Hey gents. Some guys ask about the mysterious phenomenon that is A-Less orgasm. I learned A-Less before toys,so I’ll throw my hat into the ring.
The first thing to accept,is that we grow reliant on the physical presence of a toy,but since everything is bunched tight in our PF,one must also learn to accept that pelvic musculature and some mind discipline is more than adequate to reach the same goal that’s reached with a toy and that it doesn’t take some type of mesmerising skills to do it. It’s the same. Yes,the same. If you read my ‘simple prostate orgasm tutorial’,then I can tell you free of charge that those basic principles are the foundations of an A-Less orgasm too.
The next thing to accept is that it’s only your head that holds you back. Here’s a small test you can do right now. Contract your pc and anal sphincter hard,both at the same time. Close your eyes. Hold these contractions and focus on your perineum. After 5-10 seconds,start to gingerly let them go,as gingerly as you can,as if your afraid of breaking something or making noise and waking someone up lol. As the muscles power down,you will feel sensation,and it’s pleasureable. This is an A-Less p-wave. All that needs to accompany this sensation is arousal. Notice I said ‘you will feel’,don’t hope to feel it,or search for it. FEEL IT! It’s right there in your PF!
So,after feeling what I expected you to,then you must accept that it’s it’s not some mystery of the universe,it’s as easy as pie. Accept it,and believe it,and build on it. I’ve come to realise that belief is the probably the single most important thing on the whole journey. Look at reddog,he hit the zone,changing models throughout a session,each model arriving at orgasm? Why? Belief. He could have stuck the handle of a yard brush up his ass that day and still arrived at orgasm.
So,now we know we are capable of.
Practice sessions. Learn to focus,and believe in yourself. As always,anchored tension is crucial,switch it on,and contract. Involutaries work in the same way. Learn to contract and tension in the background,free your mind up to build arousal. Experiment with different force levels and find a groove.
The nipples are a wonderful tool to ascend the A-Less stairway to orgasm.
Use them intermittently to ascend a step,and let them bring you higher each time you return to them. I recommend a few seconds diddle with 10 second intervals.
As with any session,don’t chase,don’t try to force it. Relax and believe.
Awesome write-up! Thanks for the hat tip. I've been at this fore well over 10 years and it's finally starting to click! Another great session today that I just wrote about. We are so blessed to have discovered this gift!
Just making sure guys know that it’s the same. No magic or alternate universe. Prostate massage is prostate massage whichever vehicle we travel in! 🙂
Ah the the elusive Aless orgasm. Great thoughts on kicking off the sensations! I posted about this on Reddit recently but what the hell. Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no cleanup.
If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an aless super O.
Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.
Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience.
Ah the the elusive Aless orgasm. Great thoughts on kicking off the sensations! I posted about this on Reddit recently but what the hell. Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no cleanup.
I’m pretty sure most of the time,the right mood is required for any session,toy or otherwise. Arousal+Pelvic work = Orgasm! 😉 No prep and no clean up is a huge bonus.
Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms.
No nips is A-Less ‘boss level’ hahaha.
Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience.
This! Visualisation of arousal of the win is so important. You can grow the orgasm to toy level with practice and time devotion. Surrender and letting go is key. But it’s perfectly achievable.
Thanks to all of you for writing about it. It is really very helpful. I have been using Aneros for 9 months or so and now I am really enjoying it . Thanks to @Helghast, for aless ideas. I have been following his guidelines and it is real fun to have aless time. But I have not reached any orgasm yet and I am not waiting for it as fun is fun whether it is accompanied by orgasm or not .
Keep putting that work brother,it’ll pay off,just haven’t let go yet,but you will and then you can come in out of the cold 🙂