Pegging

Hey, big jimbo!

Looks like Ruby and I have hijacked your thread. I'm guessing you don't mind.

Here's a web page of Feeldoe pix you will probably like: FeelDoe - Imgur

Thanks for starting this thread, It's the longest one on Aneros, by far.

Cheers,

Dave

Pegging Survey (Please vote)
http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
Tool comparison photo:
http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
Wet HFO by strap-on:
Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
Strap-on image gallery:
Strap-on Images

Hello big jimbo - If you like the strap-on image gallery, a friend of mine has a classy tumblr blog with great pictures and fine writing: New Ryder's Strap-on Log. No relation! Or perhaps a brother from another mother or something...lol. You'll find some great stuff there.

Thanks Ruby and Dave, I just looked at both of them and look forward to more.

Well seems I'll be trying out pegging soon. 🙂

My girlfriend enjoys watching and caressing me whilst using the progasm and loves how much pleasure it gives me.
I've been curious about being pegged but never brought it up, instead hoping she would first.

Well she did, firstly mentioning she'd feel weird doing it, but now seems turned on by the idea.
I've affirmed my curiosity by basically telling her it'd be amazing if SHE was giving me the pleasure the aneros gives me by fucking me.
This turned her on even more. We then had a quick look for strap-on sets followed by some awesome sex. 😉

Any suggestions on what to get?

We both decided it would have to be curved to massage my prostate, not too big that she'd be frightened of hurting me and it must not look like a penis.

Quite excited. 😀

That's great news, Progra!

You can look back in this thread to see various setups couples use, including mine, which I no longer recommend. (SpareParts Joque harness and Vixen Creations N e x u s Senior Double Dildo or Feeldoe Slim -- we've used both.)

If I were buying a pegging rig now, I'd get the Outlaw Leather Annie O harness (they sell cosmetically defective ones cheap), and two single dildos: one picked by you for yourself and the other by your wife, for her. That way, the setup is optimal for both parties.

Have fun,

Dave

Pegging Survey (Please vote)
http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
Tool comparison photo:
http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
Wet HFO by strap-on:
Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
Strap-on image gallery:
Strap-on Images

Last night we did it. 🙂 Fueled by vodka we ventured into strapon world and it was amazing! The dildo was a bit thin and maybe a little short but still felt good. The vodka, though relaxed me, numbed the feelings slightly so only had mini-O's. We must have tried every position known to man! This morning we went at it again and was not far from cumming but was disturbed by a visitor, lol. But I was close enough and came just by concentrating on the feelings left by the fucking. Was awesome. Will probs have to invest in a larger toy as this was a beginners bit of kit, but thoroughly enjoyed my maiden voyage....and my girlfriend found it EXTREMELY horny and can't wait to do it again when the coast is clear.

Progra - Congratulations! Sounds like it went quite well for your first experience. I love that your girlfriend was turned on by pegging. Lucky you. Most people end up going right back to the toy store after breaking in the beginner's kit. Makes it tempting to tell people - Buy once and buy quality. But that's a bit of cash to drop on something you are not sure both of you are going to enjoy. Have fun selecting your new dildo! And may you have a clear coast very soon...

Had another go last weekend which reinforced the need for a bigger dildo to me.Still feels good and the amount my girlfriend gets turned on by doing me is very hot!I can tell she's hesitant in going bigger yet due to the cost of this beginner set and also I think she's worried I won't be able to take a larger dildo.I'll give it a few more sessions then push the idea more.

Congrats, Progra! You can get the feeling of a bigger dildo just by changing positions. The angle of attack counts for a lot. To try out a fatter dildo's effect without paying the price, try putting a cock sleeve on the one you have. Roll a condom over it and you're good to go. Cheers, Dave

Cheers 🙂 Lying flat face down I've found is the best 'angle of attack'. She agreed today for us to get a bigger, more favorably angled dildo, so will be looking online together this weekend. You should see her face when I mention anything about strapon sex, she proper gets a sex face on, lol.

Hi there, An update on the Johnny vixskin dildo. I was able to insert it without pain this time,took it real slow. First in the shower,playing with it but did not get it in then. Afterwards i laid down and put some shea butter on the vixskin and some inside me,got it inside me very slow but without pain. Pushed it almost all the way in and let it stay there,moving it in and out is still a bit to much for now. Hopefully i get the hang of it because on an earlier session i got it just in but because it hurt i took it out and when it was out i got a wonderfull short sensation,like a quivering anus. Did that a few times with always the same sensation but had to stop because getting it in was a bit much. So for now i used the vixskin like an aneros session,relax and breath,it was a great session. I'm happy i bought this,it's a nice quality toy alongside my many aneros products. It's soft on the outside,beautiful made,when you feel it it's like a real cock even the flexibility. Going to use it once and awhile to get familiar with the size first before atempting to pegging. Keep you posted,

I d suggest you to get, if you can, a narrower one (Mustang, Bandit, check the reviews on Eden fantasys and shevibe, for example) for the regular basis use and save the Johnny for some occasional times until you ll get used to the less girthy. You have to learn what can provide you pleasant feelings, what are the best positions, angles etc, and to achieve this goal, you have to be comfortable with it in place and movement. This one seems to be too big for you at this stage of your journey.

Gents; There seems to be a popular misconception about dick size, that bigger is always better. For anal sex, I doubt it. I get better pegging results with the Feeldoe Slim than with the Vixen Double Senior. Vaginal sex is another story entirely. I dated a small woman who was very large in that one area. Her birth control diaphragm was the size of a teacup saucer. No joke. I'm sure she would have appreciated the Johnny Vixskin. Cheers, Dave

In my experience it is quite individual. Some men really like a firmer, more rigid dildo so it hits their prostate with a bit more force. Some men hate the more firm dildos and love the softer ones. Some men enjoy girth a lot - it's what really gets them off. Others can't take the girth; it's just uncomfortable. I guess it's not a one size fits all asses kind of pegging world out there...

Ruby makes a good point. Does every woman like the exact same penis style? It's all about personal taste. Aside from the Feeldo or Fun Factory's Share, what are some other models that give back to the woman also? I know when my girl used the strap-on, she said it was too much work for her to not get anything in return. Are there harness style models that have insertion for the woman also?

Hello, Rika. There's one harness that will hold any two flare-base dildos: Annie O by Outlaw Leather. That way, your girl can pick the dildo she likes best, with or without a vibe, and you can do the same. You might want a 7 by 1.5 and she might want a 9 by 2, or vice versa. 🙂 Cheers, Dave

rikaaim - Regarding Dave's suggestion of Outlaw Leather's harnesses (which all hold 2 dildos) they seem to be out of stock everywhere and not much action on the website - I wrote and asked them if they are still manufacturing and have yet to hear back. The only place I found them was at the Smitten Kitten online (and you can get 20% off with promo code RAD). I have the Annie O and enjoy using a vibe dildo (Vixen Creations Champlette Vibe which is 6" x 1 5/8"). I'm still working towards having an orgasm while pegging, but the vibe is definitely a thrill. Another thought is the Spare Parts Joque harness. The newer models have a pocket for a bullet vibe to slip into that might work well if she is more clit-oriented than G-spot-oriented. And the Spare Parts harness is ultimately comfortable and washable, too. Best price for that is probably SheVibe.com. Just make sure you get the one with the pocket, as the older models of the Joque don't have it.

Ordered the Tantus Acute today. 🙂

Not too much a jump in size from our beginners dildo, a bit thicker....but the bulbous end should be a major difference.
Looking forward to receiving it in the post and then from my girlfriend. 😉

What a great buy it was!!!

Had mini-o after mini-o, was fantastic. She's so into it, directs the position changes and knows when to grind or when to thrust hard. Enjoying immensely.
This was topped off by me enjoying my Progasm the following morning whilst she teased and sucked my nipples.
Bliss.

I love hearing success stories! Thanks for sharing, Progra.

I was going to post this in my blog, but it will not let me.
Some problem from that hacking I suppose.
Some miserable people with little to do.
Anyway here it is.

Life can indeed be a unpredictable thing.

Last year when the wife arrived back from her "Travels"
the Aneros and anything like it was a gay thing.

This year on her return the situation had changed.
On a few occasions there was a wandering digit.
Eventually it was inserted during a blow job.

She told me she had been to a sex shop with a friend and had seen a harness.
This reminded her of our purple toy(Feeldoe)
Where was it ?
Where you left it dear.

A few days later she decided to shave me from front to rear.
Me being on all fours at the completion, contact !!!!!!

A rimming followed, wow!!!!!!!!!!

Was there more ?

The purple toy was introduced.

To cut a long story short I finished up on my back well penetrated.
There was a vibrating hum in the crown of my head.
I had experienced this before.
What followed was something new.

The vibrating hum spread to both hands, quite a strong sensation.
Then lower arms, then both lips, then jaw muscles.
Finally finishing down my right leg to my foot.
Very strange feeling.
It continued for over an hour at a strong rate.

I felt unwilling/unable to move during this time.
I just lay there humming.
It was not some "O" just a transfer of energy.

When I finally had to move things were a bit unsteady.
The sensation in my hands disappeared over a few hours.

A milestone in my journey. Few and far between.
Also she has discovered my nipples.

What a delightful and adventuresome year it sounds like you had. I loved the description of the "vibrating hum" that traveled over your body - awesome!

Nice update Voyager! That's awesome that your wife got back into trying this with you. Very happy for you. 🙂

After reading this thread for two years I finally got up the nerve to ask my wife to peg me. She agreed to try it without hesitation. Wish I would have asked earlier. Before I pull the trigger on the equipment I wanted to get opinions from the experts. I originally wanted to purchase the Outlaw Annie-O but can't find it in stock anywhere. The model that I'm considering now is the Asian Leather Jaguar. For the business end I'm considering the Vixen Mistress. From what I read so far on this thread it seems like both choices are acceptable for the beginner but just wanted to get a second or third opinion.
Thanks,
N

Hello, neubie.

Like your own wife, there are probably a lot of GFs and wives of guys here who would agree to try pegging if asked. I understand how difficult making the request can be. Frankly, I didn't have the nerve to ask; I just handed the thing to her and said something along the lines of, "how about trying this?" Stupid tactic, I know. Fortunately for me, my wife was willing.

Your choices of dildo and harness look good to me. Maybe Ruby Ryder will chime in. I'd say she's the pegging expert around here.

Have fun with it!

Dave

neubie - What exciting news! I commend you on your courage, Sir.

The Aslan Jaguar is a very luxurious harness, good choice. It sits low (good for pressure on her where it counts), will accommodate the dildo you selected as well as larger diameter ones (up to 2" which is pretty freaking large), plus it can accommodate a double-ended dildo if you want to try that in the future (fun for later but not for the beginner).

The Vixen Mistress I think is perfectly sized for the beginner. And having used it on a few (ahem) "beginners", I know of what I speak. It is long enough so that you can try different positions without it falling out, too.

Great choices! Here is a place I have found with the best prices for the Mistress and the Jaguar:
http://www.shevibe.com/mistress-silicone-dildo-by-vixen.aspx
http://www.shevibe.com/aslan-jaguar-harness.aspx

(I wrote Outlaw leather and asked if they are still manufacturing but have not received a response. I do hope they are still in business...)

Dave and Ruby,
Thanks for your quick response. Before purchasing the Aslan harness I showed it to my wife one more time to make sure she liked it. She commented that she really liked the look of the Annie-O. So, I did one more internet search. As luck would have it I found a site, FB Botique, that had five Annie-Os in stock (now four). I read great things about Outlaw harnesses; ufortunately, I was told that they are going out of business. Now I know why I had so much trouble finding one. Their website is still up so perhaps they are hoping that someone will buy the business.

Ruby, I used your SheVibe recommendation and purchased the Vixen Mistress for me and the Woody vibrating dildo for my wife. I'm am anxiously awaiting delivery.
Thanks again,
N

neubie;

Have an update? I'm really interested to know how the new hardware works for you two.

Cheers,

Dave

There are all types just google Pegging

Dave,
Three days after we received the new equipment my wife texted a picture to me while I was at work. She was wearing nothing but the Outlaw Annie-0 and the Vixen Mistress. The caption under the picture read "I'm ready are you?". My response "hell yeah!"

Ok, now for the details. Since it was her first time she decided to keep things simple and only used one dildo. At her request we started out doggie style. We quickly discovered that the mechanics a woman screwing a man are not as easy as we assumed they would be. We quickly moved through several other positions including; me lying flat on my stomach, missionary and my favorite me on top.

Go figure, the best position was the one where I was in control. I'm sure the other positions will get better with time once I learn how to relax. I was able to achieve a traditional O but not because of prostate contact. I believe I cheated by using her stomach to create a little friction while I was grinding. All in all it was a wonderful experience for both of us and we are looking forward to our next adventure. I'll keep you posted.
N

The Annie-O harness performed flawlessly with one dildo. I'll provide an update on how well it works with two dildos once we try that option. The only concern I have with the harness is how best to clean the leather. Another big thanks goes out to Ruby for recommending the Mistress. The size was perfect. As of now, I see no reason to go bigger.