Hi everyone, I'm thinking of purchasing a p-spot dildo but I wanted to see if anyone here has any experience with them. If so, can you tell me your thoughts?
This is the one I'm thinking of getting:
https://www.amazon.com/Tantus-P-Spot...ct_top?ie=UTF8
@JudgeAaronSatie I had a similar one from Doc Johnson. However, I did not keep it as it was too large for me.
I have the Tantus P-spot dildo. I can take pretty big toys, but I find it a bit much. It's one of those things that only come out for really special intense sessions, and even then I prob only use it for about 10 min before I switch back to something more comfortable.
It's not just the size that's the problem - it's the texture too. I find the texture is a bit too much friction (sort of similar to Aneros Vice or DeVice).
It doesn't stay in the right spot for very long (tends to turn).
So I don't know - it's fun - but not one I'd rush out to recommend unless you are looking for something pretty intense. But that said - if I'm really really horny, then this toy works great for me. Generally I follow a hands free "do nothing" sort of method and this is just a bit too distracting. The best use for it is to ejaculate with this toy at the end, i would recommend it for that. I've had amazing traditional ejaculations/wet orgasms with it.
I use the Feeldoe Slim; it's not too big around, penetrates deep but not too deep, and the shiny finish is more slippery than the P-Spot, which is too textured, like my wife's Share. Either one seems to work best with Vaseline, but requires a very thorough cleaning afterward with Dawn and bleach, to get rid of any odors. The Feeldoe's bulb can rest on the sack, helping to restrict penetration and massaging the perineum and balls when thrusting up and down on my back.
Good idea to first fantacize how and where you'll use a dildo (with a suction cup on a wall, chair toilet seat lid, harness for pegging by a gf or partner or just hand-held.) I like the matte finish on both my p-spot and Maia Porpora. I think it holds lube better than a slick surface and when compared to my glass DonWand provides superior deep feeling that cues me as to where the dildo is working.
I have the Tantus P-spot with the suction cup adaptor. Size-wise, I'm at ease with Progasm Jr. and feel that the p-spot meets my needs and capacity while providing a deeper massage. I also have a Maia Porpora which is one of my "large" toys, more in the girth league of the nJoy pfun plug.
Larger dildo's will require more time (and deep lube) to insert and perhaps a smaller "prep-toy" like Aneros Progasm to provide a "warm-up." I've come to like either my Tantus or Maia suction-cupped to a toilet seat lid and enjoy the arm and shoulder workout as I lift my torso weight up and down (and sometimes with a small "jiggle."). I usually lube and insert when horizontal then move to a chair or the modified toilet seat lid.
Thanks for the advice everyone. I actually own several dildos already (some very large) but generally prefer using an Aneros because it doesn't require any prep work. I was hoping to bridge the two worlds with a P-spot dildo but, based on the feedback, I'll hold off for now. I may invest in a hands free prostate vibrator instead.