Here's a quick tip. Have some good sex, do not ejaculate, then wait 5 - 20 minutes and insert the aneros. It also helps if you've not ejaculated for a while and thus giving you a high sex drive/arousal. Insert the aneros and manually apply pressure with the aneros to your prostate to get that "need to pee" sensation. You should have some cum drip or even spill out. This should take 10 - 60 seconds. Don't keep pushing it...
01/15/2011