Have been doing some research on prostate milking.
A certain someone here has these "ruminations" specifically about this subject where I've gotten some ideas. 😉
I have a non-aneros massager with a more pronounced angle at the end which seems like it might do the job I need it to do. My intention was to do what this guy is doing technique wise. The how to milk a bull info will also be incorporated to a degree.
My question comes down to this. Being new to the adventure of prostate orgasms & having only recently received remarkable results, would this prostate milking activity disrupt my rewiring?
Am trying to avoid any setbacks, so would appreciate any feedback.
Other than hurting yourself by putting too much pressure on your prostate and tearing something (it can happen, there is a user who went at it too hard, so go slow), I don't see how this could "set you back." The only regular things people advise to those trying to re-wire is to avoid penile stimulation during sessions, and to try some level of semen retention. If you milk yourself dry, it would only take a day or two to get back into semen retention. And even those things to avoid aren't valid for everyone. You will only know by trying.
My question comes down to this. Being new to the adventure of prostate orgasms & having only recently received remarkable results, would this prostate milking activity disrupt my rewiring?
@glandrake, I'm assuming you're referring to the information links I listed in my blog post Rumel's Ruminations -Part V regarding prostate massage and prostate milking. Rewiring is the general term for establishing new neural pathways in the brain (see neuroplasticity). What ever activity you focus your energy and attention on is where the pathways get built and repetition reinforces those neural paths. I think it 'depends' on what your primary intent is with regard to prostate stimulation. Prostate milking may not be disruptive to your rewiring as long as it does not become a high priority in your sensual stimulation regime.
Prostate milking can be a pleasurable activity unto itself and it can be used to relieve pressure in the prostate and thereby the desire to ejaculate. This can be beneficial for those who choose to practice semen retention as part of their non-ejaculaton practice to maintain high arousal levels, which, in turn, can enhance use of your Aneros to generate prostate based orgasms. However, milking, if done too frequently, may completely undermine your arousal potential and could become the primary focus of your journey, thereby diminishing the positive neural paths you may have developed to create prostate based orgasms.
IMHO, practicing semen retention for the purpose of maintaining high arousal levels to facilitate Aneros effectiveness is a positive behavior pattern (please see Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention and my comment posts in the 21 day challenge thread). However, I don't believe that perpetual abstinence is healthful and believe the prostate should also be flushed on a regular basis to maintain proper functioning. Regular Aneros use can partially accomplish this, as every Anerosession cam move some of the sequestered fluids out of the prostate. Occasional milking, in lieu of ejaculations, can also completely drain the prostate thus also maintaining good health and not diminish the effective rewiring of regular Anerosessions.
Good Vibes to You!
@divine_o ~ Thank you for the feedback. In the beginning penile stimulation was hit or miss. I'm better at avoiding it now & had two or three sessions in a row of no fap.
Going slow is also a sort of mantra. Appreciate the warning. My plan was to gently stoke my gland to see how it went & stop when necessary. Not expecting to drizzle copious amounts. What ever will be will be.
Semen retention experiments have been fun too. Slowly building up with that from three days to one week. Hoping to reach ten days & maybe two weeks at the most. Not sure about anything longer than that yet.
@rumel ~ Absolutely, having already read those SR articles you recommended, tips hat.
In no way, shape or form is this something I'm considering as a regular event. An addition to the toolkit as it were. For now, it's mostly about just seeing how it goes. Maybe next time, later down the line, it might be different experientially. Too soon to tell methinks.
And thank you so much for the introductory message to new members. I was thrilled to see that published.
Mixed results. While I had a decent string, I was hoping for more. Maybe it's an age related thing, shrugs. At any rate, I'll try it another time & see how it goes.
On a side note, after I got tired of trying, I laid down & orgasmed for a while, which more than made up for the milking effort. Thank you prostate, you magnificent gifting gland you.
I think that's a great way to see it. I find that each new thing you try gives you new sensations or frames of references that you can "call back" during a session. It all kind of stacks together at some point. Like compound interest maybe ?
Interestingly enough, it occurred to me that leakage has increased as a result of my aneros use.
Probably milking is something of a consequence of the device doing it's work w/o manual interference of course.
Should be interesting to see if I can get a third or fourth stage after, if or when I complete the SR 21 day challenge. I don't want to be too focused on milking until then.
Meanwhile, I thought I'd share a saucy experience.
Last Saturday I was playing with my string of beads. Each bead is 11/16in = 17.5mm diameter.
My shlong goes through the loop on the left. The bead at the other end of the string goes spelunking. I try to get it in far enough so the second to last bead is nestled on the entrance. This way it can gently graze me while I'm walking around the house, mowing the lawn, walking around the block, or shopping at the grocery store. All the various contact points & movements are a pleasurable bounty of sensation.
After returning from the grocery store Saturday, I sat at the computer for a while with a towel underneath so I could grind the second bead on the door. It's so fun. When I coax slight whispering contractions it drives me to a sort of frenzy. Leaking all the while. Not the entire time & not what I would call overflowing, butt certainly more than a drop or two.
Good times, for sure.
Have some progress to report.
After finding a discount version of the nJoy wand, it took me several attempts.
A couple weeks ago it happened & not just a couple drops either. Something like a teaspoon or so. A fascinating experience I must say.
In an effort to duplicate the results, I waited around six days after my most recent ejaculation. My goal was seven days. I couldn't wait & was grateful to have similar results.
Pre-cum is what it appears like. Normally pre-cum doesn't come out of me that much, in any setting. Although it seems like more since starting my "training." Which is why I found it so fascinating as it made its way out. Like, wow, look at that, cool, heh heh.
My concern was that I might be too old for this or that it's a younger mans game of sorts, being that with age volume can decrease. Happily that was not the case. Persistence was rewarded. Whew, that wand really did the trick.
It would seem that there is a period of time that needs to pass between ejaculation & milking. Semen retention provides me with the understanding that my system needs time to sufficiently build up. Will continue to work on the technique. For now it's a special treat to do maybe once a month or so, maybe longer, not sure yet. Don't want to overdo it.
Be well friends & keep up the good work.
Edit Note Sep.8, 2020 9:20pm CDT/GMT-5
Something I neglected to mention was the method I used. While trying to do what the guy in the video I linked to in the OP, it was kinda difficult in the beginning. I ended up on my knees reaching behind me & between my legs. Sometimes I'd lean over on one forearm. I'll be trying the seated method again now that I'm a little better at hitting the right spot with the right motion.
Interestingly enough, it occurred to me that leakage has increased as a result of my aneros use.
Probably milking is something of a consequence of the device doing it's work w/o manual interference of course.
Should be interesting to see if I can get a third or fourth stage after, if or when I complete the SR 21 day challenge. I don't want to be too focused on milking until then.
Meanwhile, I thought I'd share a saucy experience.
Last Saturday I was playing with my string of beads. Each bead is 11/16in = 17.5mm diameter.
My shlong goes through the loop on the left. The bead at the other end of the string goes spelunking. I try to get it in far enough so the second to last bead is nestled on the entrance. This way it can gently graze me while I'm walking around the house, mowing the lawn, walking around the block, or shopping at the grocery store. All the various contact points & movements are a pleasurable bounty of sensation.
After returning from the grocery store Saturday, I sat at the computer for a while with a towel underneath so I could grind the second bead on the door. It's so fun. When I coax slight whispering contractions it drives me to a sort of frenzy. Leaking all the while. Not the entire time & not what I would call overflowing, butt certainly more than a drop or two.
Good times, for sure.
I like wearing the helix trident out ,the progasm is a stay at home device.
@frekansdavtamj i do too ,have been consuming my cum sense when I first started masturbating