Aneros not!

@Neuro Please, can we keep religion out of this? There are enough difficulties in working out how to make Aneros products work that navigating the religious space is too much to handle. At the very least, not everyone has the same divine creator.

I do think we need the wiki and it does help, and I would hope that relaxing and letting go helps too. But it's also not helping everyone. It sometimes seems like there needs to be something, more. Hopefully it's not religion that is the "missing component"!

Neuro

Agree with your post in its entirety. You are right. Learn to make love to yourself, relax, let go, and focus on only the pleasure that builds, enjoying, relishing, and savoring the bliss and manly orgasmic delight which is truly divine and given by our creator. Its not religion, but He who placed that pleasure in our wonderfully framed male (and female) bodies.

Hi @Neuro, I would suggest your subject line to read: "Religion not!"

When I began using Aneros in early June 2013, from the beginning I kept religion out of my Aneros sessions. Aneros was invented by a Japanese urologist in the mid 1990's for his male patients to self-administer a prostate massage.

So I have used my Aneros devices to promote good prostate health. The sexual pleasure and bliss is secondary. The P-waves, Super-O's, MMO's, and Aless arising my sessions I ascribe to male force which is 'chi'. When I got further into my Aneros journey, I aspired in every session to just have fun and pleasure. Then my sessions began to unfold naturally and I began to relax which made my sessions even better.

Many people at church have an impression that I am religious and devout. However, they know that I do not subscribe the church's party's line, much less the political preference of many at church. My Aneros sessions are my best kept secret. Divulging to any and one people at church would cause alarm, dismay, and offense!

Let's do our best not to let God and religion divide us, guys - we're all here for the same reason pretty much!

I love that you brought up LETTING GO. It's the key that opens the door to all the other possibilities.

@spinsizzle81 Are you sure that letting go is a key?
i let go in sessions but it never helps.
Is there a specific type of letting go that one needs to do? Could you talk us through your letting go process?

@lonewolf8 Thanks for your concerns. I didn't intend to bring up a debate. Just wanted to encourage users to LOVE themselves more. For me personally, it's very easy to be too hard on myself during a session. "Is my pillow positioned correctly?" "Am I relaxed enough?" "What is the aneros doing?" "Should I play with my nipples now?" It's all MIND NOISE. @spinsizzle81 reminded me of my best sessions and the mind-state that I was in. It was a mix of observation, enjoyment, surrender, and AROUSAL.

@Neuro thanks for the post and timely reminder, it is something I have yet to fully integrate, to completly relax and let go, so much appreciated.
As for anything spiritual, I can't see how mentioning God is inciting a debate. Though the difference between your mention of God and lonewolf's of religion would be a place to start;)

@WM59
Blanket statements such as "CREATED by GOD for HIS DIVINE PURPOSE and PLEASURE." are highly presumptous, as not everyone is a believer. It is an opinion and I dont think it should be projected as fact. (even writing my response, I am faced with illogical inconsistencies and asking myself silly questions such as: "why cant I just pray to God and get Him to wiggle the Helix Syn which I have inside me, there'd be no need to do any PC muscle control clench exercises or anything. In fact, no need for any lube, since I can add lube in my prayer and God will provide."; perhaps that sort of thinking shifts the locus of control away from yourself and onto something else, thus making the person not really do anything to progress as they are expecting some higher power to do all the work for them?)

I am anti-religion, and I am of the opinion that religion should be challenged whenever possible. I do generally take a more tollerant and lax view when a religious person is showing that it's their opinion and doesnt attempt to push their view as fact. I have less of a problem with spirituality, because it doesn't incorporate all the elements of religion.

@Neuro , you mentioned the wiki, but I don't remember the wiki specifying that religion was a requirement to success with Aneros. I also think it did specify that one should relax during sessions, but I can't remember if it had references to letting go - I suspect it did. While the wiki isn't perfect, I do like the wiki. I do wish the wiki would be expanded though, especially with additional ideas or techniques for those of us who are struggling for many years. And it would also be useful to have a FAQ we could expand on for new users, as the current wiki is read-only for pretty much all of us.

I think you meant well in your original post, and wanted to help fellow Aneros users. And that's fair enough. Not too sure how the advice of relax and let go would help The Strugglers, since we have been doing that for a long time already. Perhaps that was part of what made me "triggered", as it suggested that I am a failure in Aneros because I don't believe, or that perhaps God created me incorrectly.

In any case, I hope you (or anyone else reading this) didnt take offence - there's just too much anger / hate / offence in this world for me to be adding to it 🙁

@lonewolf8 Thanks for your thoughts and reply. I really appreciate your honesty at the end of your post. I was not trying to bring God into ANEROS. I currently struggle with whether I should be doing Aneros in the first place. And by no means am I saying you can pray to God and LET GO and He will show up like a magic genie and twerk your aneros for you. That's not who God is. He's not Santa Clause (although we humans tend to make him out to be one). and He certainly is NOT religion. I hate that term. It's man made in my humble opinion. There's a lot of corruption in religion as with anything else. Unfortunately ever since Adam and Eve sinned it's been a fallen world....there's no shortage of christians who proclaim the name of God yet sin anyway.. Nobody is PERFECT...thank God He sent us a Savior. Jesus Christ. I don't judge your viewpoints or think I am better than you. I just know I need Jesus, that's the only Truth I can proclaim as fact.

reminded me of my best sessions and the mind-state that I was in. It was a mix of observation, enjoyment, surrender, and AROUSAL.

@Neuro
I full agree with this statement so much, perfect way to word it and to view it. However for all those elements to occur at the same time is a very and I cannot emphasise this enough, very rare event.

why is it so easy for some of you? Probably Those that smoke weed are able to get most on that list ticked off...

EDIT: you know the one thing i just dont get is why one session on one day where all the right elements are there, arousal, focus, letting go, surrender enjoyment et al, works one day like ive discovered something beyond words then the very next session with all of those elements still in play, i feel nothing whatsoever.

The only difererence i can determine is the fact that my prostate on the first session is sort of already orgasming before i actually put an aneros in there so its like 'enchancing' whats already happening.

The issue there again is that is a rare event, perhaps once a month! am i supposed to only have a session 1 per 4 weeks? doesnt sound quite right to me! some guys here boast on how they have aneros sessions 3-4 times a week! that would be a dream. hence why i feel some people here BS a fair bit, i really feel short changed by all this...

Those that smoke weed are able to get most on that list ticked off...

I learned / got re-wired while for the first time while I was high on weed - even now, it usually results in the best sessions, even though I can have pretty good ones completely sober now (especially during sex - it just happens now without thinking about it and I can't not have multiple orgasms). I don't know if I would have been able to learn if I hadn't smoked weed. It really gave me the mental space to RELAX and LET GO.