A different type of aless orgasm

So if I understood you correctly , you rub the head of your penis with the flat palm side of your hand ? 

@buick45571gmail-com. You asked “Flat palm side”

[irony alert]

He said “palm”, so I truly can’t see how you’ll go wrong with “palm side”.

“Flat palm side” is harder to parse. My palm, at its flattest, is naturally slightly concave, and attempting flatness doesn’t seem productive. And if you happen to cup your palm slightly as you rub, I figure that would work too. The object is to isolate sensation on the head/ crown of your penis, and nowhere else. 

Posted by: @anerospore

Has anyone identified any other specific nerve zones that can trigger orgasm through mental focus that provide a different orgasm experience than a traditional aless pgasm?  If so, I’d really be interested in your experience!

When I was young, maybe ten, I discovered in the act of shinnying up signposts and climbing ropes, that the muscular tension involved in lifting the knees and clenching the thighs created some pleasurable sensations in my groin—enough so that I hung at the top of a few posts just for the sake of that feeling. I was years away from discovering masturbation, and I didn’t orgasm, but I recognized that something was goin’ on. 

In my recent adventures with the aneros I’ve realized that holding tension in the pelvic floor, or more precisely that tensioning the muscle(s) that run from the pelvic arch just above my penis, to my perineum, has the familiar effect I discovered at age ten. I’ve been toying with holding that tension even without the aneros—and yesterday that sent me into a lengthy round of involuntary contractions.

I think I might’ve just crossed the aless threshold.

I have never had the exact type of orgasm you mention, if I understood you correctly, but... it Is possible to achieve seemingly infinite sorts of aless orgasms, from all parts of the body, through direct stimulation, through muscle movement or relaxation, through mental focus and letting go, as well as any combination of those things. Where ever there are nerve endings, stimulation (real or imagined) and a willing brain, orgasms are possible. I have had orgasms from many of my body parts at this point, with or without simultaneously stimulating my prostate through aless pc clenches or awareness. Fingers, neck, nipples, anus, toes, knees, to name a few.

the male squirting orgasm is interesting. My experience with it is as follows: I discovered it 4 years ago. It took me a few tries to figure it out. I have since done it perhaps 5-6 times and only to quench different partners’ curiosity after telling them about it. It feels really good and really irritating at the same time, with the pleasure being masochistic of nature. For me it falls in the realm of cock and ball torture. The fact that I have only done it a handful of times of the last few years is testament to the low reward/effort ratio involved for me. So if you don’t figure it out, you may not be missing much. If you are curious about my technique which has proven successful every time since the first time I succeeded at it, I can tell you, but I imagine it is the same as whatever you are reading. And I wasn’t aware of videos about it.

since my teenage years I have really enjoyed having only my head/corona stimulated, for minutes at a time during masturbation, handjobs, and moments of very shallow penetration (just the tip). This causes me to go weak all over and my eyes to water profusely, it is so intense. Recently, since my rewiring, I have been able to turn that intense sensation into dry orgasms. So that is something worth exploring. However it is hands on, unlike your aless experience. And like all penial-stimulation dry orgasms, it takes a lot of experimentation and focus to figure out how to orgasm without setting the ejaculatory process in motion. 

@divine_o I would really like to hear about your technique for squirting.  I always end up in a dry O and can't seem to get there.  

Also, you mentioned having aless orgasms from other parts of your body such as your knees.  How do you go about this?  Thanks for sharing!

For squirting: Make sure you are very well hydrated-- whether it is urine or not that comes out, it does depend on hydration. Then try it after a generously long masturbation session (30 minutes to an hour, with porn if that helps with arousal). While masturbating try to focus mainly on your head for a large portion of the time. If you are dry masturbator, use lube.  Then right after you ejaculate rub the tip of your penis and urethral opening vigorously. This is where being well lubed is imperative, BUT you can use your semen for that as well. It can help to stabilize the base of your penis with your other hand so it doesn't move to much. You will feel like you have to pee, and it will likely be very uncomfortable. Embrace that feeling of discomfort and that urge to pee. Your body does not want urine (or whatever that liquid is) to come out, and getting past that barrier is what is so intense, and thus so good. It could help to have towels all around you, so psychologically you are ready for the deluge and you aren't holding back. 

Something to think about: do you ever have the feeling that you have to pee after masturbation or sex? For me, even masturbating on an empty bladder for ten minutes with give me the urge to pee. I think that is what is being released. Some sort of urine-based liquid that is produce during moments of arousal, if not urine itself. And otherwise, again, it is not a big deal if you can't figure it out. It really isn't that great. If you are already having dry orgasms from it, I would say that is better actually, and that is my favorite part about it, not the actual squirting. I just asked my girlfriend if I did it with her, and neither of us can remember (we've been together 8 months). That is how unimpressive it is, especially compared to the toolbox of orgasmic pleasure that one can build through perusing this forum and exploring one's mind and body

For non-genital orgasms... I can't tell you how to do this exactly, because it is very personal, just like prostate orgasms. But I can tell you how I came upon it. About a year ago-- so six months into rewiring and after having experienced regular orgasms with my toys as well as aless-- I came across posts by a user named @wuerstchen explaining how to have nipple orgasms. I was fascinated, and after reading different threads for a few hours and going from disbelief to curiosity, I decided to give it a go. I tried some of the techniques explained by various users and it worked! Nipple orgasms turned out to be a stepping stone to having orgasms from other parts of my body.  Orgasms induced through light touch, through pain, and everything in between.

For me there are two types of these non-genital orgasms. Ones that involve a feedback loop with my prostate, and ones that are localized with minimal or no influence of the prostate (and as usual, everything in between). With the prostate involved, it is more like typical aless for me. Without the prostate, it is something else altogether, sometimes akin to the release one might experience with a yawn and morning stretch, but with intense pleasure and release nonetheless. In my experience, nipple orgasms, along with all these orgasms including prostate orgasms, involve the same pleasure enhancing mechanism. That is, a part of your body is stimulated (or that stimulation is imagined), creating an especially interesting sensation, your brain amplifies it, you repeat the cycle until orgasm. 

I will not tell you how to go about having nipple orgasms, because there are already many threads on the subject if you search for it (type nipple orgasm, breast orgasm, nipple stimulation, etc. in the search bar), and I would just be repeating the basic ideas of these posts. Read read read. @wuerstchen seems to be a sort of guru in the nipple department. You will find all sorts of techniques, but know that just like prostate play, it helps to go slow, gently, and be present, at least in the beginning (although personally nipples clips and gnashing teeth can put me over the edge as well, but I am masochistic). 

If you can't find any good threads, let me know and I will see what I can find!

Oh actually I will give one tip for nipple orgasms, I forgot but this helped a lot in the beginning (and now I do it subconsciously): stimulate your nipples in whatever way you like (again technique abound in this forum). See if that creates a tingle or other sensation in your prostate. Revel in that sensation. Repeat. In doing so you are connecting nipple play with prostate stimulation, and creating a positive feedback loop. This is a good starting point for stimulating other body parts as well.

Posted by: @divine_o

it Is possible to achieve seemingly infinite sorts of aless orgasms, from all parts of the body, through direct stimulation, through muscle movement or relaxation, through mental focus and letting go, as well as any combination of those things. Where ever there are nerve endings, stimulation (real or imagined) and a willing brain, orgasms are possible.

There is literally nothing left to say - very well put!

I would just add one thing for the curious minds like @anerospore who are just starting to build up orgasms in exotic body parts.

Places with lots of nerve endings are better suited for beginners - the more nerves, the better. That's why our genitals are so well suited for reaching orgasms in the first place. So go for for any spot which is generally ticklish: nipples, lips, ears, feet, belly... you get the idea. Protip for partnered sex: these spots respond very well to touch once someone is (properly) aroused.

Tantra has the concept of Chi (life force) and Chakras (basins for Chi). You may read into Chakras a bit, since these tend to be spots where big nerve-cluster sit in the body. There are 7 main Chakras and I had orgasms located in 6 of them.