Pegging

ten_s_nut can't agree with you more about pegging not being spontaneous. As pleasurable as it is for both of us it comsumes the afternoon with prep etc

@Love_is @musicmaker86 I can't explain it, she really doesn't get anything physical out of it and as I explained elsewhere has no interest in a share type thing. Now, she has gotten rather enthusiastic and maybe a but more aggressive. But it does make her horny and the next day or day after she is ready to rock and has become more vocal. When I ask her, she says she does it for me and enjoys watching me.

@ten_s_nut I don't find it anymore problematic than regular sex, because we almost always take a shower first, takes me a couple minutes to get the pipes clean. Takes me about 10 seconds to get her harness ready. I kinda like the ritual, it prepares my brain for what is coming and I am usually drooling pre-cum which she seems to like cause she plays with it.

I created a Monster. She has wanted to peg me Sun, Mon & Tuesday. Last week 3 days. There were physiological reasons I couldn't so they were not three in a row. But she likes it as much as I do.

It's a good monster.

While we aren't there yet, we are very close, but I know what you mean! Using toys on me is as or more erotic for her as it is for me! Yep, good monster to have in the bedroom!

@musicmaker86 I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents really quick. All women are different and what equipment you are using does make a difference. However if a woman wants to peg a man more than likely it is a mental thing first. Women are aroused mentally (usually) before physically..just the way we work. Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction. Now when using the share yea I get pleasure, sometimes I get off...but thats not my main goal. I'm usually more concentrated on him and his pleasure (kind of like how you guys are when making love to women). I know you guys always want us to physically get off (those guys that care...), however i kind of stress not to worry about that as much, were perfectly ok not getting off sometimes especially if we were highly aroused. Or after pegging you can take the time to do other things...to make her cum. My best advice relax and enjoy it.

Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction.

+1 exactly as it is for my girl!

@musicmaker86 I thought I'd throw in my 2 cents really quick. All women are different and what equipment you are using does make a difference. However if a woman wants to peg a man more than likely it is a mental thing first. Women are aroused mentally (usually) before physically..just the way we work. Just watching a man in the throws of passion is hot simple as that...especially if we are causing that reaction. Now when using the share yea I get pleasure, sometimes I get off...but thats not my main goal. I'm usually more concentrated on him and his pleasure (kind of like how you guys are when making love to women). I know you guys always want us to physically get off (those guys that care...), however i kind of stress not to worry about that as much, were perfectly ok not getting off sometimes especially if we were highly aroused. Or after pegging you can take the time to do other things...to make her cum. My best advice relax and enjoy it.

Very cool, and good to know. I understand what you mean though - I was in a relationship where we never actually engaged in sex but were pretty adventurous with our hands. And yes, she was most often more interested in getting me off than she was about herself. I felt the same way for her but she almost seemed less willing to let me pleasure her.

Thanks!

@musicmaker86 I have noticed that the day after pegging, is we have sex, she is way more vocal and animated. She gets something out of in her mind. But she won't talk about it.

Plus through our entire relationship, she would give me handjobs and BJ's, but if I tried to give her a gspot massage she will get close to orgasm and make me stop and screw her. I managed to get her to over the edge once and she had a shivering orgasm. You would think that would be incentive to do it again, but she won't. She says she likes it better to cum with me inside her.

She says she likes it better to cum with me inside her.

Of course she does... Don't you understand her now?

Ya know, since I was finally able to tell my wife I wanted her to peg me, it has opened up our relationship even more. We have been pegging on and off for, I would say, 3 years now. When we do get the chance to peg, the experience is more than just having anal sex, it is a spiritual experience. She really gets off at just seeing me in so much writhing pleasure. The share doesn't really give her much feeling, but the sheer joy of giving me the most amazing orgasms is enough for her. It gets her really hot. When we have intercourse afterwards, she just let's loose and squirts all over me!! 😀

Our ability to communicate has been the key to opening up her mind to the idea of pegging. I can't stress it enough. Communication is the key!!

@devajones, it is so refreshing to see a woman participate in the conversation. You bring a great perspective and knowledge to the group. Thank you!

Ya know, since I was finally able to tell my wife I wanted her to peg me, it has opened up our relationship even more. We have been pegging on and off for, I would say, 3 years now. When we do get the chance to peg, the experience is more than just having anal sex, it is a spiritual experience. She really gets off at just seeing me in so much writhing pleasure. The share doesn't really give her much feeling, but the sheer joy of giving me the most amazing orgasms is enough for her. It gets her really hot. When we have intercourse afterwards, she just let's loose and squirts all over me!! 😀

Our ability to communicate has been the key to opening up her mind to the idea of pegging. I can't stress it enough. Communication is the key!!

@devajones, it is so refreshing to see a woman participate in the conversation. You bring a great perspective and knowledge to the group. Thank you!

so was she really not into it when you first started?

@married2mywife thank you very much I truly appreciate your kind compliments, I really appreciate them. I wanted to say I agree with what you said above. I think lots just think of pegging as screwing a guy in the ass. For me (i think i'm somewhat like your wife from what you have described) it is much more than that. It is definitely spiritual and very erotic. The part of communication is a very key part as well. I think lots dont understand how much easier it would be if they conquered their fear of just talking to their wife about their desires.

I see so much when men say oh my wife/gf wont do that she's a prude etc...thats not the case. The real case is its all in the presentation, and as men you cant talk to a woman like you talk to your guy friends. You have to arm yourself with the correct vocabulary (no its not rocket science). Women who dont even know what pegging is once it is explained correctly want to peg men...trust me we get how deep sex is (i argue some of the best sex is the deep intimate kind...that in my opinion is the embodiment of pegging)...we are receivers by nature. Think about it sex is always penetrative for us (unless it is a lesbian pairing void of penetration), whether oral, anal, or vaginal...we have to be receptive. That receptiveness carries over into all other aspects of life as well. We are also nurturing by nature (women carry children), so your desires are something we want to fulfill, it just has to be worth our while.

Follow @married2mywife 's example he sets a stellar one.

I am loving this conversation - and the presence of both genders! Your presence here is indeed valuable, @devajones.
I recently posted my reply to a message from a woman who tried pegging once, hated it and now seems to think her guy is gay. Might be of interest to you all. I'm sure her experience and assumptions are not unique. Please feel free to copy and share the post anywhere you like. The word needs to get out there!

And by the way, If you want to send your wife/girlfriend/guyfriend/anyone to a website to learn all about pegging, keep in mind that my blog http://PeggingParadise.com combines a little kink in with the pegging, while http://Pegging101.com does not and is more for 'vanilla' couples. Refer accordingly!

Happy Pegging, everyone!
Ruby

Pegging sounds interesting.

@Canacan I guess so, although I like to watch hr cum too, just like she likes to watch me when she pegs me.

@Ruby Ryder My wife asked me if I was turning gay after the first time. I just said no, I can't help it if MY gspot is in my ass. However I never did any of the sucking on the dildo and stuff. I just like what she does and it is much more pleasurable that any prostate stim I can do by myself.

She pegged me Friday, if she can time it where the device is passing the Prostate right at the moment of your first orgasmic contraction HOLY S%^T hold on. I had an orgasm that lasted about 30-40 seconds followed by after waves that lasted about a minute. It is incredible.

She pegged me Friday, if she can time it where the device is passing the Prostate right at the moment of your first orgasmic contraction HOLY S%^T hold on. I had an orgasm that lasted about 30-40 seconds followed by after waves that lasted about a minute. It is incredible.

I know what you mean! 😀

@devajones, thank you for your affirmation. I have learned a lot in my 20 years of marriage from my best friend and wife. She had some apprehensions at first, but after showing her @Ruby_Ryder's page, she understood what I was aiming for. 🙂 It has and will continue to be a wonderful adventure. (Especially after the kids move out of the house 😉 ). I have the aneros to thank, in part, for starting this adventure. First the helix, and then the program. 🙂

Pegging sounds interesting. -- newguy8Hello, newguy8.Yeah, more than interesting. But, as many have pointed out in this thread, you need to COMMUNICATE with your wife or partner before handing her the strap-on.Cheers,Dave

@devajones, thank you for your affirmation. I have learned a lot in my 20 years of marriage from my best friend and wife. She had some apprehensions at first, but after showing her @Ruby_Ryder's page, she understood what I was aiming for. 🙂 It has and will continue to be a wonderful adventure. (Especially after the kids move out of the house 😉 ). I have the aneros to thank, in part, for starting this adventure. First the helix, and then the program. 🙂

Could not agree more! What an adventure Aneros has started for me, no, for us!

Man, my post above is a mess. Sorry about that. I don't know how to use the quote function.

Dave

I love this quote on p101, so very true!

“I absolutely can orgasm, in a very non-male way.. no ejaculate… As described by a few others, it’s sort of a mind/brain short circuiting body sensory meltdown.. I shake and quiver uncontrollably, breath very short and rapidly, and become incredibly sensitive to sounds and touch… This can go for several minutes (in one case), but usually only lasts 30-60 seconds… When it’s done I feel like I’ve run a marathon.. Exhausted and quivering… It leaves my mind cleared out like shaking an etch-a-sketch… Sign me up anytime for more :)”

@Ruby Ryder My wife asked me if I was turning gay after the first time. I just said no, I can't help it if MY gspot is in my ass. However I never did any of the sucking on the dildo and stuff. I just like what she does and it is much more pleasurable that any prostate stim I can do by myself.

What I always tell people who think pegging a guy will "turn" him gay is - what about lesbians who do strap-on play? Do they "turn" straight?

Could not agree more! What an adventure Aneros has started for me, no, for us!

Well said @mostinteresting1

Found this video and had to share it with you.
Hope you like it

http://xhamster.com/movies/3401595/pegging_groove.html

nothing better then to be tied up and getting pegged by his wife and with him there

I shouldnt knock it until I try it, but damn that looks like it would hurt for some reason. I really liked the girl smoking though LOL.

@inverknew The tied up part maybe not, but the pegging doesn't hurt, it is actually amazing.

@ineverknew...knowing you you'd like it you're just too rebellious for your own good. I've told your wife you are WAY overdue for a good pegging. It would get your right in line LOL

Found a store in Vegas with lots of options and variety. Can't was to get the misses out here next week!