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(@ruby-ryder)
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Hi Ruby,

Mostly fit. We cant really seem to get it to work well when my wife and I try to use it together. It just seems to keep falling out either side. I read some reviews after the fact and there are many similar stories.

I thought that perhaps I was missing something.

That sounds frustrating. Some couples have that issue with other doubles, too, no matter what equipment they are using. I chalk it up to the wide variety of body shapes trying to use a limited variety of equipment.


   
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Awesome AmazingAneros. Looking forward to my own experience soon. My wife waxes and wanes when it comes to anal possibilities. Recently, she banged me from behind....humping her womanhood into my rosebud. I also got some very nice exterior fingering while getting a serious bj. Love to get a bj, anal stim. and nipple play at the same time!


   
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Awesome AmazingAneros. Looking forward to my own experience soon. My wife waxes and wanes when it comes to anal possibilities. Recently, she banged me from behind....humping her womanhood into my rosebud. I also got some very nice exterior fingering while getting a serious bj. Love to get a bj, anal stim. and nipple play at the same time!

If you are trying to work towars pegging - had she listened to podcast #112?
I recorded a podcast for women to listen to after introducing them to the idea of pegging.

http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/

It address all the usual fears and misconceptions, offers accurate information and emphasizes the *relationship*, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first because only you can decide if it is appropriate for your partner. So far, this podcast has gotten rave reviews!


   
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Checking in on the pegging post - hope you are all well and good!

Two pieces of news.

One - I am now teaching 3 different webinars, beginners, equipment and advanced, all for free.

Register here: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/webinar-signup/

Two - there's a new toy that I'm pretty excited about. It's a double (must be used with a harness!) that has 3 different vibes! The review is here


   
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@ruby-ryder , welcome back!  It's great to see you back and your topic of pegging has always been intriguing and fun at the same time.   I must say I have the best life partner I could get but pegging is definitely not her cup of tea.  It's too bad...

Good luck in your ventures; I hope to read more about you and pegging down the road.

BTW, the 'new toy on the block ' looks GREAT!

Stay safe.  G


   
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Whoah, THE @ruby-ryder is on this forum?!? Cooooool. Hey Ruby, thanks for being, and for doing what you do!

I still haven’t gotten into pegging, but your presence here has motivated me to give it another try. The one time I did it I had trouble relaxing because of the lack of control involved, but it was with a partner who didn’t know my butt at all, and I am very sensitive to pressure, especially at the far end of my rectum. I very often get fucked by a dildo that a partner controls with their hand. I find this suits my preferences for slow and intentional (directional?) anal play, like one in and out stroke every 30-60 seconds. It is basically like have a big aneros toy that slowly moves around, and it is highly orgasmic for me. When it gets too rough or too fast I lose sensation and interest, and just want to ejaculate. Which is why I don’t like vibrating dildos. But I probably just need to invest in a good strap on belt that would allow my partner maximum control to go very slowly. Because I see the appeal of being fucked hands free, allowing my partner to touch my body and kiss me.

Anyone have a good recommendation for a strapon harness suitable for my plus sized sweetheart (5’8” 180 pounds) that I can get in Europe? Price isn’t an issue, I prefer paying once for high quality instead of shelling out multiple times for crap...


   
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@jasblevins1 doesn't it feel good to be stuffed ? back when my wife use to peg me I really got to where I liked it. 

 


   
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Hello All!

Just checking in with everyone here on the forum. I know it's been years, and during those years we have all been through a lot with the pandemic. Hope you all well and safe.

Here's the update on my latest educational endeavors around Pegging.

New website The Art of Pegging
I have a lot of info there. All my podcasts (just posted up #299!), all my tiktok videos, erotica, and webinar signups. I do now have my beginner's webinar recorded, and I still offer all 3 webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) regularly for free.

My Pegging Paradise blog is still going strong as well. I post my equipment reviews and kinkier articles/stories there.

If anyone is wanting to tell their partner about pegging but is hesitate to start the conversation:

Sometimes fears and misconceptions around Pegging can get in the way of responding rather than reacting to those myths and assumptions. For this reason I am a fan of having accurate information before the final decision is made. In that spirit, I recorded two podcasts; one for givers and one for receivers.
 
 
 
These recordings address all the usual fears and misconceptions, offer accurate information and emphasize the relationship, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first before playing it for your partner, because only you can decide if it is appropriate for them. So far, these podcasts have gotten rave reviews. Good luck!
 
Lastly - I am here for your questions and have subscribed for email notifications for this thread!

   
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Glad to see you back Ruby! Thanks for news on your updates, it sounds great I'll be in there soon. See you around the forum!


   
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