Ok what am I doing wrong? I can feel these orgasms starting to build out of no where, this wonderful tingle starting to expand encompassing my entire waist/loins, than if I close my eyes to concentrate/enjoy the feelings and try to expand them, poof... gone. Open my eyes and go back to doing what ever it was I was doing it comes back, kind of before going away. Should I just ignore them or not concentrate quite so much? I am sitting on the couch and ever so slightly contracting my pc muscle like I'm trying to lift my cock and can feel the tingle starting back up in my but cheeks, although the better ones start on their own.
Hi #somebody. I did a post today that partially addresses this. If you search my name to my posts you should find it, hopefully.:)
To cite an expert again, who's convincing thesis just has been discussed once more in another thread ...
It is like body surfing. In the real thing you are picked up and propelled by a huge wave, a force stronger than you, giving you an exhilarating ride, but instead you go early and have to swim and persuade yourself you're getting a ride.
You want an orgasm that picks you up and sends you, not one you're trying to jump on.