I've already found using Aneros makes my N-joy and Lelo toys work expotentialy better, my prostate is practically on a hair trigger now, far from replacing my collection of massagers, Aneros just enhances them, absolutely amazing!
I think the nJoy pure wand is a great toy to pair up with Aneros. My Aneros session really took off after starting to use the nJoy pure wand. That is the opposite of your experience but I still think having multiple avenues can help