Pegging

@Ruby_Ryder So far, she doesn't care for any position but missionary, I think she likes what she sees. It could also be that she has perfected this position, so her confidence is greater. She now knows exactly what she is doing.

I don't care, as soon as it slips in I go into a trance where time stops. It is incredible. It is damn near better than anything. Having regular sex with her is GREAT! The intimacy and closeness but the orgasm from pegging is about as intense a thing as I have ever experienced.

I will add, that if I put the Peridise in during sex, then the orgasm is pretty damn close to pegging, the contractions are intense and the orgasm lasts much longer and there are waves of diminishing contractions afterward that last for a minute or more.

@xtimedt69. Thanks. I don't want them to look like a penis. I like that these don't. Not homophobic, but it kinda bugs me.

@twocan7 - The plus sized harnesses I know about and can vouch for are:Sportsheets has a whole line of well-priced plus-sized harnesses that were designed with input from plus-sized women. The only disadvantage of them is that they are not compatible with doubles, if you ever see yourself moving into that territory. Only the single flare-based dildos will work.

The Spare Parts Joque harness does come in larger sizes that can accommodate plus-sized women, but the feedback I've gotten is that if your upper thighs are larger, the elastic straps sometimes do not have enough adjustability and can be uncomfortable. There are measurements listed for leg openings as well as waist.

The Cadillac of plus-sized harnesses IMO, is the Aslan Minx. Leather, with a corsette style back and many points of adjustability make it the best plus size harness out there (as long as you like leather and can afford it).

So i mentioned peggkng to my wife a little more serioisly the other day and she got an evil grin. Now on to more suttle, but not overpowering hints. Like looking for harness and accidentally getting caught. 😉

@twocan7, or, you can buy her a Fun Factory Share, Feeldoe, etc.

@badger, googled them. They look awesome if they work for bigger girls.

You might want to read this: http://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder
Before you buy a double, believing it doesn't need a harness.

@ruby rider Nice article!! Thanks.

The first toy I bought for pegging was the FeelDoe Slim. At first, we used it without a harness but the only way it would stay in place was if my wife kept her legs locked together with me on top. Then, the in and out of the dildo on my end caused a rocking motion of the part inside her which made it uncomfortable for her. Using the FeelDoe with a SpareParts Joque harness remedied that problem.

Extensive Pegging info site - http://www.069sexpost.com/bj.html

It finally happened!!

My wife and I tried pegging today for the first time. We probably didn't warm up quite as much as we should have but she was able to get it in me. We tried doggy, missionary and cowboy. Most of the time was spent in cowboy so I could control the speed and depth. She got a little excited a few times and pushed it in a little too far which was the only discomfort I felt the entire time. My legs were shaking in ecstasy a couple different times when I was on top and she eventually got me off to an amazing orgasm with her hand while I rode her. Can't wait to try it again!!

For reference, this is the strap on we used. It was a little bigger than I would have liked but the fullness was amazing.

https://www.pureromance.com/shop/Adult-Sex-Toys/For-Women/Dildos/LOL-Non-Vibrating-Strap-On

Congrats, rohnez19!

Yeah, the toy you selected to start out with is kind of long. I'd suggest that beginners start with something more like 1" diameter by 6" long. As Aneros devices demonstrate, you don't need much in the way of dildo size to get great effects.

Cheers,

Dave

Extensive Pegging info site - http://www.069sexpost.com/bj.html

This site stole some of my work and posted it up - I had to send them a DMCA takedown notice (which is what you do when people steal your stuff). They take other people's content and then fill the site with advertising - earning affiliate $.

Sorry to hear you got ripped off by that site, Ruby. Did they remove your stories and pix? I've heard that offshore hosted sites don't give a rat's ass about US copyright laws.

Cheers,

Dave

Guys,
In research surfing of the internet about pegging practices I ran across this well thought out and written article by a professional dominatrix regarding Pegging Styles. What style(s) do you prefer?
Good Vibes to You !

Hey, rumel.

Nice article. Looks like I'm the Erotic Trance type. I think that's mainly due to Tantric Yoga practice and the Aneros Super-O experiences. Inward focus pays off that way.

Cheers,

Dave

@rumel Sensual Surrender ... it is bliss ... it's like I go into a trance. She has commented that the trance begins as soon as it slips in

rumel;

Too bad you're not getting much in the way of responses to your question. I know there are dozens of peggers on this Forum. However, they seem to be shy about posting in this thread. Too bad. I'd like to hear more opinions, experiences, etc.

Cheers,

Dave

@rumel - I enjoyed this "pegging styles" write up. Perhaps the reason you aren't getting more responses is that it is quite revealing if you are a different kind of kinky...
I also marveled at the openness with which sex work is handled in the UK. How refreshing.

Okay, Gentlemen...
I have been recording podcasts for some time, but this last one might be of particular interest to you.

For a while now I've been working on a book, a short and read-in-one-sitting book, in my voice, that was specifically intended for men to give to their partners to introduce them to the concept of pegging. I'd pretty much finished it, but I changed my mind.

I made it a free podcast instead. I decided that I wanted it to be available to anyone that wanted/needed it instead of being something they had to pay for on Amazon (my original plan). Because, basically my goal is to facilitate as many couples understanding and enjoying pegging as possible. Especially the women!

And I think this might help.

You could introduce the basic concept to her and then direct her to the podcast and say "listen to this".

I address the common misconceptions and fears, hold space for those who decide it's just not their thing as well as those who decide to embrace it, and through it all, emphasize over and over again that it took a ton of courage for you guys to approach them, and it is truly a gift of intimacy. Because you are allowing them to know a deeper part of you, no matter how they decide to respond. I encourage communication over and over, because good communication about sex is indeed the sexiest thing out there!

For those who are interested - could you guys give it a listen and let me know what you think? Feedback? Did I miss anything important? Criticisms?

Podcast is 50 minutes in length and you can stream it directly from my website.

http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/

I haven't posted on here in years. I'm more into pegging than I have ever been. I find my pegging tastes don't really seem to fit in with the crowd. After buying lots of stuff to find out what I liked best, my wife and finally settled on a spare parts joque harness and a Vixskin Goodfello dildo. I'm not a size queen, LOL. I only really like pegging missionary, it doesn't really seem fun to me unless I can see my wife pegging me. What can I say, I love her and she looks so sexy wearing that dildo. Best orgasms I've ever had in my life was while the wife was fuckin me with her little cock and stroking me to orgasm.

We liked the Spare parts harness so much we bought the deuce as well so I can DP her. Takes awhile for her to get warmed up and ready, but its a fun ride once she ready and reaches back and pulls me into her.

@Pbmazda32 Thanks for sharing - your descriptions about what you enjoy with your wife are....hot!

@Ruby Ryder,

Your podcast is absolutely OUTSTANDING!!!
I think your coverage and advice to women on pegging is 'spot on'.
I hope this podcast goes viral. EXCELLENT JOB!
Good Vibes to You !

Thank you, @rumel! Your opinion means a lot to me.
🙂

@Pbmazda32 We have similar experiences, we also pretty much stick to missionary for the exact same reasons. I just purchased the joque and she is getting used to it. We had used the Sportsheets Corset one but wore it out!

@Ruby Ryder have you ever considered doing a pegging forum? It might be helpful.

@xtimed69 - I have. And I probably will soon. I am spread a bit thin these days and need to consolidate my efforts. Clearly Aneros and pegging have some delicious overlaps and spending more time here is kind of a no-brainer. I need to talk to the guys upstairs about it (here - 'cause I don't have an upstairs!).

Hello, Ruby.

Do you mean a pegging forum hosted at Aneros.com or at your own website?

Cheers,

Dave

Note to readers: Ruby's site is here: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/

@Ruby Ryder I finally listened to Ruby's podcast, man did she hit the nail on the head!

Luckily my wife took right too it. When pegging is on the horizon she gets really sweet and lovey dovry and giddy. She has gotten really good at it. We did it the other night and I thought I would pass out. Somehow she has figured out exactly where the spot is and how to hit it. Plus she has increased her speed and force, not rough, but firm. Then when I am about to orgasm , she shortens the stroke to hit just the right spot and HOLY CRAP, the prostate goes NUTS. Ruby is right that the orgasm is 10 times a normal orgasm and it lasts for about a minute, then I have these waves that last for another minute and then throbbing that can last for an hour or two afterward.

I have one life long friend with whom I have shared all of this and he would love to have his wife do this but is terrified to ask his wife for fear she would humiliate him. I am sending him Ruby's podcast, but I doubt he will give it to her.

@ten_s_nut
Dave - You know, just since I posted last time, I decided to have the pegging forum on my website and now have my web guru working on it. I was considering doing it here and had spoken with CT Schenk about it. But I have a history of giving away my time too freely and after taking a good look at the situation, realized it was a better move to have it on my website. More traffic, more exposure, etc. Nothing will replace the forum here, I talk about Aneros and this forum in every class I teach. But I think I need to have my own pegging forum.

@xtimedt69
Thanks for the kind words about the podcast. I have been getting some great feedback about it! Both from men who gave it to their partners and had success, as well as men who read it and said it was presented well. So glad! And happy for you that you are enjoying pegging with your wife.