Aneros/weed

#1 - yeah, herb + Aneros is a great combination. Really deepens the trance. It has been discussed at length on previous threads.

#2 - It sounds like you have a bit of sexual shame, which is NORMAL & common when starting to explore the backdoor - it tends to reside there and be activated by pleasure. Why not tell your girlfriend about this amazing new experience and device you are using?? I think the key to doing this it how you bring it up. If you are confident and enthusiastic like "Hey babe, I discovered the most amazing thing! It opens my sexual pleasure so deeply. Wanna see what it is?"


Her reaction will be more positive than if you are ashamed of it - you will communicate the shame unconsciously and she will react negatively, due to your negativity. If you think it's OK and cool... she'll is more likely to think it;s OK and cool.


But you need to come to terms that the Aneros is a therapeutically and mentally healthy, 100% "okay" thing to enjoy for yourself... I think the smoke might be able to help you relax, open up, and re-wire your moral system to feel OK about it. Then you can show your GF.

i really need to try this weed + aneros! I have no excuses, besides a little herb never hurt anyone lol

Just read some other threads about mj and aneros. If you are ever tempted by weed and aneros, it's going to be an awesome experience (it was the best in my life). I tried things I would never have tried. Just don't fall in the trap of dependance where you need something to reach what you want. Take everything for what they are: unique.

I am planning to do it again... it's summer and I know I will have to quit smoking for school (70-100 hours of work per week) :(. Last time I quit I felt happier, better and less depressed. I realised how harmful this drug could be and I am not a big smoker.

Anyway, regarding my secret and my gf. If I tell her, it's like telling to my friends. I am only 22 and I might say I am ultra open-minded considering my homophobic friends. I fear it might gives her a too great power over me. Again you said it, it is probably caused by the shame I have doing anal alone and enjoying it.

I hope the day I will tell it to some one will be the day I assume who I am really disregarding what others might think. I wonder if one day every one will use and enjoy back-door. Telling your friends how awesome your aneros session was hahaha it sucks I will never conciously know some one doing it heee

diem,
There are numerous threads on this Forum which discuss use of various recreational drugs/substances to augment one's Anerosessions. Marijuana is frequently cited as a substance of choice. A couple of such threads are "drugs with the Aneros...?. and Marijuana! and Aneros
Good Vibes to You !

I spent my career working with people your age and have given them advice (not on these topics) and received some good advice from them as well. So here goes.

With respect to telling your girlfriend, I would wait. You appear concerned that she might wield power over you with the knowledge, ultimately embarrassing you to others. This does happen all the time in break ups when photos or the like get posted on the web. When you are more secure in a relationship, sharing might be more sensible and appropriate.

As to pot, you seem to have had some issues with it and it may be illegal where you are. I would proceed with caution if you do decide to use it. For me, pot is great, the helix is great and together delightfully amazing. Others claim that a pure aneros experience is better. You would have to judge.

Lastly, you expressed a desire to someday be able to share the aneros experience openly with friends. Well, folks here on the forum are nameless and faceless but are knowledgable and willing to share some of their most personal and secret information. All in a very non-judgmental manner. So read and post as you wish.

Best of luck.