I've been having good sessions, pegging may or may not help but don't want to go down that route yet.
@didymus
To my knowledge, pegging is the role reversal act of a woman penetrating a man with a strapon.
What you are talking about is not pegging. This is confusing.
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@didymus Yeah I know, the other thread is to blame. It has been told to the OP already... He should change his thread's name. Of course none of what is said there is about pegging. Starting with that any anal insertion would be pegging. Soon aneros would be considered pegging too... There is no limit.
This is the real subject where we talk of the real thing.
Sorry for being so bothersome. Just trying to avoid the nonsense spreading.
...I also happen to love pegging with passion and be turned down by solo dildo play. See? The subjects really are distinct.
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To clarify (please excuse my language):
Pegging is when a woman straps on a dildo and fucks a guy in the ass.When a man takes a suction cup dildo or a toy (NJoy Purewand, which I HIGHLY recommend) and fucks himself in the ass, that is a man fucking himself in the ass, or solo anal play.
When a lesbian straps one on and fucks another lesbian, that's lesbian strap-on sex.
When a man fucks a woman in the ass, that's called anal sex.
When a man fucks a man in the ass, that's called anal sex, too.
In one of her blog posts the lovely and gracious @ruby Ryder wrote this about a guy who had just had his first pegging orgasm:
"Who is ever prepared for an orgasm ten times more powerful than anything you have ever experienced? People can tell you it’s more intense but not until you feel everything tighten up just before you come, which intensifies the feeling of that toy sliding in and out of your ass, and then the sensation of all that come exploding out of your cock with more force than you’ve ever experienced, or perhaps taking you back to when you were 18. I’ve been told it will blow your mind."
This absolutely sums up my experience.
I'm sorry but when I've used the aneros in the past, using it GENTLY it caused me bruising and damage, not amazing orgasms. I just don't see it.
Also you shoot when you cum from this? not a prostate O?
To me pegging is all about the love connection.
The rest doesn't matter.
@xtimedt69
Congratulations!
@Canacan you are correct. Watching and feeling her and touch is an enhancement. Plus she is not rough it is slow and loving. soothing.
@inhope It is a traditional ejaculation with direct prostate stim, if it is timed where she is passing the prostate at the magic moment with the contractions begin it is incredible .... for me anyway.
Now my prostate is more awake and regular Aneros feels 10 times better.
@Canacan NO S^&T! It has been 20 years since I was hornier after than before and I am so hot for her right now. I was telling @devajones that pegging feeds my desire for her and then she feeds my desire for pegging it is a vicious cycle.
@Pspotsquirter thanks brother I appreciate it.
@Canacan OH Yeah! Lucky I didn't discover this as an 18 year old, I wouldn't have done much of anything else.
I'm sorry but when I've used the aneros in the past, using it GENTLY it caused me bruising and damage, not amazing orgasms. I just don't see it.
Also you shoot when you cum from this? not a prostate O?
What kind of damage? If using the aneros gently caused you bruising and "damage" you might want to consult with an MD. Find one who knows about pelvic floor dysfunction in men, because tight muscles could cause an oversensitive prostate. You are not the only one who is this sensitive to prostate stimulation. http://physical-therapy.advanceweb.com/Features/Article-1/A-Male-Malady.aspx
This is more what I like:
http://www.tubecup.com/videos/169130/strapon-tattooed-guy-is-pegged-by-his-sexy-brunette-girlfriend/?promo=10306
Slow, sensual, no dom or rough .... it is sexy and respectful.
Well my friends, I think I mentioned the awkwardness of making the missionary position work on the first two sessions, well she must have been thinking about it, because she figured it out and it was pure bliss.
Hmmm ... about a month ago I discussed pegging with the wife ... it came up a couple of more times ... I showed her some toys ... now she is HOT for it. Kind of surprised.
In addition to the fact that she is thinking about it, she has NEVER had any interest in butt play, but the other night she had me rub on hers. For 20 years, if I got close she would close her ass cheeks like a jail door.
Very interesting indeed.
xtimedt69: I tried to quote your post then add a comment but it wouldn't work.
Anyway, it took me 18 years before I could approach my wife about pegging. When I did, I was surprised she was curious about it too. She allowed my to play with her rear but I wanted her to play with mine. With a little internet research on her part, she was all for it. After the first couple of tries, she started to get the hang of it and now when we have the time to, it is amazing. She really gets into it and that makes it more intense for me as well. The orgasms are amazing! Happy Pegging!
@married2mywife My wife sure seems to like it, but she says she likes it mostly because I do, but she musters great enthusiasm. I have nicknamed her peg, she calls me Peg-E when she is frisky. Today she texted me "Thinking about you, Peg"
@xtimedt69 Sounds awesome! Which way do you prefer? So far for me being on bottom has given me the most intense orgasms. We use the Share by fun factory. It took my wife some time to be able to keep it in without a harness, but she has gotten good at it. She has always had strong PC muscles. 😀
@married2mywife we have tried her on top and her behind. Her on top is MUCHO better. I showed her the Share and she says she wants to master this one first. Does she say it feels good to her?
@devajones says hers feels good.
@married2mywife we have tried her on top and her behind. Her on top is MUCHO better. I showed her the Share and she says she wants to master this one first. Does she say it feels good to her?
I think for her, the closeness and the skin contact brings more pleasure than having the bulb inside her. Not having a "barrier" with the harness feels great. It will take practice to be able to hold the bulb inside. You may even have to "prepare" her before you will be able to insert the bulb end. Strong PC muscles go a long way to be able to hold it in.
@married2mywife I will end up getting her one. The harness she has looks very sex and feminine and she likes slipping it on for me.
@married2mywife which is awesome? I am getting her one or she looks sexy or she slips it on for me to watch? :bz
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I'm amazed your wife can hold the Share inside. My wife tried a number of times and couldn't do it. We've had better luck with the Happy Valley Tango in a SpareParts harness.
Carry on, dude.
Dave