Hello everyone!
I bought my aneros about 1 month and i used it several times. Before i bought the aneros i also had anal experience (inserting a dildo while masturbating e.g). Now its time to take the aneros challange and get an orgasm without touching my dick. I read about the tips in this forum and it is clear to me that the super o isnt possible over night and i enjoy the way to it.
Now a question to the members: yesterday i had a session. At first i put that thing in and relaxed laying on my right side. After a few minutes i start doing kegels. Because i have not found the right position yet, i changed it laying on my back whith sole feet against each other. I relaxed again and then i recognised a litte twitching behind my scrotum. It was nice but not a strong feeling. How can i improve that feeling? Should i keep going in that position (that the position is Working for me?) Is that twitching the right way to the orgasm? Whats next? Need help
Greets
Matthew
Hi Horny, I never found that lying on my side worked and so I'm always on my back. As you said, it's whatever works for you. I experienced that little twitch when I first started which got stronger each time I rode. After about a year I was having tremendous orgasms which lasted for up to five minutes or more. The fun is slowly moving to that point which only comes if you persevere. It won't happen overnight and there will be days when it is a bust. (Last Thursday almost nothing worthwhile happened. Yesterday was pure bliss.) But I know that there is even more pleasure out there for me if I keep at it. I'm sure you will as well.
Any time you're feeling something nice, you're on the right path.
Just keep your expectations low and enjoy the experience. Tune out everything else and just let your brain concentrate/focus on that little tingle. Use your typical masturbatory techniques to your advantage. We've all had times that you have to focus for better pleasure with sex or masturbation. It's the same idea just applied to another method. My first few times experiencing the super o, completely free of penile stim, blew my mind and I still only seem to get there by practicing the "do nothing" approach. I let the toy do the work. I don't do voluntary kegels until I'm far into the rabbit hole and have started down the path of experiencing a no touch mini O. Once I have one, I let my body relax and let it stir up the next one. Once I've hit the point where they come in successive waves, that's when I start doing kegels to initiate the feelings and then I start driving.
Again tho, the experience and path is different for everyone. Stick to it and you will see results. Your kind will be blown the first time it happens.
Good luck!
Hey!
thanks for the answers! It's nice to hear that this little tingle was also a part of the beginning from your journey. Next time i try to focus it without doing any actions. But i think that is easier written than done 🙂 maybe i expected too much or i thought that it needs more active movement (kegels) to increase that litte feeling. And the aneros always moves automatically the complete Session? What do you mean with typical masturbatory techniques? I think it is not allowed to touch the dick. By the way: when it goes to the end to the session, did you wank your dick at your beginning until you ejaculate (with the aneros in) or you put the aneros out and do then the "normal wank"? Last time i finished with the aneros in my butt (it is a complete different feeling touching the dick even though not necessarily better) and i shoot a big load on my stomach 🙂
Hi horny. My tip is to start exploring your nipples. Light fondling when riding will enhance those tingles in your prostrate, eventually your nipples will become your best friends
Hey!
Ok i will try the nipple thing the next time. Maybe tomorrow morning if the arousal is so high like now. I would like to stick the helix in now but i have no time today 🙁 i'm so excited to explore everything whats going on with my body when im riding. But the main thing is enjoy enjoy enjoy
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I had a session yesterday morning. I put the aneros in laying on my back and relaxed. I expected nothing and i wanted to do nothing. After a few minutes i recognized this twitching what i told in the Post above and the helix started moving in my ass. I enjoyed it and i tried to relax even more. Next i felt my prostate (Never felt the prostate bevor). The prostate was dancing around and it was feeling "hot" or like glowing. That was a really nice feeling and i said to myself that i have more to relax and dont push into that feeling. I focused on this "glowing" and suddenly there was a warm rush from my pelvis to my head. I was seeing a litte firework behind my closed eyes. I thought wow that was nice. I think that was a mini o....? After that i changed from the helix to the mgx. The mgx was only seconds in my ass and it starts to "fuck" me. After a Minute or so there was the "glowing" prostate again and there was a warm rush again. Next i felt that something bigger feeling was "building up" but i lost that feeling.. maybe that was the beginning from the super-o. As Resume: i was Exploring new things which were great and im excited to explore much more 🙂
Great progress over a relatively short period there horny. Maybe changing devices during your ride broke the arousal level. I tend to stay riding the one device in a session. Often if the pleasure fades away I just relax and focus on the spent pleasures, surprisingly another round of potential orgasim will build and the fun starts again.
Yes horny, the buildup was probably coming and sometimes if you stop and think about it it will go away... I have experience that a couple times but just keep going. When you are in that lost mind and relaxed is when it hits you the best. It is one part physical control and another mental. Just relax and wait for that intense glowing warm feeling in your prostate and let the pleasure waves run over you. Worth the wait !!
Hey! Meanwhile i had 3 Sessions. In each session i had that feeling that something is building up. While that feeling gets stronger my heartrate increases until it gets to a point how it feels like i would have to cum. At this "peak" i cant go any further. It's like that is something missing to hit the point of no return (like i have when i normally masturbates with my penis). The feeling fades away and after i relaxed again, this Journey starts again (but also only to this point).
does anyone know this "problem" and can give me some tips? I'm clear that i have to relax,i feel relaxed at this point (maybe except the heartbeat what i'm hearing). Its about that feeling that is missing at this point.
I'd try semen retention for a good while.
Okay! I'll try that.. at least no masturbation. But sex is okay. At the moment i asked myself why i'm doing masturbation with hand. I have a stable and good sex live in my relationship
lets see what effect this has. Only Sex and sometimes an aneros session 🙂
Hey there!
meanwhile i had many sessions.. some of them were weak and others plesuarable. Thats normal. Often it starts with building some "plesure steps" from not strong after minutes after insertion to a state of a plateu (where i can feel my heartbeat in my prostate for example) but it never felt "orgasmic" like the feeling i told above (warm rush). In the whole sessions the aneros stays still or sometimes maybe a little tug of war or litte twitching in my muscles. I feel like i'm stuck at this point. Dont get me wrong its a nice feeling even without the aneros isnt moving but nothing orgasmic.. any tips?
the nipple diddle works for me.. so it improves the tingle feeling especially at the beginning.
Just adding my experience as yours seems very similar to mine. I also experienced the warm rush you described in my earlier sessions, but it has never happened in that way since.
I’m eight months in and i’m primarily using the do-nothing approach when I have a session with the Aneros. While it’s not producing orgasms it’s certainly become intensely pleasurable lately. So much so that I no longer even think about orgasm - I just love getting some time to get lost in the sensations it creates.
But by far the best thing is, recently my A-less has been getting better and better all the time. I think this was helped along by practising breathing techniques and semen retention. I also changed the way I approach nipple play. Rather than focusing on how it feels to touch my nipples, I focused on how my prostate reacts. This has taught me that the more gentle the touch, the more exciting the result.
I dont even care how long this journey is - I just love that I can now summon horniness virtually at will and no longer feel any sort of desire to quash it by ejaculating.
Hey!
just finished a session. The last Two month i only used my helix instead of the mgx. Today i wanted to give the mgx a try. It's the "old" Model with a relative hard p-tab. Different as the trident Series from the helix.
i inserted it and i immediatly felt a difference compared to the helix. The p tab was digging into the spot and it felt really nice. Maybe something that i was missing from the helix. I relaxed and started belly breathing (i have done the breathing the the third time now and that makes a huge diffrence to me). P waves started and i was relaxing even more. The feeling got stronger until my heart beats and i was rising to a Peak of this feeling. This high last about 3 minutes or so and then got it a little weaker.. i relaxed again and the feeling got stronger again. It was like i was in a high level were the body was able to get rising to a orgasmic feeling (but without a rush or an edge or release). Very very nice. At one moment i got a feeling like somebody would stick a glowing metal nail through my bladder and it would get out on my back. This was only 2 seconds or so. A feeling that was nearly painful but nice in some way... i think i made a good progress in this session with my mgx :-))
nice weekend!
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something new from me: usually i used to lay down on my back and my legs straight on the mattress. Like i would go to bed. In my last session i bend my legs with feet (sole) on the matress. Then i felt something new.. it was like the aneros was vibrating. Never felt that bevore. Does anyone know that feeling? This is something that i might have to investigate further 😉
Hey!
Meanwhile i had some really good sessions with the eupho syn which i bought a few months ago. I have learned that i need to have that "prostate horny state" to have some good sessions. It is like you guys told... its all about relax relax relax. The eupho gave me a diffrent feeling and a good shift in my progress. Im now at the point where i have cycles of good feelings with some peaks of really good feelings (different to penile orgasm) but not a feeling that is out of that world... but that is okay for now. Im enjoying my process and dont set me under pressure.
Something is really interesting: i usually use the "do nothing" method. When feelings are building up, i add a little kegel or little flexing the pc muscle and that feelings get stronger.. often it is enough only to think to do this flexing and the feeling gets stronger. Its kind of weird 🙂
So, i'm enjoying my cycles of plesure. But -apart from that- has somebody tips what i can do at my actual state of having these cycles? Or is it only relax and see what happens?