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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
Hi all i am new to Aneros and have recently brought a Helix as my first Aneros. I have had it for around 2 weeks and used it around 5 times so far. The first session nothing really happened but wasn’t disappointed or expecting anything as I have already read the discussions on rewiring and taking time to do so around 1hr ½ session. 2nd session around 2 days later I got small involuntary contractions in my ass and my leg on the underside was slightly shaking but due to being new to anal play my muscles were still pretty weak so couldn’t carry on too long. In the end I ended up taking a break from the contractions and just laid there but was so relaxed that i ending up falling asleep with it in for around 2 1/2 hours before being woken up by the baby crying so that was the end of that session. Third session was on the right track was very relaxed and was going for the long session but again interrupted, someone chose the wrong moment to knock on the door. After getting rid of the person at the door I decided to carry on where I left off and after around 45mins of 15second contractions I started to get involuntaries but this time just in my ass. I think I must have been holding the contractions to hard as what I experienced was a HFWO. A few days later I tried the Hypnaerosession CD which seemed to help relax and again I experienced 2 HFWO and now it seems all am I am able to do is ejaculate hands free which is not what I really want to do. At first and even now I was thinking if the helix is really hitting the right spot as I feel more pleasure when inserting a finger in the anus and touching the prostate. I am not sure if the helix is hitting the spot but surely it must be for me to be able to quite easily have a HFWO each time. However my sessions seem to be quite a lot of work to maintain any good feelings I am feeling as my contractions do not usually start until I really hold my contractions tight and then even when the contractions start I am unable to move even the slightest or I will lose everything and if I don’t hold the contraction I will also lose it but when I do hold it I have a HFWO which pretty much ends the session anyway. I was thinking of trying the progasm so that I may get a more fulfilling rubbing on the prostate but when I use the Helix and just leave it in and just relax after a while I can tell that my prostate is being tigleed as I feel a warm sensation in my prostate and I feel that it is swollen but as I said above it just seems like I have to force longer and harder contractions just to get any sort of feeling. I have been using the helix in a side position however recently I have found it easier to get to the involuntary contraction point by sitting up with feet flat but it is very hard to keep it going as I can’t fully relax as I find myself concentrating too much on losing the involuntaries when I get them.
Please can someone explain to get the hang of the contractions when you say small contractions how small is small (time) and when I get involuntaries should I carry on doing small ones and let the wave quickly pass by and build up or is there something else that I am missing. Any help will be appreciated. Altough the above may come across that I am frustrated and trying to force something to happen I can assure you that I am not and also do not have high expectations, during my sessions I have been very relaxed to the extent that 3 out of the 6 times I have almost fallen asleep with the helix inside. Thanks
01/09/2012 12:10 pm
There's probably no harm in falling asleep with your Helix inside. As to getting the hang of the contractions, you're just starting out and the "journey" can be a long learning curve, steeper for some than others. In my case it was almost a year and admittedly, I let myself get frustrated also before the feelings started coming.
It is true that a different model can help with identifying prostate contact but I wouldn't rush to change this early on. I have a Progasm but use it the least as I get far greater sensations and movement from the smaller models. There are different approaches, but the one that worked for me was lying on my back with the massager in about 10 minutes relaxing completely still, then doing gentle PC contractions, the "pull" you would use to gently cut off urine flow midstream (not an anal pulling in contraction like trying to hold back a bowel movement) for about 30 seconds or so, then resting for about 30 seconds, all while lightly tickling my nipples.
For most, over time with continued practice, this will eventually bring on some warm, tingling feelings deep in your pelvis and pleasant wormy wiggling feelings in the anal sphincter. When you feel this, just play around with what you're doing in an attempt to sustain and amplify these sensations and soon you'll experience an involuntary contraction where without your voluntary control your rectum will suck in and grip the massager against your prostate producing really pleasant, kind of pre-orgasmic feelings deep inside. With continued practice these feelings will spread out into the penis eventually producing a hot burning feeling in the glans that will "mature" with further practice into intense, just like you're ejaculating feelings that are very long lasting and more intense than a traditional penile stimulated orgasm, i.e., the prostate or dry orgasm as there'll be no ejaculation with it, just the intense orgasm.
You've got a long way to go, but don't let that frustrate you. Simply savor all the little feelings as you discover them. It may take you weeks or months, but you'll enjoy the process.
01/09/2012 3:16 pm
thanks for your advice will give it a go.
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