Addiction?

Aneros > Masturbation
Aneros < Sex

Yes - it is addictive.

That said, I highly doubt you'll ever choose solo masturbation / aneros play over sex. I have way better orgasms (whatever you want to call it - dry orgasms, multiple orgasm, super orgasms) during sex than I do by myself. So if anything, sex just became way better.

That said - cumming the old fashioned way with 1 orgasm and 1 ejaculation I usually avoid now, even if sex. It's just boring compared to what it could be. That doesn't mean every partner I have can also have multiple orgasms like me. But I do choose partners that are into taking their time, having sex for a long time, and who are the right fit with how i like to play. But that's a pretty typical normal thing I think.

That said - there's always a hot guy that just doesn't get it, who just wants to suck me off or do something quick in 10-15 min. I'll still say yes sometimes, but I'm way less likely to say yes to that now if there is another option that will be more satisfying.

From everything I have read on here, it does indeed seem to be extremely addicting once you start having them. Just wanted clarification on that for sure. Like I said I have been using the aneros on and off for almost 2 years with no Super o/dry o yet. The one thing I have noticed is when I do use the aneros is that afterwards even though I don't orgasm directly from the device, if I do have sex or masturbate soon after I pull it out, I tend to cum buckets it seems pretty intense when I do shoot my load. If I don't use the aneros for a while, my orgasms are still good just not that intense as when I'm practicing with the device more. Really wish I could get the device to work since it's been 2 years of trying. May try to work more on abstinence again to see if that makes any difference.

I really wouldn't worry about it. It did change my sex life (with myself, or with partners) pretty quickly once I learned. But it's mostly all positive things.

I had my first success with it on a Tuesday afternoon while my partner at the time was away on a trip. So when I got back, i was wondering how to tell him. Even wondered if I might just keep it to myself for a bit or wait for the right time to tell him. That didn't work at all. About 5 minutes after he got home, I was so turned on that I started orgasming right in front of him with my clothes on just because we kissed and he touched me. I explained to him everything that had changed while he was gone, and he was super excited. Our sex was way better from that point forward by leaps and bounds. We always had sex for an hour or two, but instead of edging and backing off of an orgasm all the time, now we could go that little bit further and really enjoy it. He was also multi orgasmic, but I didn't know! It wasn't that big a deal for him because he learned at a young age, and if you don't have a partner that's in tune with it, then it sorta just happens at a lower intensity and nobody would really notice unless youre looking for it. Once it was all in the open, we could read eachother really well and press each others buttons to get things really going. It was all really good.

I'm single now, but still find partners that are into it. I've noticed that guys who actually or more into a tantric slow style of sex can pretty easily learn this when they are with me. I can read what's going on with them, and sorta lead them towards it. They don't have the mind blowing 3 minute orgasms I sometimes have, but they are definately having multiple orgasms. I point it out to them, and then they see it. But partners like that are more hard to find. Maybe thats the downside of this - I really want to find partners into taking things slow, but most guys are satisfied with getting off in 15 minutes and I find that boring.

I've turned down sex with guys because i thought it would be too ordinary. And before i was multi orgasmic, I would have just gone for it. I don't know if that means its addictive - but it does mean what I look for in a partner has changed.

The O's of Aneros(super, dry, wet, etc.) have only broadened my entire sexual experience. They are not addictive for me, perhaps because I can have nearly the same experience A-less. They just add to my overall sensitivity and enjoyment of sex and life. I have used the new connection that the rewire has made to enhance my ability to feel calm and pleasure. I have even been able to use it to help me fall asleep. My life is changed forever in a most positive way.

I find that there is enough prep and cleanup with the use of internal prostate devices that I cannot just use them any time I have fleeting thoughts about them, so that guards against being addictive. Now, the prostate cradle is different, because being an external device, even though its not nearly as intense, it can be used any time, fully clothed, and it is still pretty darn awesome. But, I find the sensations from any and all prostate stimulation far superior to traditional masturbation. Still inferior to sex with my wife, which while rare is fantastic from an emotional and bonding perspective, even though I no longer climax when we make love.