Pegging

Being tied sounds fun... while being pegged... better pick a good safe word!

@devajones ......we are receivers by nature. Think about it sex is always penetrative for us (unless it is a lesbian pairing void of penetration), whether oral, anal, or vaginal...we have to be receptive. That receptiveness carries over into all other aspects of life as well. We are also nurturing by nature (women carry children), so your desires are something we want to fulfill, it just has to be worth our while."

Yes !


After decades of being in a monogamous relationship, penetration by my wife has taken on a much more complete feeling than I could have imagined. I liken my emotions to those that I experienced when we were mating to produce offspring.

@rook very interesting post. I know this is an off topic question, but how do men feel when mating to produce offspring? Or maybe I should say care to expand that thought? maybe you can relate it to pegging somehow and stay on topic lol idk...but i'm curious as hell now for the first time here.

@devajones, there is a certain excitement to making love when you are trying to make a child. It is hard for me to describe, almost like the first time having sex. Pegging kind of brings that excitement back.

@devajones Hmm, not easy to explain but it definitely has many things to it... Highly erotic and even more because also spiritual to me. I'll try to explain if ever i manage to gather my thoughts about it.

@Canacan Yea, I should have mentioned that. It is very Spiritual.

@devajones, there is a certain excitement to making love when you are trying to make a child. It is hard for me to describe, almost like the first time having sex. Pegging kind of brings that excitement back.

So true, totally agree!

Hello, Mostinteresting1.

I understand what you guys are talking about regarding the excitement of sex for baby making, but can't say I've experienced that effect. For me, there's blah sex, good sex and outstanding sex.Could be
"normal" sex, Aneros or pegging. Sometimes the results seem random no matter how much effort we put into it.

Cheers,

Dave

found this video and had to share:
http://www.youporn.com/watch/10308797/double-team-pegging-ariana-and-bailey/?from=search_full&pos=1

my question is: is this as good as it gets (the guy doesn't seem to be complaining) ?

found this video and had to share:
http://www.youporn.com/watch/10308797/double-team-pegging-ariana-and-bailey/?from=search_full&pos=1

my question is: is this as good as it gets (the guy doesn't seem to be complaining) ?

Like most 'normal' porn that looks fake as all hell, doesn't look subtle and pleasurable, looks like a lot of Overacting for the camera, I'm amazed this sort of fake porn still turns people on. There are real pegging videos out there that you can really see the guy truly enjoying himself, do a search but add amatuer or home made in the search

he's basically hard the whole time in this video, he must like it enough to be hard!! those girls know how to fuck a man for sure, I'm in line as we speak for that short haired girl 😉

hmm not sure i agree as much, it looks acted and because of that he has to be hard, no matter what or there is no video. Ive seen some seriously erotic pegging that makes this look so damn fake! which it is, I'm sure it was nice but it wasn't 'awesome' or even, imo, erotic....

I've seen Bailey Paige (tiny short hair) in some other videos, and she is kind of a bitch. Really really cute, but still a bitch.

set up porn does not interest me, genuine emotions and it being more real is much better imo, though i rarely watch porn these days.

Well, a couple pegging sessions ago something amazing happened...
First, a little about my pegging experience. I can experience anal orgasms but until recently I couldn't ejaculate while receiving anal penetration. Most of the time I would get hard upon insertion but then would go flaccid and remain flaccid for the rest of the session as my focus would remain on my ass. Its slowly been progressing and I began to fluctuate between hard and soft at different times throughout the session...
In this particular session my wife was pegging me for around 2 hours. This was the first session where I was able to stay hard for the whole session with the exception of a couple of pee breaks. I was locked in an emotional euphoric state and I couldn't stop laughing in between moaning and biting the pillow.
So after about 2 hrs and a handful of intense anal orgasms, some of which kind of cascaded into the next ones, I started stroking myself. Vigorously. I noticed the stroking was more enjoyable if I flexed my pc muscles. The clenching seemed to add to the pressure on my prostate while she was thrusting into me. I told her to ignore the slight resistance and keep going. I felt the orgasm in the works but this one felt different. My prostate felt as hard as a rock and my dick was a bit larger compared to my normal hard state. I couldn't believe it, I was about to shoot my load while my wife was thrusting into me.
When orgasm finally came, The contractions kept going long after I was done ejaculating. My wife was reveling in the helpless pleasure she inflicted upon me. She was laughing and rubbing my chest, stomach and scrotum while I "swam" around on the couch moaning and laughing... I wasn't quite ready for what came next...
I burst into tears. I was completely overwhelmed by endorphins and positive emotion. I was so fulfilled by what we just experienced that I became a helpless ball of rubbery emotion. I sobbed for about 2 minutes while my wife held me. A lot of ideas went through my mind at that time. It made me somehow feel like I was arrogant before and that she somehow healed me through this action. It gave me a newfound respect for the phrase "sexual healing", which I had never given much thought to before.
This was definitely one of the most intense and mind blowing sexual and emotional experiences of my entire life. Tears of joy aren't completely foreign to me but I've never had anything like this before.
My wife and I have always pushed eachothers limits in the past but this... This was divine to me... I love my wife VERY much and we are a lot closer after having experienced this. That's about it for now. I hope you all enjoyed hearing my story.

Hello, alterdst8.

Thanks for posting about your experience. Great description.

But, two hours of pegging? I don't think my wife and I have ever lasted much over 20 minutes. Your wife deserves a gold star for effort. And you deserve a medal for endurance.

Cheers,

Dave

L-) L-)

.....and his ass deserves attention from a medical professional

G'day alterdst8,
Thank you for sharing you latest pegging experience. I feel enriched by your description of it and can only hope and dream that I might experience something as wonderful with my wife.

G'day alterdst8,
Thank you for sharing you latest pegging experience. I feel enriched by your description of it and can only hope and dream that I might experience something as wonderful with my wife.

Same!

Gents;

Seems a number of thread readers would like to try pegging. If you're one of those people, I strongly recommend you visit Ruby Ryder's website and study her suggestions, first.


Here:
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/


Cheers,


Dave

Thanks for the pointer ten_s_nut,
Pegging is close to the number one on my list of things I would love to try with my wife but as long as I breathe, it ain't gonna happen in my lifetime.

I agree, Ruby Ryder's page is the best pegging resource around.

@alterds8 That was a great experience. I have had a couple of great experiences myself, but nothing like that yet. Very inspiring.

I think I am addicted to pegging. When I first thought about suggesting it to the wife, I thought she would say no because she has always been against anal. I mean Militant about her trying it.

We have always been very intimate and have always reserved times for it.

She knew about Aneros and had no problem with that. I had had a toy in during sex before and she even ask me to put one in. So on night I brought it up and ask and she said "Sure!" The next day I ordered the stuff.

When it came she was excited and so was I, we were awkward, but it was GREAT!

Since then, I bet we do it once a week. If I don't bring it up, she asks about it. When she wants it she calls me "Peggie" when I want it I ask if Peg can visit. She works evenings and is often late because she is a part owner of her business, but if Pegging is on the agenda, she always gets home early. If I do not make the move, she will say isn't it about time "Peggie?

She likes sex, but she has NEVER been this interested in anything. She enjoys a number of things sexually, but she never asks for anything, even things I think she likes quite a lot. She says that she leaves the imaginative of sex to me and she likes what I come up with, but she RARELY suggests anything.

On another not, I have had her on the edge of a gspot O many times and she always stops me, when I ask she says she wants to cum with me.

But she likes pegging and the nest day she is HOT, HOT, HOT and wants hers, I can't say I don't like that. Funny thing is after pegging, I am most often still horny, although sexually spent, if you get the difference.

I think it feels almost better than anything besides sex with her. There is not way to get the same feeling by yourself, I have tried. It is like trying to give yourself a massage, it just doesn't work.

An Addendum ... I think I am addicted to pegging! :bz

@ten_s_nut - Haha Thanks man, I'll give my wife a golden banana sticker for her effort. For me it just seems to get better and better as the pegging goes on. I like to call it "descending the ladder of relaxation". It's like the pleasure is good and then out of nowhere I'll hit the next level of relaxation and surrender and it gets better. This happens several times throughout the session and I keep thinking it wont get any better but it does. Sometimes it's an orgasm that pushes me to the next level and sometimes the letting go is completely random.
@newguy8 , @speedosmoothy , @marriedtomywife - Glad you liked my story guys. Best of luck making it happen!
@xtimedt69 - Congratulations man! Glad you and your wife are enjoying it. I never thought my wife would be so crazy about my ass either... When we first started experimenting with her giving me analingus, she was indifferent to it... Not really turned on by it but she liked pleasing me. Now that she has seen just how much pleasure fingering, dildoing, and pegging has brought me she's turned into an anal demon!!! I LOVE IT!!!

That's my hope @alterdst8. We have had a couple of good sessions and one mind blowing one for me. The pleasure was off the chart. In no way have I been able to achieve that on my own. I know she enjoyed seeing me writhing in pleasure, but she hasn't showed the interest that your and @xtimedt69's wife have shown. I can only hope that someday she will. 😀

Though pegging taught me valuable lessons It seems I have outgrown it now.

Hello Everyone - Wow - the amazing comments that have been flying by lately!
@alterdst8 - It was with particular interest that I read your story. The classes that I teach on pegging always include information regarding a possible emotional reaction. The prostate and the G spot have a lot in common. When I ask a room full of women if they have ever had an emotional reaction to G spot stimulation, about one third of them will raise their hand. It is not unusual.


The emotional reaction to prostate stimulation is less well known, and perhaps that's because it is less talked about. Men are programmed by society to not talk about emotions. And men who are actively enjoying pegging might already be struggling with the taboos and misconceptions associated with the act itself. So when an emotional reaction comes up, it's not something they usually talk about with anyone outside of their relationship. That's why this forum is so incredibly valuable. Because of the exchange of information of this type, especially!


It is not unusual for men to come up after my class and thank me for talking about the emotional part of pegging. The reason that I do it is because I am one of those women that had an emotional reaction to G spot stimulation. I know how incredibly vulnerable that can feel. And I want to make sure that the women involved in pegging know that this is possible with their men. Mostly, I want to make sure that the women handle it well, if it happens. It sounds like your wife did an incredibly good job responding to your tears. This is exactly what I tell women in my class to do, just hold their men and let them cry. It's so important that they not freak out about their man's tears. How lovely that your wife responded so positively.


Thank you so much for sharing your story. When I had my emotional reaction it did feel healing. And who knows why it happened to begin with. But just to know that that reaction is possible is helpful in this situation not only for the man being pegged but for the woman pegging him. Basically, it's all okay. And it is really intimate and mind blowing!


I must also offer my reaction to the two hours of pegging. I have done that myself, and know how that can go. Periods of actively pegging, and periods of rest, and lots of subtle movements and slow thrusts in between. With plenty of lube and gentleness, you can go on for a long, long time. Kudos to you both.


I'm wondering if you would be willing to let me share your story on my podcast? It's an important one for men to hear. Let me know.


And Dave, thanks for the shout out. For anyone who is interested, my website PeggingParadise.com includes a lot of information about pegging, pegging erotica, as well as some of my own kink, which ventures into the world of BDSM.


I have another website Pegging101.com, where I have transferred most of my informational articles, and left out the kink, for those who would prefer to learn about pegging without the BDSM.


Some people learn about pegging through watching it on porn. When they do that, there is a misconception that BDSM comes part and parcel with the pegging act, which couldn't be further from the truth. I want to make sure that people know that you can experience pegging any way you like. It can be a sweet loving experience, just one more way to make love.


@xtimedt69 - what an inspiring story about how excited your wife is about pegging! She is an example of how there are women who do not want to try anal themselves, but that doesn't mean they won't be totally down to try pegging. Sounds like she is having a fabulous time "running the fuck ", as I call it. Addicted to pegging can be a really fun thing for couples when both of you are so into it! I share your wife's enthusiasm for the act myself, when I get done I'm dripping.


@Canacan - curious what you mean by that? That you have outgrown it…


My apologies for the verbosity of this post, I've been away too long. You guys are all so inspiring!

Hi @Ruby_Ryder

I want to thank you for your participation here and your site pegging101. It helped me express to my wife that I wanted to be peggeed. We don't do it that often right now, but I am sure that in the future, as kids move out, it will become a regular in our tool box.

The last time we pegged, I had some great anal and prostate O's. It was unlike anything I had ever experienced. It felt so good that I ended up laughing :)) with pleasure. It wasn't something I expected, but it was amazing!!! 😀

You are so welcome! Glad to help, truly. For any of you guys who would like to approach your partners about pegging but have no idea how to approach the subject, this article might help:
Convincing Her to Try It