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I think your on the right path. Sounds like your doing everything correctly to me, though you may want to try and relax more when the sensation of cumming starts, though I know this can be difficult cause our bodies are wired to tense up like when we ejaculate, tensing up can cause the aneros to stop, so learning to relax into the feelings (if that makes sense) will yield better results in the future.
It's weird I just can't get over the edge and all. I thought ya Im doing it all right. It all seems like Im gonna cum really hard and than it just stops. No hand at all but it's annoying. Feels soo good and than it's like gone. The precum at times get crazy in the amount. I try not to tense up and it just goes away.
Johnspiker,
You have espoused the same frustrating sentiment as many other newbie Aneros users. You are hanging on to the thought processes associated with traditional penile masturbatory behaviors leading up to the PONR (Point of No Return) or "Edge", but with prostate play orgasms there is no "Edge" (see my post to 'donniebrasco' - There is no EDGE).
You need to learn to "Just Let Go !"
Good Vibes to You !
Sorry @Rumel, after having seen alot your posts about there not being an "Edge", I have to say I disagree.
Rumel is a world of wisdom, and this is probably the only place I disagree with his wealth of knowledge.
The edge I experience is not what you feel when having a traditional orgasm.
I have alot of buildups without this edge, this is why what I experience is my edge.
It`s like falling off a cliff and the body does it`s own thing without me being able to stop it. It`s a point of no return.
So what happens to me when I build up to an super-O is what alot of people say is a super-O. Pulse goes up, waves of shivering, tensing, movement of the aneros and all the good feelings.
When I fall over the "edge" my body goes into a mode where the blood rushes even MORE than it does in the original Super-O. Then I get a release (this is the ege). The release is a surge of electricity emminating from my abdomen/prostate area. It washes over my body like every singel neural-receptor connects with electricity all the way out to my fingertips and toes. It`s both incredible and remarkable. I get exhausted after this and light headed.
I can have traditional super-O`s like everyone describes them. But this edge I can only fall over one time in a session, and I rarely get there, unlike the the small and big regular Super-O`s I get.
I`ve only had four of them so far in my journey, and it really is all about going forth when the super-O hits.. not stopping but doing what you`re doing and increasing movement, pressure, breating or whatever it is I`m doing at the time.
When I got this feeling I thought THIS was the super-O. What I didn`t realize was that not many had this surge, and still said it was a Super-O.
So I guess, that if I have this cliff, it`s reasonable to say that I`ve actually hade an OTE-Super-O (OverTheEdge Super-O).
🙂