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03/19/2008 8:21 pm
anyone have any techniques/previous posts on how to cum without having a traditional orgasm. What i mean is there any way to massage to prostate and release cum, and then later go one to have a dry orgasm? Just curious.
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03/19/2008 8:37 pm
ciscoompa,
What you are describing is, in essence, “prostate milking”. Here’s the text of some information I found on the web and have considered adding to the Wiki.
“Prostate milking (also seen as "prostatic milking") is more commonly encountered as part of BDSM activities, such as games involving the erotic use of sexual denial. It only applies to a male, females not having this type of sexual anatomy.
The release felt by a man as a result of prostatic milking against a background of denial, is described as long, drawn out, but not reaching a resolution phase as with normal orgasm. It is therefore said to always leave an edge of not having had full satisfaction, or a yearning for more, as opposed to the "drop" in responsiveness due to satiation after a full orgasm. For people who engage in lifestyle chastity and erotic sexual denial, this may be desirable, since after orgasm a male is sated and released for some days of the tension which builds up with orgasm denial.
The technique of prostate massage actually involves the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation. The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.
During sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
The seminal vesicles, ampulla and prostate can also be emptied by massage of these glands through the rectum. Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal device or use either the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum. The massage will force the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If arousal is low or penile stimulation is stopped for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears at the meatus, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.
As a side note, part of the mechanism for orgasm for a male involves the accumulation of fluids within the prostate and associated ducts; accordingly once milked, a male will be incapable of achieving orgasm regardless of the degree of stimulation, for some time after.”
03/20/2008 5:35 am
i've found that with the aneros progasm (and probably the other models if I tried) if I mix masturbation with an aneros massage and stop penile stimulation right before I feel like I'm about to finish, while putting extra pressure on my prostate with the aneros, I can "push" semen out with the aneros. It's some what difficult to do without going overboard though, and I usually have to be very close to ejaculating for it to work.
03/22/2008 9:18 pm
Sure, I can. My almost exclusive form of solo sex is nipple and breast orgasm. Sometimes I experience full ejaculation, but other times I orgasm several times with little more than precum. There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to the pattern.
03/25/2008 11:24 pm
Unfortunately, yes, it is possible to ejaculate without having an orgasm. When this happens it is always the result of an unplanned ejaculation. Fortunately this happens much less frequently now that I'm able to experience continuous and multiple orgasms daily without spending myself. I can go two or three weeks without ejaculating, but after that I find it is best to enjoy a planned slow build-up to an immense ejaculatory orgasm. But sometimes I just can't contain myself and blow it way too soon, which is quite an anticlimax. But practice makes perfect.
Since taking three Omega-Rx a day, as recommended by Zane, I'm finding it "harder" to contain myself as the pleasure is intense beyond words. But I'm slowly getting back to being able to continue for hours on end in utter bliss, even greater than before, without losing myself. Oh Zane, those capsules are incredible. I'm spending so many hours a day (I should say night) in orgasmic state I'm getting short of sleep. Sometimes I just have to take a few days off to get some shut-eye! As I've mentioned elsewhere on this forum, I'm enjoying about a thousand times more orgasm now than before. In two weeks I now spend more time in orgasmic bliss than all of my regular orgasms added together over the last 45 years! Thank God that He has designed us to be able to attain such heavenly delight in our own bodies.
Must go to bed soon, all I can think of just now is the thrill and joy of another hour or so of pure orgasmic bliss ...
03/26/2008 12:45 am
You go Grandtiger!! 😀
I've been fortunate to have been taking fish oil for much of my Aneros time since the beginning. It's great for lowering triglycerides and all sorts of things. It's especially part of The Zone diet. Dr Sears states that it is even more important than his diet, and believes it is an essential human evolutionary element that many of us have been missing out on for a long time in our modern societies. While taking it I feel great. Personally I think it is the fish oil and dark chocolate that has the most effect in Zane's diet. To have the best orgasms it just makes sense to 'load up' the brain.
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