For weeks, nay months, i have been getting constant aneros less orgasms, usually without my doing anything and constant low level orgasmic feelings. I had gotten so used to this that it was a shock what happened next.
All of a sudden, with no warning, it stops dead and i am returned to a state pre-aneros.
Where has it gone? why do so many of you constantly talk about it being a thing that stays with you, that never gets unlearned?
I wish, i really wish i had not heard of the aneros, overall it has brought nothing but suffering for me. Now i know of its existance and the states in can produce i cannot let go, i cannot stop, but i also cannot seem to find a path that has consistency in any real shape.
@The_Fury My Aneros sessions are over by my choice. That does not mean that I have lost all awareness of my prostate! Your sexual self is a continuum of pleasure; can you feel it? Take a break, relax, let the pleasure find YOU! It will!
I think some of you didnt read, or dont understand what im saying here.
BigGlansDC: I have regular session, as regular as i ever have. I have even had breaks, rests and so forth but it makes zero difference... and i mean zero.
@The_Fury, keep up your regular sessions. I have done so over my five year plus Aneros journey. However for a long time, I have gone into them with the prospect of having fun and pleasure. @The_Fury, what Aneros model(s) do you use in your sessions? I am curious.
I appreciate the wisdom of @goldenboy in taking occasional breaks from the Aneros!
I have all aneros devices. I stick with helix though for most.
I do take regular breaks, so its not like its 'wisdom' really, just obvious. Still, it has little bearing on sessions wether i take a break, lengthy or otherwise.
I'm not a really long time user but did experience a period when things went from feeling better each time to nothing. I tried a few different models and at first kept trying sometimes multiple times a day but still nothing really worked. I took a couple of short breaks (a couple weeks at a time) but still wasn't getting anywhere when I had another session. Eventually I decided to take a longer break and focus on other forms of arousal such as meditation and hypnosis, along with a little edging. So for about a month I would listen to either an erotic hypnosis on Youtube or Gamma Meditation, sometimes one and then the other. At first those would make me feel more relaxed and sometimes a little light headed, but didn't really give me much pleasure. After a few weeks the hypnosis would sometimes give me a short lived erection and some tingling / pleasure waves, and Gamma Meditation would give me tingles. Still no orgasms but it felt nice and I was able to relax my mind enough to lose track of time (which for me is a big step, I am overly analytical and have trouble sleeping because my brain won't stop).
After about a month of that I finally gave my Helix Syn a try and while the session still wasn't great, I felt some things that I hadn't felt before. I also continued to use Gamma Meditation and after a couple more weeks of decent Aneros sessions I started to have really nice A-less sessions while listening to Gamma Meditation. And now a number of months later I still haven't had what I would call a super O but my Aneros sessions have definitely improved to the point of usually having a few 5-8 second orgasms and a general tingling feeling of pleasure (on a side note, I mostly stopped using the Helix Syn and switched to the Eupho classic, which of the 7 devices I have is the most reliable / best feeling one). As I mentioned I have a hard time getting my brain to stop running and since practicing meditation I have actually had a few occasions where I could really feel the difference when my conscious mind stopped briefly, I felt both very relaxed and very pleasurable, and the subtle feelings from the Aneros were more noticeable. It almost felt like an out of body experience, right up until my brain realized that and said "hey you're having an out of body experience!", and just like that I was back in my body and thinking too much again. So I know it's out there and possible, but I've also come to terms with the nature of my brain and if I can only get as far as I have, I accept that.
Anyway, I've read a number of your others posts and my overly analytical guesstimation for you is that you've tasted success, you keep reading about so many others having such great success on a regular basis, and this has made you become addicted / desperate to finding it again. Like me, your brain is getting too much in the way, and it might never get completely out of the way. But as many others will tell you Aneros success is as much about mental state as physical, you just have to find the right technique to help get you there mentally so that the physical feelings can come through. So my advice isn't just to take a break, it's to take a break and practice guided meditation and / or hypnosis. How long that break and meditation practice is is up to you. I would suggest a long enough time that you can regularly get into a deep trance where time just flies by. I'm not going to say what many others say about going into your sessions with no expectations, I think that's actually a bit of a restrictive mindset. I get what it's supposed to mean, but in a sense you are telling yourself not to expect anything from what you are about to do, and if that's what you are thinking, that might end up being what you get. Instead find what takes you to your happy place mentally before focusing on your physical happy place.
I don't know what you've tried, you may have already tried meditation and not had any luck. But there are a lot of different types of meditation and hypnosis out there and one might be just right to get you where you want to go. I've tried a lot of different guided hypnosis videos on Youtube that still don't really do anything for me, but then there are a few others that do work.