Pegging

And congratulations on your first pegging! It's usually a little awkward in the beginning, but it's fun to practice until you get really good!

@Ruby Rider we have this one:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0016NCDLY/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1


With this attachment:


http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000PHJB26/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i01?ie=UTF8&psc=1


It was not really long enough for her to get it in where it needs to go with her really straining. Some of it could be she is a woman and doesn't know how to do it, as a man I know how to get in just about any angle. Perhaps more practice


She has me call her Peg now and she calls me Peg-E .... this morning as she was leaving the bed room and I was going into the bathroom, she stopped and said "hey, good morning Peg-E and smiled and walked away.


I had to go to the store and I picked her up a bouquet of flowers and got her a sweet card and toled her thanks for the great adventure, can't wait to try again. Laid them on the table and put "Peg" on the envelope. She put them in a vase. We had company today and she kept finding me alone a kissing me saying Hi Peg-E ....


So who knows what will happen.

Flowers! How sweet. You two sound like you are really having fun with this and that's awesome. Keeping a sense of fun and lightheartedness when exploring new sexual territory is good. Especially because there will be the awkward moments and you can both laugh. I love the passion i am hearing, too!

The harness you have is great but the dildo is too short in my opinion. I usually recommend people get a dildo that is 6" long and 1.25 in diameter. So the thickness is fine, but the 5" is too short to allow a variety of positions and decent thrusting without falling out. If either or both of you have lovely large bodies, 7" would be good.

Have patience with her learning curve...it just means more practice, right? 😉

Good positions for beginners are cowboy - where she lays flat and you ride her, and the chairman:

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(Sorry for the incredibly hot picture...)

Sorry for the incredibly hot picture...

Like you were. 😉

Care to name the gear if you can?

My best guess for that dildo is either the Vixskin Outlaw or Johnny by Vixen Creations.

@Ruby Ryder I am very fortunate to have a loving and fun loving wife. But, when I ask about her getting more out of it, she says she only cares about me getting something out of it. It is very puzzling, I know she likes it, because of the way she teases about it, but she won't admit it straight on but will say she does it for me and that it doesn't really maker her horny per se. Just an observation, although I dont think she is being fully truthful about what she gets out of it, because she is clearly enjoying it and enthusiatic.

So what attachment(s) would you recommend that a) are long enough b) are not but busting huge c) are not $100.00? Is there a resource to find a variety of them? When I do a search of "Strap On Dildos" I get a bunch of harnesses and a lot of junk. Plus a great many of the attachments are 5-5.5".

Personally, I think 7" would work, with the small one she really had to push deep and was at the limit and in an uncomfortable position, so the extra length would allow her more control.

The position above was the one I was going to try next I think it will work nicely. Right now it is important that I am able to see and feel and kiss her.

@Ruby Ryder I think I just figured out my own question. Her reaction is like mine when I may not be in the hottest mood, but I go down on her and she gets really into it and then I get hot, so while it is not the pegging, her watching me get into then makes her hot. Is that about right?

Can anyone read this subject without getting an instant hard on?
Not me!

@Canacan Well, not anymore! :bz

@Ruby Ryder This has made me feel like a 16 year old kid again and I have re-fallen in love with my wife like a dumbstruck kid. She is being so cool and sexy about it, teasing me. A year ago, I would have never believed that doing THIS would have that effect and be so damn HOT! The vision of her doing it is driving me crazy! In a good way.

Agreed, Canacan!

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@xtimedt69 - This is exactly what I do - I take an immense amount of pleasure from my partner's pleasure. Even if I don't orgasm, I am dripping when I'm done pegging. Pegging is not how I come but it's what I love. And it turns my crank like nothing else. So I guess I'm different from her in that it does absolutely make me horny. But give thanks that she enjoys pegging you! Perhaps she will get to the point where she freely admits it turns her on before long. But even if she doesn't - she's pegging you!Tantus just came out with a 7.25 inch x 1.25 diameter dildo called the Slow Drive Long which would be just right for you, I think.


"Right now it is important that I am able to see and feel and kiss her."
I totally love this - so intimate.


@Canacan - Lady boners included, yes.

@Ruby Ryder well I am hooked and I know she likes it, even if she is coy about admitting it. She is a woman who even if she likes something will rarely initiate it. I have told her my dreams and fantasies, but she almost never reveals hers.

I just feel more connected to the experience when I can see and touch her and it was a huge turn on (for Both) when I grabbed her ass and pulled her in harder. She liked that! You know anything about the Tantus P-Spot? That one looked interesting.

@Ruby Ryder I have read few reviews on the Slow Drive and many say it is better for Rocking than thrusting I was looking at the Sport Long

I got this:


http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005VK9LH2/ref=oh_details_o00_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1


Little large and the ridges make it a little uncomfortable. Luckily I tried it solo first.

Always good to read the reviews!


Good reads before buying to avoid toxic or unsterilizable toys:
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2010/10/sex-toys-making-you-sick/
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/07/skin-like-dildos/

@Ruby Ryder the reviews on Amazon were generally good for that toy. But it is too big, gonna get the tantus.

Try these to get you in mood 🙂

http://www.youporn.com/watch/8707432/awsome-pegging-couple/

http://www.tube8.com/amateur/strapon-pegging/2040571/

http://www.hardsextube.com/video/1478722/Sexy-wife-fucks-husbands-ass-with-strapon

http://www.hardsextube.com/video/1136871/Hottest-strap-on-couple-ever-fucking-in-his-ass

@inhope I am in the mood and Peg came for a visit last night. :bz

@inhope that blond would rip me aparty HOLY SMOKES

Anyone else ad the experience where pegging seems to have awakened the Prostate. Last night she pegged me and today I am having P-waves that are awesome.

Shouldn't pegging be bad/dangerous for the prostate? The vigorous nature of it? I thought prostate stimulation was about subtlety and being gentle?

@inhope not bad or dangerous for the prostate unless one is being unnecessarily rough or beating away on it with reckless abandon and ignoring all signals of pain. Pegging is not always vigorous...a lot of vids show it that way, but there are some (the one's i prefer) that are not, they are more intimate.

Intimate or no, comparatively it Is vigorous to how a typical aneros session is

Shouldn't pegging be bad/dangerous for the prostate? The vigorous nature of it? I thought prostate stimulation was about subtlety and being gentle?

Excellent question. Prostates seem to respond to a variety of different intensities of stimulation. Since it is a gland - one must take care not to batter it. But that's not really what is happening with pegging. The idea of pegging may seem very harsh after the subtleties of the Aneros sessions. But consider the angle. You are sliding along the side of the gland in most cases, not poking it directly. Quite vigorous sessions of pegging take place every day all around the world and men are not popping up with prostate damage because of it (or they'd be talking about it somewhere on the internet). There's no science, but a health professional told me the prostate can get bruised. So nothing sharp, trim nails and don't use hard objects, which is why I don't use glass or ceramic dildos for pegging.The cardinal rule - if it hurts, stop!

@inhope my experience so far is quite good. It is not violent on the prostate it is rather like a firm massage. I had to slow her down. But when she got it it is quite nice. Then the next day it is like it wants more.

Hello, all.

My experience is that pegging does not cause any prostate soreness. We go either slow and deep, or shallow and rapid, using a double dildo: Tango by Happy Valley in a Spareparts harness. However, my wife has noticed that she can get sore if her end is not lubed really well.

Glad to hear it's working out for xtimedt69.

Cheers,

Dave

It actually makes my prostate feel pretty damn good after.

@inhope...thinking of what @xtimedt69 stated his pegging results were (increased prostate sensations)...maybe a good pegging would enhance your Aneros results...just a thought, I know you've been having a tough time at this, it might help.

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