection process so early, that you can't build up enough blood (and pressure) for a semi, so you will stay perfectly flaccid all time. And this will likely do something to you. See, nightly boners and morning wood are a normal process of your body to maintain the tissue. There are studies suggesting, that there is a "use it or lose it" mechanic at play. So if you don't use your penis (or have erections), it will literally shrink over time. For some, that definitely adds to the fantasy. Also, not ejaculating seems to tinker with your hormonal regulations. That's one reason why many users here in forum like to practice semen retention.

Add the power dynamic with an involved partner / keyholder and you'll get plenty of applications for twisted kinks and plays. Sissies use it to put attention on other ways of cumming, cuckhold couples use it as a visible degradation device and a erotic hypnotists use it for "training" as a punish/reward device. To build up arousal, so they can later celebrate the unlocking and give you the "deserved" reward for being a good subordinate.

There is little to add.

Did he say and went on to write a wall of text again... 🙂

Posted by: @zentai

Not a cage user myself,

I wouldn't even consider myself as one. Actually, I only get it out every once in a while and mostly just for the length of a session. I've no experience with long time wearing and would feel rather nervous going outside with it (same with plugs btw). I can't stand the idea having something happen to me and providing the guys of the ER with the next funny picture for everyone to laught at in the break room. 😀

@unfug

I was asking because I had two different things in mind I saw on the web: 

I once saw a blog where this dude and his wife/dom were going pretty hard at it, with progress pictures using smaller and smaller cages, where he started with an average dick and ended up with what I could only describe as a micro-penis after some years, and they were pretty proud of the results and how useless his penis became. 

On the other hand, there was video involving a different couple where the guy managed to actually break his cage with the power of his erection. This can really go both ways! So while I don't think it's for me, it's just another interesting topic of discussion. Thanks for your insight! 

The closest I've gotten is by wearing a jockstrap during session much like how @BigGlansDC does. An actual chastity cage is beyond my sexual tastes but the jockstrap holding things in and close isn't much different in design.

@nucleargamer if you seem to enjoy the cage, and want to test chastity, I believe there’s a site called “locked in lust.”  You can order a cage lock, and then set a time to when the key ships.  

@zentai

thats pretty nuts (and no dick?). Do you have a link to that blog about the man who shrunk his member?  Sounds like a good read...

@divine_o

I'll check if I can find it, might be an old tumblr blog and they removed most (all?) sexual content a couple years ago, if I find it I'll be sure to share the link!

Time for an update! I received my cage in the mail today.  Everything was as described on the site I posted above.  Took me a couple minutes to figure out how the pieces go together but I did get it on and it is surprisingly comfortable...Granted I've only been wearing it for ~20 minutes or so and haven't had any discomfort.  Once I got used to the extra weight on my junk I could barely tell it was there.   I'll probably get a "better" quality cage at some point in the future if I enjoy this little experiment of mine...20 min in and I can't say it is unpleasant.  My only complaint is the noise it makes when the lock bounces off the cage when I walk...but thats easily solved with some tape or something around the lock.  

@logik I similarly do not like the noise of the lock moving around also sometimes if it flips up it can dig into you whilst you move around.  I much prefer the cages with integrated locks.  Check out Chastity Cages Co, I got a couple of cages from them before, US based etc so could be a good place: Chastity Cage website

I notice that most of their metal cages are now integrated lock so a fair choice of that style should that solve the problem! 

Posted by: @logik

Was wondering if anyone used a cock cage while using aneros?  I did a little research beforehand and know of the more expensive ones like the cb6000 and the cobra by kink3d but I didn't want to spend a bunch of money before finding the exact right size.  I decided to buy one from lockthecock.  Its a clone of the cb6000 pretty much it looks like.  I'm looking forward to adding this twist to my aneros sessions...and probably the buildup to them as well! 🙂  

I use my cage during every session. Doing so shifts all of your awareness to what's going on in you anal canal and prostate. I've had some wonderful anal orgasms while wearing this cage. It's inexpensive fits well and is comfortable for long term wear. I've worn my for as long as two weeks with no issues.

Happygo Male Chastity Device Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Cock Cage Penis Ring M Size Virginity Lock Chastity Belt Adult Game Sex Toy (1.77 inch/ 4.5cm) : Health & Household (amazon.com)