Right on. I’ve had marriage trouble and no success in getting my wife to talk directly for over 1 year. It seems to be masturbation-related. She agreed last night to talk more directly instead of “you know what you did.” If it is revealed that she had discovered an Aneros I will report back here the next phase of the journey.
@helical Yikes brother, I'm really sorry to hear that. Must be making you feel pretty mixed up. Obviously I know nothing about you, your wife, or the situation, but if this is about your seeking of personal pleasure in the company of yourself, then I feel like it's pretty unfair of anyone to judge or even punish you for that. Might be time to look for a more open-minded partner? Remain strong, value yourself and your experience.