Sideways and laying on my back press the brakes somewhat. I still get P waves but the excessive super Os stop. After that I breathe, think of other things, get a drink of water, etc.
Yep yep, that's the way it works for me, sometimes I'll use the bathroom or have a snack, process what is happening. Having some brakes in the system removes much of the fears and apprehensions.
Curiously laying on my back is the most effective position with the aneros inserted. But for aless, don't know why it's less effective.
I think this has to do with how things line-up internally, with Aneros, sitting on my heels like you said is pretty much as good as it gets for prostate contact, but relaxation suffers somewhat since it remains a tension position, with your core keeping you upright etc. On back with feet flat on floor is pretty much the same "rotated" 90 degrees. A good friend commented on "squatting toilets" and how they help to align things, this makes sense to me. On back with legs straights, in my case this chokes the Aneros somewhat, and bending the knees immediately frees things up. That's great to pump the brakes.
With Aless, mobility should be similar in most positions, so maybe thjis is why you don't get the same boost on your back without a device?
with aneros, on my back with legs bent, feet flat = the best
On my back legs straight = no aneros movement. for aless, with legs straight again not much pleasure potential.
with legs bent i get better results but it’s not great. Maybe because of the tension on the muscles to keep the legs that way? Aless for me is definitely a slow burn while using aneros is practically instantaneous.
just curious. Are these aless orgasm dry orgasm??
thanks friend.
Nothing else so far. Sorry for the delay. Take care! Mart