Anyone here have Aless waves almost every day ? They're not continuous but usually off & on most every day. Especially driving or certain types of chairs I sit in. Is this a newbie thing ? I'm 4 months in now and wonder if this common. Kinda grown used to it, but sometimes it can get intense. I can still sleep ok at night, but it gets going during the day.
Am almost three years in! Wake up to Aless frequently in the early morning hours! Very enjoyable and relaxing with lots of pleasure!
I have found that when Aless occurs I am almost always relaxed and thinking about a previous session at some level. Early morning just after waking up and relaxing with a cup of coffee on the deck in the rocking chair is the best. As for chairs, cars, kegeling, anything that provides a bit of pressure or vibration to the external prostate area will cause me to take notice of the stimulation and start to pay attention to it. My attention to the stimulation or thinking about it, is what kicks off and sustains an Aless experience. I find it is of my doing and not the other way around and can be stopped just by engaging in normal everyday activities that focus my attention elsewhere.
When I began this journey, one of my bigger concerns was that Aless would just happen and turn me into a blithering mess in social situations. It just doesn't work that way. WhenI feel a wave, I find it only amplifies if I think about, and pay attention to it.
One interesting thing that also came out of this is a rehash of the old question of will prostate stimulation bring out some sort of denied gayness in me. I know, I know....silly thinking, but I am sure that it is in the hetero mindset of many somewhere. Well, Aneros and Aless certainly answered that question for me. If I am out and about and happen to see or engage with a really good looking woman, the Aless will kick in and I can start throbbing..but it never gets in the way of the appropriate interaction. That has never happened with men.
Am almost three years in! Wake up to Aless frequently in the early morning hours! Very enjoyable and relaxing with lots of pleasure!
All the same here. At weekend, when I’m in no hurry and really can let go, I love to enjoy it from waking up for about an hour or so. On workdays I only can afford little time during my Qi Gong morning routine. Or perhaps, if I‘m in the mood, I’ll have some Aless on my way to and from work or even at my work place. Lately I enjoyed some wonderful Aless during a little walk at lunchtime.
After all there are rarely any days without Aless. And I love it.
Cheers, Mart
Anyone here have Aless waves almost every day ? They're not continuous but usually off & on most every day.
YES, I enjoy Anerosless sensations at various times almost everyday.
Is this a newbie thing ? I'm 4 months in now and wonder if this common.
This is a very common phenomenon for Aneros practitioners. It's not just a "...newbie thing", it's an awakened prostate thing !
Kinda grown used to it, but sometimes it can get intense. I can still sleep ok at night, but it gets going during the day.
Yeah, as the posters above have noted, it is an enjoyable side effect experience of Aneros use and under your mental control. It is only a concern if you start obsessing about it. It is greatly a function of your consciousness's intensity of focus. IMHO, most Aneros users quickly learn to accept this new change in their mind-body relationship and fully integrate it into their lives for their betterment.
Good Vibes to You !
Usually the longer since I had a regular session the more likely I am to have some minor Aless happenings.
Right now it's been over a week since my last session and I'm in and out of Aless. It can get pretty intense 🙂
but it's certainly controllable. I like to do a little Aless edging adding in some nipple stimulation too!
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I get pleasurable waves just about every morning as I lie in bed. It really makes it difficult to get up sometimes! I also get them if I sit in certain chairs, or lie down on my left side mid-day (weird, huh?). They don't manifest into a full blown orgasm unless I really focus on it and invite the orgasm into my body. Even then it's up to the orgasm to decide if it wants to show up at all - I haven't yet reached the point where I can consistently make them happen. I tend to get them the most when I'm down with a cold/flu or some other illness. It's almost like my prostate is trying to cheer me up when I'm sick.
When I first started getting Aless my body was still trying to sort all the feelings out and it was very confused. As a result I'd get blue balls occasionally which luckily has since gone away. Now, I can make my prostate vibrate and buzz with just a few thoughts. It used to be thinking about a sexy girl would initiate that feeling, but now thinking about my prostate buzzing will make it occur. Self-fulfilling prophecy I guess.
I began working with Aneros Syn on June 3, 2012. Three weeks later I began to experience P-waves. In early July 2012, I began working with Maximus. Shortly afterward that is when I began experiencing Aless. Aless has been since then a constant companion. I like how my Aneros sessions sessions work together and complement each other. I love to work with my Aless especially at night in bed when I diddle my nipples and wear a jockstrap or a jock and cup combo just as @goldenboy was wont to do often at night! 😉
I've been experiencing A-less several times a week for about 4 years now. I don't always have control over how strong they are. Sometimes, they're just mild p-waves and orgasmic tinglings - and sometimes they're "eyes-rolled-back-in-the-head-screaming-like-a-porn-queen" total body bliss. I don't think I need to tell you which kind I prefer... 😉 When I started -- and for about 6 months following my first A-less -- it seemed like I had less control over when they'd occur. That feeling would start up, demand attention, and grew so pressing that it was hard to resist. I found myself blissing out during staff meetings, in restaurants, while driving, watching football games, etc. It was as if the orgasms were following me around and demanding my attention on *their* terms. I was orgasming about 75% of my awake hours - and I'd wake up in the middle of the night feeling like I was cumming in buckets. But for the past 3.5 years or so, they've only occurred when I've wanted them to. I still get that feeling - the one that tells me I'm "prime" for A-less - but it's more of a suggestion now than a demand. 😉
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But I am pretty much rewired after a year or so. Am now in the habit of doing Aless almost every night before I sleep for 30-60 minutes.... feels almost a dangerous habit? Anyone else do this almost every day / did do it and have stopped. Looking for previous peoples situations regarding this.
Thanks
@jiji2000, I have delightful Aless sessions twice daily and full sessions 2 to 3 times a week.
Sessions are only really limited by your own arousal. If you can comfortably super-o day after day,then i don’t see the problem. When training at a-less back in the day lol I’d have 2 sessions a day of around 30 mins. Sometimes I might have done 3-4. I found often the sessions increased with pleasure as opposed to dulling down. You do you pal,if it works,it works.
Sessions are only really limited by your own arousal. If you can comfortably super-o day after day,then i don’t see the problem. When training at a-less back in the day lol I’d have 2 sessions a day of around 30 mins. Sometimes I might have done 3-4. I found often the sessions increased with pleasure as opposed to dulling down. You do you pal,if it works,it works.
I to have some kind of session everyday, intentenally and unitentionally. I never new it when I started but I started having a-less involuntaries on my second session, after the first 3 weeks till now, all I have to do is just slightly think of having a session and my abs tighten, and my prostate contracts. I seems I am a use it or lose it type. After 9 months I am finally experiencing, the pleasure to go along with all the contractions and thrusting and vibrating and floating. I am scared if I stop my current 2 sessions a day intentional and at least 1 uninten.,just because I happen to think of it or daydream into it, 1 ofmy dailys I make leaps and strides over my previous best. It justs gets better and better. And I feel I"m just on the cusp of some thing really incredible. I guess it really is what works for you. As I probablly wouldn't recommend what I'm doing to anyone on here. Just wanted to mention it as maybe you are like me
I don't have much good aless going for me right now, so no, not everyday. But I session up at least twice a week currently. See, I have dormant sexual arousal most times so I can't just will it as easily as some of you, but I'm ok with that. And so that is the reason I started "nofap" or whatever you want to call it, it certainly helps, during with or with out aneros.
Although weed helps immensely with growing arousal, and I use it most times.
I don't have much good aless going for me right now, so no, not everyday. But I session up at least twice a week currently. See, I have dormant sexual arousal most times so I can't just will it as easily as some of you, but I'm ok with that. And so that is the reason I started "nofap" or whatever you want to call it, it certainly helps, during with or with out aneros.
Although weed helps immensely with growing arousal, and I use it most times.
Yes I also do no fap. For the sake it builds up aneros sessions..... makes it so much better if you are 7 days + no ejaculation.
[...] feels almost a dangerous habit? Anyone else do this almost every day / did do it and have stopped.
Some guys here will remember me talking about a period where things were close to out of control for me regarding session frequency and length. I think the important thing to consider is intensity, in my case it just was not realistic to expect to be blissed out for a long time day after day without experiencing any side effects down the line. I'm quite sure this vary between individuals; age, libido and energy levels will also play a role.
So I don't think it a "dangerous habit" per se, just something you might want to keep an eye on. You'll have to decide for yourself how much is too much and also what % of your daily "hobby hours" can be devoted to this particular one.
As well there's something about not using your dick or cumming that makes me feel more cultivated and complete.
I found the journey changed my whole attitude to ejaculation. I no longer crave it and ejacualtion 2-3 times per month is more than adequate lol. You don’t get wiped out with PO. 🙂
Yea, patience is rewarded in this journey, instead of instant gratification. I like to feel that circuit of sexual energy grow in me as I restrict myself, so I try not to break it. But I think it's healthy to cum sometimes, so I do it here and there as well.
I found the journey changed my whole attitude to ejaculation. I no longer crave it and ejacualtion 2-3 times per month is more than adequate lol. You don’t get wiped out with PO.
Slowly getting on board with this, I think once a week might be OK for me at this point, I'm more looking at it as a convenience thing. I still don't feel that semen retention has a huge effect on Super-O success, at least in my case. I just want to avoid dealing with the refractory period... But you're right, what we crave is the orgasm and ejaculation by itself just means more often than not that the fun is over.
Dont get me wrong,I still love to ejaculate. But it’s great to orgasm,no refractory period,no sleepiness,keeping the fun and pleasure going with all of the benefits and none of the ‘drawbacks lol’.
And backing off on it makes it all the more special and enjoyable when it does cum around. The wife reckons it keeps my foot on the gas lol.
just curious. Are these aless orgasm dry orgasm??
thanks friend.
Mine are all dry (well loads of precum)
And the kind that the prostate buzzes around like crazy then stops and feels like you are floating thru space with little energy buzzing around the body randomly.
I feel I was really close to a wet one... once but can not seem to get there.
Yea, patience is rewarded in this journey, instead of instant gratification. I like to feel that circuit of sexual energy grow in me as I restrict myself, so I try not to break it. But I think it's healthy to cum sometimes, so I do it here and there as well.
I agree with that.
Right now I have found a rhythm that suits me very well. One session with a massager on Monday, one with a massager on Thursday and an Aless session on Friday with a traditional orgasm at the end of the session.
and I used to do it every day and couldn't go more than 1 day without it
Ah,the younger days when ejaculation was a right, instead of being a privilege like now. I get so excited when the wife decides she wants a creampie,it’s like the first time ever! He he. And in between,I’ve got the power and sheer numbers of prostate orgasm to enjoy! 🙂
Old post.
But I am pretty much rewired after a year or so. Am now in the habit of doing Aless almost every night before I sleep for 30-60 minutes.... feels almost a dangerous habit? Anyone else do this almost every day / did do it and have stopped. Looking for previous peoples situations regarding this.
Thanks
I stopped doing this because my body would give me involuntary P waves and super Os through the night and I would barely sleep at all. Sounds like fun, but when you're on the fourth or fifth day straight of barely sleeping it gets very uncomfortable very quickly.
Lately I've tried doing it again some days of the week but still it's hard to control. I plan for 30 mins and my body keeps going for 1 or 2 hours. Still working on controlling it.
Stopping Aless sessions every night had no negative impact on the quality of my aneros or aless sessions besides taking a little more time to "warm up" whereas before the pump was primed all day every day.
Lately I've tried doing it again some days of the week but still it's hard to control. I plan for 30 mins and my body keeps going for 1 or 2 hours. Still working on controlling it.
I get you, this seems fun until it happens to you and you have to manage it. I have a go almost every night, but some are not full-blown sessions and I'll just mess around for 30-60 minutes looking for hints and answers, I know that "on the side" positions are limited pleasure-wise for me, and also that sessions are better on the floor, so my trick here is to have sessions on my bed (less powerful) and to start on my back. I roll over on my side if I want to throttle things down, and also it's pretty easy to keep a handle on things by focusing on parts of my body that are providing les pleasurable sensations. That way I'm not fighting anything, just taking advantages of some particularities I discovered along the way. From there I can switch to being on my back again if I want to resume things, or get to a kneeling position or all fours to ramp up even further. So the side position becomes a kind of transition between different levels of pleasure. Also helps if things get weird for some reason, roll on side and all is ok.
@zentai yeah I've come to a similar approach... on my stomach, or on all fours or sitting back on my heels are very good to hit the gas. Sideways and laying on my back press the brakes somewhat. I still get P waves but the excessive super Os stop. After that I breathe, think of other things, get a drink of water, etc.
I think I need to do what you do. Not go for full blown super Os in those 30 mins, just hints and light question-answer, call-response thing. I guess I get scared that I can't invoke super O's if I don't get at least one in these mini sessions. Like I'm scared of losing a valuable superpower haha and I need to prove to myself that I haven't.
Curiously laying on my back is the most effective position with the aneros inserted. But for aless, don't know why it's less effective.