After years I finally managed to achieve non-ejaculatory orgasms

Hi All.

I know there are quite a few topic on this matter, but I'm so excited that I'd love to share this in a new topic. This also allows me to lay out my aneros journey, which has been ongoing for quite some years (7 or 8 i guess; im now 38 years old).

I've been interested in anal play since my teen years. Got my first aneros when I was around 30 years, after reading good things about it and exploring this forum. My first aneros was the Helix syn. Shortly after I got a helix classic l, eupho classic, progasm jr and, last but not least, the set of 2 peridise. They all gave me good pleasure, but the smaller ones worked best for me - more movement, more sensations. The eupho classic has been my favorite, up to recently.

While, as i mentioned, had good fun with my toys, there has been one 'issue' that i have been dealing with all these years: no matter what I did, no matter how many different approaches i followed, each and every session would end with a wet orgasm, usually handsfree (as i learned not to touch my penis at all during aneros play). I read a lot about all sorts of orgasms, anal, prostate, full-body, but i never got any further than the traditional ejaculatory orgasms (which were very pleasurable nonetheless). I felt rewired in a way because my ass and prostate would give me lot's of pleasure (contractions, clenching, etc), but the multi-orgasmic aspect was just missing. At some point i sort of gave up on it - still used my aneros toys, but i stopped pursuing non-ejaculatory orgasms. This must have been 3 years ago or so.

And then, a month ago or so, I read an article about male squirting. It captured my attention because it described a certain technique that would make you squirt (not cum). There's footage available on pornhub for those interested. The technique involves stimulating your cock head, but not the frenulum (as it will induce ejaculation). For me specifically, stimulatong  the pee hole works well. After doing that for a prolonged period of time, i feel tension building up, but not in the way an ejaculatory orgasm builds up. The tension rather builds in my belly, with my abs contracting strongly. When i kept building that tension while stimulating my pee hole, at a certain point it lead to .. a squirt. A squirt of clear prostate fluid, possibly mixed with urine. There was no semen involved, i could tell by the color, smell, consistency and taste. I managed to reproduce this squirting a couple of times. It did seem to lead to a 'partial' refractory period (it felt like a partial ejaculatory orgasm too, although a little different -hard to explain) so this isn't something i want to do everyday (i like to save my hornyness :)).

But the big revelation came when i used my aneros toys the next time, after the squirting session. I had the peridise inserted and was enjoying the sensations like i used to do. But this time, when excitement starting building up, my body started tensing the way it did when i went for the squirt, rather than building up to an ejaculatory orgasm. So, i was expecting a squirt as i got more and more excited. My muscles tensed further and further, but then.. i didn't squirt, but my body started spasming in a way it never did before. Heavy muscular spasms, concentrated in the belly area, that were quite pleasurable and intense. Lasted for about 10-15 seconds. I didn't realize it at the time, but this was my first non ejaculatory orgasm.. 

As the session progressed i got more and more of these episodes of spasms, and interestingly enough they moved all over my body - not only in my belly, but further up in the torso, and down in my legs too.. or sometimes it would feel like all muscles in my body would tense up. And after a while my prostate started joining in on the fun too, giving me considerable pleasure on each spasm. At this point i realised these spasms were actually orgasms, sometimes full-body, sometimes more related to my ass or prostate.  I'm still exploring all this, but i already experienced all sorts of orgasms, some more subtle, some very intense, with heavy spasms, which will leave me panting for a while. It is a lot of fun to learn how to induce these orgasms, to build them, to savour them. Similar to how you learn to get 'better' at ejaculatory orgasms. I'm just so excited that at age 38 i finally unlocked other ways to orgasm. I didn't think i would get to this point...

It feels like my body finally found another way to release sexual energy, apart from ejaculating. But i didn't achieve it through relaxing, not focusing on my penis, mental exercise, or any such things, but through a rather unusual physical exercise (the peehole stimulation and squirting). It might be helpful for others who are in the same boat as i was - as this technique will show your body a way to release sexual energy without actually ejaculating. And when you take that ability to your aneros sessions... something special might happen! 🙂

P.s. this is the article on male squirting i read:

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/male-squirting-orgasm-porn-video-how-to