Aneros equivalent for female G-spot exploration/massage and PC muscle strengening?

I know this forum is mainly for men. So I hope you do not mind if I post to this thread. However, Love_ is.. you spurred me on to telling my own story.

I have not tried any of the above toys you've mentioned. I agree with your opinion on the magic banana. However, Aneros has one that I have experienced and one I really haven't seen anyone state they've used here on the forum. My gspot toy from Aneros is the Progasm. I am a woman in her forties and had never used a vibrator or other sex toy.

Months ago, a friend introduced me to my purple Progasm and he mentioned that I might give it a try. I stared at this plastic package and wondered if indeed it could bring me pleasure. My friend gave me an opportunity to spend some time alone by myself and on the first try, I realized I had reached a level of sexual exploration and ardor that I didn't know my body possessed. I used the Prograsm vaginally and I had an orgasm and ejaculation that I won't soon forget. Two firsts, a toy and female ejaculation!

As for the fact that the Progasm isn't made for a woman's anatomy (only), I could only boast of it's merits and it definitely does not look threatening.

I just thought I'd let you know that the Progasm can be for both men and women's enjoyment.

Hi nurselady,

This site is for ALL people regardless of gender or orientation, though it is understandable most posters are men due to the website's primary product being male oriented. But as you and others have pointed out even the original product designed for men has been creatively utilized by women as well.

I am glad to hear you too have enjoyed playing with these marvelous little tools. You may be interested in this thread Alana's Voice... for another woman's perspective on use of the Progasm vaginally.

Hello Nurselady,

So good to hear from you again! 🙂

I know this forum is mainly for men. So I hope you do not mind if I post to this thread.

I'm sorry that you have that impression. I always love it when women respond to posts here. They often times provide insights that doesn't occur to us as men. (grunt! LOL)

Months ago, a friend introduced me to my purple Progasm and he mentioned that I might give it a try. I stared at this plastic package and wondered if indeed it could bring me pleasure. My friend gave me an opportunity to spend some time alone by myself and on the first try, I realized I had reached a level of sexual exploration and ardor that I didn't know my body possessed. I used the Prograsm vaginally and I had an orgasm and ejaculation that I won't soon forget. Two firsts, a toy and female ejaculation!

Holy moly and WOW!!! That's awesome! Thank you for sharing that. It's nice to see that the Progasm also has another very effective use for women. You know, I had forgotten that I had read quite a while back the link to the Alana's voice thread that Rumel posted. (Thanks Rumel!) And some where I now re-call someone saying that one sex toy store had sold a lot of Progasm's to women who found them to be really good G-spot massager's. So all you ladies have discovered something I totally forgot about.

I think what made me mention the K-Loop/Magic Banana, is that not only is it uniquely designed for a womans anatomy, but it seems to be able to be driven by a woman's vaginal and PC muscles hand's free (like an Aneros is for a man), in addition to being able to manipulate it with her hands. But it seems from Alana's post that the Progasm also appears to have the potential to operate hands free for a woman. Did you find that to also be the case? In addition... Do you find yourself placing rather firm pressure on your G-spot with the tip of the Progasm? Or is it just light poking or stroking of it? And what allowed you to get past the whole, "Oh my God I'm going to pee all over the bed" sensation just prior to having your first female ejaculation? I hope these are not too personal questions. After shamefully and embarrassingly letting down one of my previous girlfirend's in the orgasm department. I find myself wanting to add to my knowledge and experience to being a better and more thoughtful lover.

Just for informational purposes... Over a year ago I tried an MGX in my then girlfriend's anus. But that didn't do much for her. And it was also before I owned my unisex advance Peridise kit, which would have been much more appropriate. If only I had thought to try the Progasm in her vaginally. Oh well, always experimenting...

Love_is

Thanks Rumel and Love_is... as usualy you always make a person welcome in this forum. Admittingly, this is a bit "out there" for me.
Rumel, I did read Alana's thread. Very interesting and though she states things probably much better than myself.. our experience seems to be very much alike.
Love_ is, I hope I answer all your questions. First, off I would say that I would hold the Progasm and simply move it in and out of me. The two raised areas seem to slide and were enough to begin my vaginal muscles to grip and clamp down on the Progasm. I never have had a problem with being wet, but I would say this first time I did not use any lubrication and still had no problems with it sliding inside me. Firm pressure, Hmmm......I never gave it thought, but yes.. I'd say it was the pressure from the raised areas on the Prograsm that were enough against my gspot to cause this to happen. As far as the pee all over the bed situation? I have to say I'm a bit naive or inexperienced. I didn't THINK I'd really do it! I thought I'd try and if it happened great, but I didn't expect a thing. It was a complete surprise and I was grateful for the towel from the hotel.

I have had one drawback with the Progasm. I have great PC control and my own size down there may be a factor. But, when my vaginal muscles tighten to that extreme the Progasm material feels very hard and I have trouble moving it over the muscle in my vagina. I wish there was a softer material of the Progasm. I've learned that I can now squeeze the Progasm with my vaginal muscles and have the same effect and less discomfort. I've tried it with lube since that first time and still yet I have the same issue. I hope this makes sense. If not, PM me and perhaps I can explain better.

Nurselady

Your welcome Nurselady. 🙂

I hope you continue to feel comfortable to come back and contribute here in the Aneros forum again. And thank you so much for answering my questions.

As far as the pee all over the bed situation? I have to say I'm a bit naive or inexperienced. I didn't THINK I'd really do it! I thought I'd try and if it happened great, but I didn't expect a thing. It was a complete surprise and I was grateful for the towel from the hotel.

I mentioned that sensation because from the reading I've been doing, this sensation for women is the precursor to a G-spot orgasm. And typically women instantly clamp down on that as they think that they really are going to pee. And that stops the G-spot orgasm from actually happening. So usually that is a common psychological barrier to achieving G-spot orgasms for a lot of women. That's why I was curious what allowed you to get past that. It sounds like from your explanation that having no expectations played a big role in that. A very familiar term we guys hear with Aneros sessions! LOL

I have had one drawback with the Progasm. I have great PC control and my own size down there may be a factor. But, when my vaginal muscles tighten to that extreme the Progasm material feels very hard and I have trouble moving it over the muscle in my vagina. I wish there was a softer material of the Progasm. I've learned that I can now squeeze the Progasm with my vaginal muscles and have the same effect and less discomfort. I've tried it with lube since that first time and still yet I have the same issue.

Two things occur to me...
Although keep in mind I am by far NOT an expert in the female anatomy. I'm merely speculating. (Oh god, the unintended puns revenge!)
Certainly it's quite possible that "the force" flows strongly within you young Jedi. LOL Ok, I'm obviously kidding here. 😀 But my point being that it is certainly possibly that your PC and vaginal muscles are very strong, and the contours of the Progasm which are designed for a mans rectum doesn't work right in a tightly contracted vagina. Or perhaps they are not as strong as you think they are, and what you are feeling is soreness in your muscles as you contract. Perhaps if you purchased a G-spot massager specifically designed for woman, you would know. Say like, one of these:

Dildos: G-Spot Dildos at Babeland

Although I'm thinking more of one that has a smooth unshaped circumference, like the Njoy pure wand for example. Just a thought.

I hope this makes sense. If not, PM me and perhaps I can explain better.

I tend to prefer keeping these kinds of informative conversations out in the open for everyone to read and learn from. Unless of course you are uncomfortable discussing this anywhere but in private. I'll let you make that choice for yourself. Either way is fine with me.

Love_is

Love_is,

As you have now "speculated", (oh, the puns continue!) the degree of musculature, let me affirm this by saying that my size is a bit diminutive. Be it said that when I have seen my physician that he uses a pediatric speculum because of my size.

When I insert the Progasm at first it is fine. When I become more aroused is when I have some discomfort. Still yet, I wouldn't categorize it as hurtful or bad. It is noticeable, but I think mainly because of how tight it is and the hard material. I doubt this is a concern for most women and as Rumel noted in prior posts or was it you.... the Progasm has been used by other women and this has not been an issue.

You mentioned the sensation with the ejaculation. The first time was probably a blessing that it happened that way. It was the other sessions that I knew what was coming next and had to work thru those episodes. I've never really been asked your questions and so I've had to think about this response. I know I work on relaxing and letting my body enjoy the sensations, but for me realizing how I breathe has been a help.

Thanks for the recommendation. Maybe it's time to go shopping?

Hey, I began thinking.... some of this may have had a bit of help because of zaneblue. She and I had PM'd each other quite some time ago and I had purchased her book as well. There is a chapter in her book about female ejaculation. It was interesting reading and though she and I share some of the same "experiences", her book was still insightful.

Hello Nurselady, 🙂

Thank you for taking the time to think about these questions and respond. I know it's sometimes difficult to come up with answers when you've never really thought about it. Anyways, it is much appreciated.

You mentioned the sensation with the ejaculation. The first time was probably a blessing that it happened that way. It was the other sessions that I knew what was coming next and had to work thru those episodes. I've never really been asked your questions and so I've had to think about this response. I know I work on relaxing and letting my body enjoy the sensations, but for me realizing how I breathe has been a help.

There is interestingly a lot of similar practices in what you are talking about and what we men try to work on in Aneros sessions to achieve super-O's. Very interesting!

Thanks for the recommendation. Maybe it's time to go shopping?

Perhaps indeed! LOL Let us know what you get and how it works for you if you buy something. I know myself and likely others here are curious as to how well different sex toys work.

Hey, I began thinking.... some of this may have had a bit of help because of zaneblue. She and I had PM'd each other quite some time ago and I had purchased her book as well. There is a chapter in her book about female ejaculation. It was interesting reading and though she and I share some of the same "experiences", her book was still insightful.

Hey that's great! I'm glad Zaneblue was able to help you out. She seems like a real nice gal. I'm so appreciative of the goodness and willingness people here in this forum display to help others out.
Thanks again. 🙂

Love_is